Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

R.B · Feb 23, 2013

Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

dnmwami · Feb 23, 2013

wala huja over react ndo mlivo mkisha olewa mnakuja na manifesto mpya.

Yegoo · Feb 23, 2013

Ana umri gani mmeo! Labda Ujana haujaisha!!

zaratustra · Feb 23, 2013

Coming back "early" in the morning!!LOL.

King’asti · Feb 23, 2013

How is the pregnancy going? When are we slaughtering it?

Ndachuwa · Feb 23, 2013

R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

May be he is a "Jambazi", be careful soon you will be single again when he will be imprisonment or killed to death R.B

Bob Lee Swagger · Feb 23, 2013

King'asti said:
How is the pregnancy going? When are we slaughtering it?

Hahah kumbe unamkumbuka eh?! alisema ,May ngapi sijui!!

Na akiitoa I don't think she will live to come tell us the story of how it all went!!

Mtoboasiri · Feb 23, 2013

R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

As long as he eats at home it doesn't matter where he gets his appetite!

fazaa · Feb 23, 2013

Ndachuwa said:
May be he is a "Jambazi", be careful soon you will be single again when he will be imprisonment or killed to death R.B

hahaha safi sana.

Kichakoro · Feb 23, 2013

Haya mapenzi ya siku hizi ni noma> umeshindwa kukaaa nae umweleze all your doubts?

Je mmeshindwa kunununua video game, dstv ili walau awe home the walau siku moja moja umruhusu kwemda kuwa na
jamaa zake hata akija asubuhi lakini uwe unampa ruhusa hiyo.

Ndoa ni ya wawili sasa wewe naona ndoa yako ni ya watu wengi.

Mamndenyi · Feb 23, 2013

Ana wahudumia kwanza wenzio.

Smile · Feb 23, 2013

Huyu mume huyu? Anacheza hadi game ?
Hii mimba hii sijui mjeda?

ummu kulthum · Feb 23, 2013

akirudi hiyo saa huwa unamfanya nini maana kama anafikia mahaba motomoto pole za uongo na kweli, kesho lazima awahi kama anafikia mipasho mmmmmmh kama unamchochea arudi zaidi ya hapo

Renegade · Feb 23, 2013

Rafiki yake ameoa? Isijekuwa ana ndoa nyingine na rafiki yake.

MKATA KIU · Feb 23, 2013

Smile said:
Huyu mume huyu? Anacheza hadi game ?
Hii mimba hii sijui mjeda?

Simtetei huyo mume,, but in europe and america video game addiction ipo juu sana na ina case nyingi sana,,

Na hata bongo nilishasikia ofisin mtu analalamika mumewe anacheza online competition kwenye playstation 3 usiku kucha wa ijumaa,,, yaani unakuta ana maongezi na mumewe jamaa lina ratiba ya match kwenye world cup za video games,,, mume kajifungia broadband ndani ya raha.com,, kajiwekea Smart tv na PS3 anashinda living room,,

Kuolewa na watu walioishi sana ulaya
Kuna changamoto zake mojawapo ndio hizo,,,

Sony waligundua kwamba video game division ndo inaleta faida sana kwenye company, ceo akaahidi watahakikisha kila mtoto aliyewekewa playstation 1 na mzazi wake miaka ya 90 anakuwa Client yaani mteja wa kudumu mpaka atakapokufa hata afike miaka 100 na wanachofanya kila baada ya mda wanatoa new gaming machine iliyo mbali ki technology ili asiache kucheza,,

Tukija kwa hiyo case hata kama ni gaming addictive lakini modern game consoles hazina ulazima ya kwenda kucheza kwa rafiki hata kama mnacompete, mnaunganisha games ni internet mnacheza online huku mnaongea, mnachati na kufanya kila kitu, mtu yupo brazil mwingine Tanzania lakini mnashindana na kuongea kama mpo sebuleni,,,

Kuna msemo unasema " when a man pause video game and text you back,, mary him as he loves you for real" but hiyo ni kwa wazungu tu waswahili mchezo wetu mkuu ni kitandani ha ha ha

Smile · Feb 23, 2013

MKATA KIU said:
Simtetei huyo mume,, but in europe and america video game addiction ipo juu sana na ina case nyingi sana,,

Na hata bongo nilishasikia ofisin mtu analalamika mumewe anacheza online competition kwenye playstation 3 usiku kucha wa ijumaa,,, yaani unakuta ana maongezi na mumewe jamaa lina ratiba ya match kwenye world cup za video games,,, mume kajifungia broadband ndani ya raha.com,, kajiwekea Smart tv na PS3 anashinda living room,,

Kuolewa na watu walioishi sana ulaya
Kuna changamoto zake mojawapo ndio hizo,,,

Sony waligundua kwamba video game division ndo inaleta faida sana kwenye company, ceo akaahidi watahakikisha kila mtoto aliyewekewa playstation 1 na mzazi wake miaka ya 90 anakuwa Client yaani mteja wa kudumu mpaka atakapokufa hata afike miaka 100 na wanachofanya kila baada ya mda wanatoa new gaming machine iliyo mbali ki technology ili asiache kucheza,,

Tukija kwa hiyo case hata kama ni gaming addictive lakini modern game consoles hazina ulazima ya kwenda kucheza kwa rafiki hata kama mnacompete, mnaunganisha games ni internet mnacheza online huku mnaongea, mnachati na kufanya kila kitu, mtu yupo brazil mwingine Tanzania lakini mnashindana na kuongea kama mpo sebuleni,,,

Kuna msemo unasema " when a man pause video game and text you back,, mary him as he loves you for real" but hiyo ni kwa wazungu tu waswahili mchezo wetu mkuu ni kitandani ha ha ha

thax bwana harusi kwa kunito ushamba
harusi yako nitapiga kwaito wewe acha tu

King’asti · Feb 23, 2013

May 18. Nangojea sijui mchinjaji ni muislamu ama mristo?

Bob Lee Swagger said:
Hahah kumbe unamkumbuka eh?! alisema ,May ngapi sijui!!

Na akiitoa I don't think she will live to come tell us the story of how it all went!!

Smile · Feb 23, 2013

King'asti said:
May 18. Nangojea sijui mchinjaji ni muislamu ama mristo?

ahahaaaaa huyu dada kavurugwa kweli lakini ,anaitaji maombi mjue

squareroot · Feb 23, 2013

mmh coming back at 4am!! THATS WONDERFFUL! bidada mchunguze mumeo asije kuwa ni kuku mtamu! au kama c hivyo basi kuna wenzako wanahudumiwa pia. kaa nae mzungumze lakini pia take time umchunguze nyendo zake hiyo sio game ya kawaida tu. polee!

Natalia · Feb 23, 2013

R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

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