Kuwa mke mwenye mafanikio katika ndoa

Kuwa mke mwenye mafanikio katika ndoa

Herbalist Dr MziziMkavu

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KUWA MKE MWENYE MAFANIKIO KATIKA NDOA:

Ama katika kukupa njia za ziada za kulifikia lengo la kuwa mke bora, ninakushauri uzingatie nukta zifuatazo.


1. Maelewano baina yako na mume wako na kutumia lugha nzuri unapozungumza naye.


2. Kusamehe makosa yake na kutoyakuza mambo madogo madogo.


3. Kutomchunguza chunguza mume kupita kiasi. Ukaanza kumfuatilia anapoingia na kutoka.


4. Kuwa makini sana na unadhifu wa nyumba na mavazi pamoja na kutofanya khiyana dhidi ya mali za mumeo.


5. Kutumia manukato mazuri na kuvaa mavazi nadhifu na yenye kupendeza kwa ajili yake, sio mavazi ghali.


6. Kumuonesha upendo na shauku kubwa ya kuishi naye daima, hilo litamfanya akupende na kuwa na imani na wewe.


7. Kumuuliza kuhusu wasiwasi zinazomkabili na kumtaka akufunulie yaliyo moyoni mwake kama anataka kufanya hivyo, lakini usimlazimishe wala kumkasirisha kama hataki kukwambia siri zake.


8. Kuwa mwema na usiyekuwa na makuu kwa ndugu na jamaa zake.


9. Kumtegemea Mwenyezi Mungu katika kila hali na kutokasirika au kuhuzunika unapokumbana na tabu na shida mbalimbali.

Pamoja na hayo niliyokuambia, kumbuka kuwa ushuri huo utazaa matunda ikiwa utazitekeleza tunu hizo kwa moyo mmoja bila kujiongopea.
Ninakutakia mafanikio mema
 
My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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Hehehehe my sister huwez ingiza mambo yote ya serikali kuu kwenye muungano

You want to know man's privacy ???
Si kila utakachojua kuhusu mme kitakupendeza vingine vitachukiza na kama hauko imara vinaeza leta doa hata kwenye ndoa

My take fikiria kujua kile unachopaswa kujua na si kila kitu , ukimchunguza sana bata unaweza shindwa kumla
 
Sasa MziziMkavu kwa zile ndoa za kujioa hizo stress za kumuabudu binadamu mwezie si wameepuka hayo???????????????
 
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Nakubaliana na wewe kabisa MziziMkavu. Ila hapo namba 5, manukato mazuri na mavazi nadhifu ni bei ghali lol
 
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Hehehehe my sister huwez ingiza mambo yote ya serikali kuu kwenye muungano

You want to know man's privacy ???
Si kila utakachojua kuhusu mme kitakupendeza vingine vitachukiza na kama hauko imara vinaeza leta doa hata kwenye ndoa

My take fikiria kujua kile unachopaswa kujua na si kila kitu , ukimchunguza sana bata unaweza shindwa kumla

Okay.. Sasa my dear mume akianza hivi na mke akafanya hivyo hivyo. Do you think will it be Love in our marriage? Common Hui ndio utakuta so many people are unhappy and try to make another people miserable.. Only I can say if you hide something from your wife or husband then you are Guilty. No reason to hide if you Love that person .

Na ndio maana Yesu alisema wapende wake zenu kama Mimi nilivyowapenda nyie ... Na hii because yeye alipofundisha , alifundisha with authority in it and not with darkness in it. That's why He is the way of the Truth . kuficha siri in any relationships kunampa chance the devil to be between in couples' Love.. unaanza kidogo then it becomes a character and character becomes a human nature .

Sipendi kuumiza wala kuumizwa so let's be fair. Ni kuomba tuu Mungu to give us a spirit of wisdom to know how to handle the Truth and to know how to talk with our love ones .. Thanks..
 
My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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There some issues it may be too early to disclose to your wife, so inashauriwa kwa mwanamke kuwa na subira ya muda ufike na sio kung'ang'aniza.
 

7. Kumuuliza kuhusu wasiwasi zinazomkabili na kumtaka akufunulie yaliyo moyoni mwake kama anataka kufanya hivyo, lakini usimlazimishe wala kumkasirisha kama hataki kukwambia siri zake.



My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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Bibie loveissweet Sijaharibu kuna mambo mengine anafaa mume kukwambia kuna mambo mengine hafai kukwambia mume wako na kama hataki kukwambia huna haja wewe umlazimishe akwambie. huo Mstari wa 7 sijakosea kabisa.
 
Alafu mleta mada ukae ukijua kabisa kwamba kuna makosa mengine ni vigumu kusameheka
 
My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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Mambo mengine ni siri kama ilivyo siri yenyewe unatakiwa kujua wewe mwenyewe tu.
 
My brother for number 7 ilianza vizuri but hapo mwishoni ndio kuna sababisha ndoa na relationships nyingi kuvunjika , why secrets? Ninachoaamini if we are married tujifunze kuwa best friends na kutoleta no secret between us ... kama ni mkeo basi I deserve to know kuhusu kinachomuhusu mume wangu hata kama kiume vipi but mwishoni the truth will set me free ... Thanks
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Kabisa!!!!....
 
La9 lingekuwa la kwanza, ila duuuuh!! Hayo yote mimi tuuuuuu!!
 
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