Dear pole sana . 5 years ? Uchumba or boyfriend and girlfriend ? To me naona ilikuwa ni miaka mingi sana especially kwa experience niliyopitia ya mahusiano , I'm just not ready to repeat the same mistake again , by staying uchumba for the long years, I did it once, I have learned from it and will never do that ever again, aaaghhhhrrr ... Unless God says so to wait then will do it.. Anyway unaweza kusahau by doing hobbies unazozipenda.. Binafsi I used most of my time to volunteer , Church and be more close to my family .. ( These help to forget huyo ex ).. Sasa sijui wewe dear hobbies zako ni nini.. Ila naomba nikushauri next mahusiano mshirikishe sana Mungu and don't take too long kwenye uchumba because mnaweza kuchokana ..Halafu kwa mahusiano yako mapya usijaribu to compare between your Ex and your current hii italeta shida .. Nisikuchoshe.. Just take it easy and slow, put God first in everything on your next chapter.. Good luck.. Na pole sana . Thanks..