Kwa wanawake tu: Let's face it!

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Leo nimekaa nikifikiria sana kuhusu suali hili:
How natural am I? What is fake, what is not?
Wanaume na wanawake wengi tunachukia fake
Fake hair, nails, fake eyelashes, fake skin tone

Lakini mbali na hayo, kuna mengine mengi tu.
nafanya katika jina la usafi ila nadhani nimezidi
Sijui wanawake wengine mnalichukuliaje suala hili
Ngoja nijaribu kutoa mfano wangu binafsi kwanza:

Naamka asubuhi, natumia toothpaste na mouthwash
then natumia a facial scrub, a cleansing soap, tonifier
Nikimaliza natumia a shampoo, a conditioner, lotion
Then a mild vaginal soap (deodorizing, cleansing)

Nikiwa na muda natumia hair cream (treatment)
Natumia na clay au peel-off mask, soothing mask
Nashave kwa kushave, na-tweeze kwa kutweeze
Nawax kwa ku-wax and I apply a soothing cream

then dressing: natumia shine control, napaka foundation
Naweka ka makeup kwa mbali (wanja ni suna bwana)
Nachana nywele, nazifunga sawa, deodorant, perfume,
Navaa hijab yangu, naenda sasa kupata compliment:

Ah Mwali, umependeza sana. hunaga makuu kama XXX
Yani kapoda, kawanja and that's it. you are "Natural"
But how natural are we jamani? Hata usafi wenyewe...
Nimekua na shaka sana, nataka nijui nyie mnafanyaje.

Kaunga · Jul 13, 2012

Nafanya almost everything lkn.
1. Scrubing weekend tu.
2. Situmii any vaginal soap
3. Sishave miguu yangu (ingawa wengi hawaamini)

Na nijisikia huru kujiita natural ingawa nywele nimezitreat kidogo ili kuzichana iwe rahisi.

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Kaunga said:
Nafanya almost everything lkn.
1. Scrubing weekend tu.
2. Situmii any vaginal soap
3. Sishave miguu yangu (ingawa wengi hawaamini)

Na nijisikia huru kujiita natural ingawa nywele nimezitreat kidogo ili kuzichana iwe rahisi.

Asante for your honesty. Suali langu sasa linakuja:
Do you feel "natural"? au you feel moderately fake?
Kama ni suala la usafi tu mbona wanaume hawatumii?

Catherine · Jul 13, 2012

Fake hair, fake nails, fake......, hivyo ndivyo vinawapa wanawake wengi confidence. Imagine una nywele zako za kipilipili na huzifurahii, kwanini usitupie kiwigi chako hapo uweze jiamini.

Neiwa · Jul 13, 2012

Mwanamke lazima ujipende Mwali, na kujipenda kumetofautiana, wengine bila vitu vya ziada anaona kama hajapendeza (kucha, nyusi, etc). Kwa upande wangu vitu kama conditioners, facial scrub, na usafi wa ziada wa mwili ni once in two weeks for mazingira yaruhusu. Natumia sabuni aina moja tu toka mtoto hadi ukubwani, ngozi yangu sensitive in react negatively with foreign entity, sipaki rangi kucha za mikono wala sifugi kucha. Simaanishi sipendi urembo, minimaly naweza qualify.

I know siwezi kuwa 100% natural, but i try to be as natural as i can get. Walau isiwe chini ya 90%.

King’asti · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali, I'm natural and carefree. I'm extremely comfortable in my own skin. Trust me!

But seriously, urembo ni fake! Na wanasema there is only two kinds of women, the beautiful and the lazy ones.

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Catherine said:
Fake hair, fake nails, fake......, hivyo ndivyo vinawapa wanawake wengi confidence. Imagine una nywele zako za kipilipili na huzifurahii, kwanini usitupie kiwigi chako hapo uweze jiamini.

Mi sijasema hata huko kote Catherine. Hair, nails.. no
Hizo tunajua they are fake. Nauliza kuhusu huu "usafi"
Baada ya kutumia hizo products zote tutasema I am natural?

Kaunga · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Asante for your honesty. Suali langu sasa linakuja:
Do you feel "natural"? au you feel moderately fake?
Kama ni suala la usafi tu mbona wanaume hawatumii?

I feel natural ndicho nilichosema, coz hiyo makeup kidogo nairemove usiku before sleeping n l can wet my hair any time l feel like.

Wanaume wanashave with cream baadaye wanapaka sijui kitu ya kuzuia vipele (after shave), wanatumia deo pia, perfume etc. Na wao huscrub nyuso zao weekly.

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Neiwa said:
Mwanamke lazima ujipende Mwali, na kujipenda kumetofautiana, wengine bila vitu vya ziada anaona kama hajapendeza (kucha, nyusi, etc). Kwa upande wangu vitu kama conditioners, facial scrub, na usafi wa ziada wa mwili ni once in two weeks for mazingira yaruhusu. Natumia sabuni aina moja tu toka mtoto hadi ukubwani, ngozi yangu sensitive in react negatively with foreign entity, sipaki rangi kucha za mikono wala sifugi kucha. Simaanishi sipendi urembo, minimaly naweza qualify.

I know siwezi kuwa 100% natural, but i try to be as natural as i can get. Walau isiwe chini ya 90%.

Sabuni unaweza tumia oja tu, ila si unaosha nywele?
Au unaosha nywele na sabuni hiyo hiyo, no conditioning?
Haya, kucha hufugi, but maybe una-wax miguu sometimes?
Hivyo vitu vidogo vidogo ndio nauliza kama bado ni "natural"

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

King'asti said:
Mwali, I'm natural and carefree. I'm extremely comfortable in my own skin. Trust me!

But seriously, urembo ni fake! Na wanasema there is only two kinds of women, the beautiful and the lazy ones.

