Kuchapa watoto

[kui]

Tumekuwa na tabia katika jamii yetu ya kuwachapa watoto mpaka kuwaumiza (sometimes) kwa kuwaadhibu kama wamekosea, hii adhabu inawafundisha au kuwaumiza tu?

 

[HIMARS]

Vyote sawa, kumfundisha na kumuumiza ili asirudie

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Tumekuwa na tabia katika jamii yetu ya kuwachapa watoto mpaka kuwaumiza (sometimes) kwa kuwaadhibu kama wamekosea, hii adhabu inawafundisha au kuwaumiza tu?!

Corporal punishment on children is child abuse in my view.

There are so many other ways to discipline a misbehaving child that are effective.

 

[utafiti]

kui wewe hujachapwa ulipokua mdogo??

 

[Obe]

....sio kuwafundisha tu, inawaelimisha pia hasa pale inapotolewa kwa kuzingatia kosa husika.

 

[kui]

kui wewe hujachapwa ulipokua mdogo??

....sikumbuki kuchapwa mkuu!, nakumbuka kugombezwa sana but si kuchapwa, and I came out pretty good...lol!

 

[kui]

....sio kuwafundisha tu, inawaelimisha pia hasa pale inapotolewa kwa kuzingatia kosa husika.

Si kwa kuwaumiza mkuu!

 

[Obe]

Corporal punishment on children is child abuse in my view.

There are so many other ways to discipline a misbehaving child that are effective.

...you remind me of this article by Dr Michael Dyson published in the NYT last month. Nakubali kuna njia Mbadala za kumkanya mtoto mbali ya viboko. Kukomesha viboko kunaanzia nyumbani, na baadhi ya wazazi waliadhibiwa na wazazi wao na wamekuwa wakikirithisha kitendo hiki kwa kizazi chao.
Tutambue kuwa sio waafrika na waarabu pekee wanaoendeleza adhabu hii. Wazungu baadhi wanaiendeleza na kuiondoa ili kufanya ulichoandika hapo juu inahitaji ushawishi kuanzia chumbani

 

[mumemwema]

....sio kuwafundisha tu, inawaelimisha pia hasa pale inapotolewa kwa kuzingatia kosa husika.

I agree dear .Wote I'm sure tumepitia huko na ndio maana some of us imetusaidia through ourlives. SSimaanishi eti kwa sababu sisi tumefanyiwa hivyo basi na wetu pia wafanyiwe hivyo , No . Wanasema Mtoto umleavyo ndivyo akuavyo . My kids should know that its okay to do a mistake but have they think first and reasoning before decide to do it? My job is to train them and prepare them for tomorrow. It is sad that eti huwezi kumchapa mwanao anapokosa eti because other people say so , mmhhh , as long you don't abuse your kids its fine for me. Thanks!

 

[kui]

Corporal punishment on children is child abuse in my view.

There are so many other ways to discipline a misbehaving child that are effective.

Likey, likey zoote!,....Concur 100%

 

[kui]

Vyote sawa, kumfundisha na kumuumiza ili asirudie

Mkuu kumuumiza?!,

 

[rushanju]

Kuondoa viboko wa moto ni sawa na kuondoa kifo wa mtu mzima.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

...you remind me of this article by Dr Michael Dyson published in the NYT last month. Nakubali kuna njia Mbadala za kumkanya mtoto mbali ya viboko. Kukomesha viboko kunaanzia nyumbani, na baadhi ya wazazi waliadhibiwa na wazazi wao na wamekuwa wakikirithisha kitendo hiki kwa kizazi chao.
Tutambue kuwa sio waafrika na waarabu pekee wanaoendeleza adhabu hii. Wazungu baadhi wanaiendeleza na kuiondoa ili kufanya ulichoandika hapo juu inahitaji ushawishi kuanzia chumbani

I've never raised my hand to hit my daughter. Matter of fact I've never even remotely come close to it.

Mimi naamini kuwa ukijenga uhusiano mzuri na mwanao tokea akiwa mchanga basi hata kazi ya kumrudisha kwenye mstari endapo inatokea anatoka, inakuwa rahisi.

Lakini pia wakati mwingine haya mambo huwa ni mambo ya mzunguko (cycle). Binafsi sikuwahi kuchapwa wala kupigwa na wazazi wangu.

Nilipokosea waliniambia vizuri tu tena bila hata kunifokea na nilielewa nilichoambiwa nimekosea na sikurudia tena.

Hiyo ni kwa sababu nadhani baba alikuwa kajenga uhusiano mzuri sana na mimi tokea nikiwa mdogo na hivyo nilikuwa namwamini sana.

Sasa unakuta mtu anakapiga katoto ka miaka minne utadhani anapigana na mtu mzima.

That's just not right. Sasa huyo mtoto naye akija kuwa na wanae huo mzunguko wa violence si utazidi kuendelea tu.

Kupiga watoto si sawa hata kidogo.

 

[The Boss]

Kuna mitoto usipoi chapa haiendi kabisa

 

[Honey Faith]

Kuna mitoto usipoi chapa haiendi kabisa

Kweli tena kuna watoto bila viboko hawaelewi

 

[MankaM]

unaumia na unapata fundisho siku nyingne usirudie ila adhabu hii ilingane na umri wapendwa

 

[mumemwema]

Kuna mitoto usipoi chapa haiendi kabisa

Its true dear . Hakuna mzazi yeyote ambaye anapenda kumchapa mwanae hata siku moja bila sababu but sometimes they have to do it just to make sure a lesson imefika. Ninaona watoto wengi Wa nchi za nje walivyokuwa rude very rude. Utakuta Mtoto anamjibu mzazi wake whatever she/ he wants that's not good at all . yote ni kwa sababu ya malezi . Thanks!

 

[mankachara]

Bila ya kuchapwa nsingefika hapa nilipo, wenzako wengi walikua hawachapwi saivi maisha sio mazuri kwa upande wao

 

[mankachara]

Kuna mitoto usipoi chapa haiendi kabisa

ila mtoto ukimchapa kila wakati mwisho anazowea, anakua haogopi tena

 

[kui]

I've never raised my hand to hit my daughter. Matter of fact I've never even remotely come close to it.

Mimi naamini kuwa ukijenga uhusiano mzuri na mwanao tokea akiwa mchanga basi hata kazi ya kumrudisha kwenye mstari endapo inatokea anatoka, inakuwa rahisi.

Lakini pia wakati mwingine haya mambo huwa ni mambo ya mzunguko (cycle). Binafsi sikuwahi kuchapwa wala kupigwa na wazazi wangu.

Nilipokosea waliniambia vizuri tu tena bila hata kunifokea na nilielewa nilichoambiwa nimekosea na sikurudia tena.

Hiyo ni kwa sababu nadhani baba alikuwa kajenga uhusiano mzuri sana na mimi tokea nikiwa mdogo na hivyo nilikuwa namwamini sana.

Sasa unakuta mtu anakapiga katoto ka miaka minne utadhani anapigana na mtu mzima.

That's just not right. Sasa huyo mtoto naye akija kuwa na wanae huo mzunguko wa violence si utazidi kuendelea tu.

Kupiga watoto si sawa hata kidogo.

Well said Cuzzo!