The Finest
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Mpwa labda michezo ya Infidelity alikuwa haijui ndio alikuwa anaanza kujifunza
Duh Nguli hapa ulitaka kunitoa jasho.
Huyo jamaa inabidi amuoe huyo binti maana kamsababishia ndoa ivunjike.
Dah mpe pole sasa kwa nn hakuenda nayo simu ****** hata ingetumbukia ingekuwa bahati mbaya.
Yote hayo kwa mtazamo wangu ni poa tu kama huna/hana cha kuficha. Ila kama kuna/yapo ya kuficha basi lazima kutakuwa na pingamizi la namna flani....it's just as simple as that.
Mkuu hii kali ila imefanana sana na hadithi za Eric James Shigongo! SMS huwezi kuacha mke bwana ukizingatia mko pamoja miaka kibao. Hapo wazee wa kanisaha huitwa kupatanisha. Kusamehe na kuendelea kucheza kwa step
Just for the sake of the discussion let's just say you are in a marriage....forget about boyfriend-girlfriend...
Kuu tatizo sio kuficha kitu. Tatizo ni muktadha wa kitachotokea akiwa na simu hasa simu zitakazopigwa akipokea zikatwe maana mtu anafikiri ni wrong number au sms zitakazoingia. Mfano sms inaingia "sasa Mpamba lunch vp leo huji?" au "leo sitaweza kuja jamaa amenibana sana"
Naamini wiki ya kubadilishana simu ikiwa siku ya 3 tu ndoa itakuwa juu ya mawe. Labda uajiri wakili wa kukutetea. Uzuri nitamkabidhi ila nitamwambia "take it at your own risk...tusijelaumiana mbele ya safari"
If the exchange idea props up out of insecurity on her part, then I will volitionally give her my phone and number to keep, not for a week but all time, provided I remain innocent in all this. The issue about simu za kikazi and family matters - these can be discussed and agreement reached that she can forward call or take messages but she shouldn't have a say in them. Likewise, though she is now my family but I still wouldn't want to interfere with her family matters.
maana sooner or later na wewe yatakukuta yaleyale yaliyomkuta mumewe wa zamani.
Komredi kutokana na maelezo ya Nguli hapo juu hawa watu walikuwa wanataniana na hawakuwa na uhusiano.
Kosa la huyu dada ni kukubali kutaniwa mpaka utani ukapitiliza
Yote hayo kwa mtazamo wangu ni poa tu kama huna/hana cha kuficha. Ila kama kuna/yapo ya kuficha basi lazima kutakuwa na pingamizi la namna flani....it's just as simple as that.
Oh okay nimeelewa. Lakini ukishaoa au kuolewa kuna baadhi ya matani (hasa ya kingono ngono) ambayo hutakiwi kuyaendekeza kutokana na kumheshimu mumeo au mkeo. Hivyo ndivyo nionavyo mimi.
kwa dizaini yako bora kweli ubaki cngle.....
Huo mtihani... hayo mambo ya ndani, ni memba humu asije nichenjiaAcid naomba utatuletea majibu tuone kama kuna drama yoyote ilitokea
Bado naamini kama huna cha kuficha basi hutakuwa na tatizo hata kidogo la kumwachia mwenzio simu yako. As simple as that.
Maisha ya ndoa kwakweli ni magumu sana na inatakiwa uwe na moyo mgumu
ishu hapa sio kuficha, nadhani kama mie naweza kumpa cm yangu akakaa nayo hata mwezi tatizo kuna ishu zangu za kifamilia pia zinatakiwa ziwe zangu na familia yangu jamani, sasa imagine anakuta sms kutoka kwa mama yako inasema jana baba yako alilewa mpaka akajilkojolewa...inamuhusu nini?...hapana bwana hata kama ndoa sio kihivyo, hakuna anaeweza kuwa 100% free na mwenza wake.
nyie ndio mnaya complicate, cdhani kama kuna mtu anaeweza ku share mambo yake ya maisha 100% ya mtu mwingine, kuna vitu mtu unatakiwa viwe vyako ki vyako bwana.
What sense does it make to be married and still hide stuff from your significant other? If that's not dumb then I don't know what is....