I trust you King'asti.
But as much as you keep your skin natural
Lazima nywele uzimaintain (natural or not)
Lazima una-spend time to remove some hair
Lazima deodorants, perfumes etc. is it natural?
Kama ni usafi tu mbona wanaume hawatumii?
Wanatumia baadhi ila sisi tumezidi jamani...

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Kaunga said:
I feel natural ndicho nilichosema, coz hiyo makeup kidogo nairemove usiku before sleeping n l can wet my hair any time l feel like.

Wanaume wanashave with cream baadaye wanapaka sijui kitu ya kuzuia vipele (after shave), wanatumia deo pia, perfume etc. Na wao huscrub nyuso zao weekly.

Should we then say that being natural is subjective?
Maana hata wema sepetu atakwambia she is natural
Zile nywele ni human hair, sio synthetic (mfano)
Kunakua na viwango vya naturalness/unnaturalness?

Neiwa · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Sabuni unaweza tumia oja tu, ila si unaosha nywele?
Au unaosha nywele na sabuni hiyo hiyo, no conditioning?
Haya, kucha hufugi, but maybe una-wax miguu sometimes?
Hivyo vitu vidogo vidogo ndio nauliza kama bado ni "natural"

Nadhani nilitaja sabuni emphasizing kuwa as much as ningependa kutumia other products za kunyororesha ngozi inaniwia vigumu. In that case ingekuwa inawezekana ningetumia.. ukinisoma hapo dear utaona nimesema i use such products (conditioners plus shampoo) once in two weeks rarely more tokana na nature ya hairstyle za nyele zangu ambazo mara nyingi husukwa.. I am lucky, i don't need to wax miguu yangu... hivo vitu vidogo ndio hivo vilinifanya katika post yangu ya kwanza nisema kuwa sipo 100% but not less than 90%..

Catherine · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Mi sijasema hata huko kote Catherine. Hair, nails.. no
Hizo tunajua they are fake. Nauliza kuhusu huu "usafi"
Baada ya kutumia hizo products zote tutasema I am natural?

kama unayoyafanya hayakubadilishi sehemu yako yoyote ya mwili, yes u are natural.

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Neiwa said:
Nadhani nilitaja sabuni emphasizing kuwa as much as ningependa kutumia other products za kunyororesha ngozi inaniwia vigumu. In that case ingekuwa inawezekana ningetumia.. ukinisoma hapo dear utaona nimesema i use such products (conditioners plus shampoo) once in two weeks rarely more tokana na nature ya hairstyle za nyele zangu ambazo mara nyingi husukwa.. I am lucky, i don't need to wax miguu yangu... hivo vitu vidogo ndio hivo vilinifanya katika post yangu ya kwanza nisema kuwa sipo 100% but not less than 90%..

Hongera kwa kua 90% natural mwaya.
Mi hata sijui nisemeje, nimechanganyikiwa mahesabu
Mwanzo niliamini only fake hair, nails skin tone etc ndio fake
Hivi vingine vyote ni usafi tu wa kawaida, but I am natural
sasa nilitaka kusafiri nikaona "usafi" tu, ni kabegi kazima!

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

Catherine said:
kama unayoyafanya hayakubadilishi sehemu yako yoyote ya mwili, yes u are natural.

Nimependa hii definition yako, imenisave. lol
Havinibadilishi lolote, ni vya "usafi" tu naamini
Maana hata wakati wa swaum bado navitumia
hamna cha rangi ya kucha wala wig or weaves

Neiwa · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Hongera kwa kua 90% natural mwaya.
Mi hata sijui nisemeje, nimechanganyikiwa mahesabu
Mwanzo niliamini only fake hair, nails skin tone etc ndio fake
Hivi vingine vyote ni usafi tu wa kawaida, but I am natural
sasa nilitaka kusafiri nikaona "usafi" tu, ni kabegi kazima!

hahaha.. mie naona kujipenda haiwezi kwalifai kama being fake. Kama hivo vitu vya ziada ni kwa ajili ya kujitunza physically kwa kuwa katika hali nzuri kama vile ngozi iwe nyororo, nywele ziwe katika hali nzuri, kupendezesha kucha ni muhimu. Personally wat i consider fake in ile kubadilisha kile ambacho unacho, let say kutaka kucha ndefu zaidi ya ulizo nazo, kutaka ngozi lighter than ilivo katika hali halisi, kutaka nywele za ziada, kutaka nyusi ndefu, ndio waweza consider fake..

nitonye · Jul 13, 2012

ehe kumbe nimekosea njia!!!

Kaunga · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Should we then say that being natural is subjective?
Maana hata wema sepetu atakwambia she is natural
Zile nywele ni human hair, sio synthetic (mfano)
Kunakua na viwango vya naturalness/unnaturalness?

Hata synthetic things zimetokana na vitu vilivyopo already (Mungu keshamaliza kuumba), one can argue that way!

Sasa sijui kuwa natural unataka tisioge wala kupaka hata korie; tuwe kama wanyama basi. Kwa maoni yangu mimi naona kuweka appendages na kubadili rangi ya ngozi na nywele ndio unnatural!

Catherine · Jul 13, 2012

Mwali said:
Nimependa hii definition yako, imenisave. lol
Havinibadilishi lolote, ni vya "usafi" tu naamini
Maana hata wakati wa swaum bado navitumia
hamna cha rangi ya kucha wala wig or weaves

naomba zawadi. Lol

Mwali · Jul 13, 2012

nitonye said:
ehe kumbe nimekosea njia!!!

eeeeehhh, Nitonye! Upo? siku nyingi sana dear
hivi wewe ulikua ni shem, uncle au mchumba?
Umepotea sana hadi nimesahau uhusiano wetu
hahahahah

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