Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

[gakato]

This is pregnancy complications plus inferior complex of beauty.... After all only once or twice a week and not always he comes late; what is wrong here? where finally, does he sleep? Dada rudi nyuma tulia ndio ndoa...

 

[vanmedy]

Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

nunua movie series nyingiiiii na playstation3 weka sebuleni uwe unakipiga nae....tehtehtehteh..,

 

[MKATA KIU]

thax bwana harusi kwa kunito ushamba
harusi yako nitapiga kwaito wewe acha tu

Usijali kitu cha august patakuwa hapatoshi ndani ya waterfront,,

Itabidi unisindikize hadi kwenye send of rock city

 

[hekimatele]

Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

You are very right. You have every right to ask questions that you ask and be concerned the way you do. Many men enter into married life and yet want too live their single/bachelor life.
What he needs to understand is that he is married and some habits have to shake off from him.
The fact that his mum never use to give him a curfew doesn't give him right to leave his family and come back as he pleases. No one has a responsibility of raising his family except himself.
Get it into his head and let's hope he will change. Otherwise its not healthy for him for the sake of his family.
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[Ennie]

akirudi hiyo saa huwa unamfanya nini maana kama anafikia mahaba motomoto pole za uongo na kweli, kesho lazima awahi kama anafikia mipasho mmmmmmh kama unamchochea arudi zaidi ya hapo

Dada hawatabiriki hao!Mwenye hila yake haachi,umpokee kwa bashasha au umtie masingi kama ameamua kesho saa mbili asubuhi atarudi tu.Ajaribu tu kumkumbusha kuwa sasa ameoa,kama mama yake alikuwa hajali anarudi saa ngapi basi mkewe anajali na anapaswa abadilike halafu asubiri majaaliwa huku akiomba Mungu lisiwe sikio la kufa.

 

[BADILI TABIA]

ushauri wangu mie utakua wakuharibu tu acha nisepe

 

[charger]

That marriage seems to be full of misery coz last time you came here complaining about being called names by your hubby,being told that u ll be a bad mom etc ,but unfortunately he is already your hubby. What u have do is to talk to him politely about all the irritation,you are coming from different background so it needs some extra effort for you guys to get along.But also be careful since u told us u had tough past with your mom a thing which might have caused you to be too sensitive and emotional to issues. This could bring negative effects to your partner if at all he doesn't realise it.Make your home attractive to him,may be he is coming late to be away from so called vuvuzela.lol! Just kidding but stop it if ur the one.

 

[kabanga]

muongee...

 

[lilly petet]

si bora ahamie hukohuko! me akirud muda huo hanikuti! una moyo c asbh kabixa hyo.. dah! ndoa ndoaleeee

 

[Mkatavimeo]

Mmmhhh....

 

[asakuta same]

Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?

utakuwa unamatatizo wewe mwanamke na unahitaji msaada wa haraka sana!!!!!!! ukimaliza miaka mitatu hujaachika unitafute kunishushua.

 

[Mamzalendo]

My dia you have a problem,u r telling him in a soft way do u think he will understand,you need to be a little tough if i could be in your position i would say it loud once then action follow example choose btn me n your games,secondly honey im going out to the club with my friends i will be back if he say no then tel him you r not my dad or mom and by the way if u can stop your movies i too wil stop,who the hell does he think he is to come home at that hour with such a stupid pathetic reason?did you force him to marry you?

 

[Kaunga]

AnamDO shosti kwenye balcony
Anataka muitos mimba ya week 24
Anasema you gonna make a terrible mother
Anarudi next day 5:00am

 

[Kongosho]

mukilisito, si ndio madokta wengi?

Mimba ya wiki 24 ikatolewe may 12? Mtoto atakuwa keshazaliwa, labda kama wana-mslaughter mtoto

May 18. Nangojea sijui mchinjaji ni muislamu ama mristo?

 

[BADILI TABIA]

AnamDO shosti kwenye balcony
Anataka muitos mimba ya week 24
Anasema you gonna make a terrible mother
Anarudi next day 5:00am

halafu anamuita mume! Anasema ameolewa. Wapo ndoani!

 

[Mama timmy]

Huyo anakuzoesha uone ni kawaida yake halafu kitakachofuata hapo mi sijui utakitatuaje!kuwa macho sana

 

[asakuta same]

AnamDO shosti kwenye balcony
Anataka muitos mimba ya week 24
Anasema you gonna make a terrible mother
Anarudi next day 5:00am

kumbe na wewe umeunganisha hizo dots!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Chimunguru]

duh Husband playin' video game til saa hizo! Khaa nna wasiwasi na husband asije akawa mu anglikana wa kwa camerun pale no 10 downing street

 

[Chimunguru]

mukilisito, si ndio madokta wengi?

Mimba ya wiki 24 ikatolewe may 12? Mtoto atakuwa keshazaliwa, labda kama wana-mslaughter mtoto

Khaa ndoa ndoano, km naangalia Jerry Springer show!

 

[ummu kulthum]

Dada hawatabiriki hao!Mwenye hila yake haachi,umpokee kwa bashasha au umtie masingi kama ameamua kesho saa mbili asubuhi atarudi tu.Ajaribu tu kumkumbusha kuwa sasa ameoa,kama mama yake alikuwa hajali anarudi saa ngapi basi mkewe anajali na anapaswa abadilike halafu asubiri majaaliwa huku akiomba Mungu lisiwe sikio la kufa.

ni kweli sikatai na mwenye hila habebeki ila ipo siku atajabebeka tu hakuna kitu kisichokuwa na mwisho.atapunguza au ataacha kabisa.