Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

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Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?
 
Ana umri gani mmeo! Labda Ujana haujaisha!!
 
R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?
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May be he is a "Jambazi", be careful soon you will be single again when he will be imprisonment or killed to death R.B
 
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R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?
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As long as he eats at home it doesn't matter where he gets his appetite!
 
Haya mapenzi ya siku hizi ni noma> umeshindwa kukaaa nae umweleze all your doubts?

Je mmeshindwa kunununua video game, dstv ili walau awe home the walau siku moja moja umruhusu kwemda kuwa na
jamaa zake hata akija asubuhi lakini uwe unampa ruhusa hiyo.

Ndoa ni ya wawili sasa wewe naona ndoa yako ni ya watu wengi.
 
Huyu mume huyu? Anacheza hadi game ?
Hii mimba hii sijui mjeda?
 
akirudi hiyo saa huwa unamfanya nini maana kama anafikia mahaba motomoto pole za uongo na kweli, kesho lazima awahi kama anafikia mipasho mmmmmmh kama unamchochea arudi zaidi ya hapo
 
Rafiki yake ameoa? Isijekuwa ana ndoa nyingine na rafiki yake.
 
Smile said:
Huyu mume huyu? Anacheza hadi game ?
Hii mimba hii sijui mjeda?
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Simtetei huyo mume,, but in europe and america video game addiction ipo juu sana na ina case nyingi sana,,

Na hata bongo nilishasikia ofisin mtu analalamika mumewe anacheza online competition kwenye playstation 3 usiku kucha wa ijumaa,,, yaani unakuta ana maongezi na mumewe jamaa lina ratiba ya match kwenye world cup za video games,,, mume kajifungia broadband ndani ya raha.com,, kajiwekea Smart tv na PS3 anashinda living room,,

Kuolewa na watu walioishi sana ulaya
Kuna changamoto zake mojawapo ndio hizo,,,

Sony waligundua kwamba video game division ndo inaleta faida sana kwenye company, ceo akaahidi watahakikisha kila mtoto aliyewekewa playstation 1 na mzazi wake miaka ya 90 anakuwa Client yaani mteja wa kudumu mpaka atakapokufa hata afike miaka 100 na wanachofanya kila baada ya mda wanatoa new gaming machine iliyo mbali ki technology ili asiache kucheza,,

Tukija kwa hiyo case hata kama ni gaming addictive lakini modern game consoles hazina ulazima ya kwenda kucheza kwa rafiki hata kama mnacompete, mnaunganisha games ni internet mnacheza online huku mnaongea, mnachati na kufanya kila kitu, mtu yupo brazil mwingine Tanzania lakini mnashindana na kuongea kama mpo sebuleni,,,

Kuna msemo unasema " when a man pause video game and text you back,, mary him as he loves you for real" but hiyo ni kwa wazungu tu waswahili mchezo wetu mkuu ni kitandani ha ha ha
 
MKATA KIU said:
Simtetei huyo mume,, but in europe and america video game addiction ipo juu sana na ina case nyingi sana,,

Na hata bongo nilishasikia ofisin mtu analalamika mumewe anacheza online competition kwenye playstation 3 usiku kucha wa ijumaa,,, yaani unakuta ana maongezi na mumewe jamaa lina ratiba ya match kwenye world cup za video games,,, mume kajifungia broadband ndani ya raha.com,, kajiwekea Smart tv na PS3 anashinda living room,,

Kuolewa na watu walioishi sana ulaya
Kuna changamoto zake mojawapo ndio hizo,,,

Sony waligundua kwamba video game division ndo inaleta faida sana kwenye company, ceo akaahidi watahakikisha kila mtoto aliyewekewa playstation 1 na mzazi wake miaka ya 90 anakuwa Client yaani mteja wa kudumu mpaka atakapokufa hata afike miaka 100 na wanachofanya kila baada ya mda wanatoa new gaming machine iliyo mbali ki technology ili asiache kucheza,,

Tukija kwa hiyo case hata kama ni gaming addictive lakini modern game consoles hazina ulazima ya kwenda kucheza kwa rafiki hata kama mnacompete, mnaunganisha games ni internet mnacheza online huku mnaongea, mnachati na kufanya kila kitu, mtu yupo brazil mwingine Tanzania lakini mnashindana na kuongea kama mpo sebuleni,,,

Kuna msemo unasema " when a man pause video game and text you back,, mary him as he loves you for real" but hiyo ni kwa wazungu tu waswahili mchezo wetu mkuu ni kitandani ha ha ha
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thax bwana harusi kwa kunito ushamba
harusi yako nitapiga kwaito wewe acha tu
 
mmh coming back at 4am!! THATS WONDERFFUL! bidada mchunguze mumeo asije kuwa ni kuku mtamu! au kama c hivyo basi kuna wenzako wanahudumiwa pia. kaa nae mzungumze lakini pia take time umchunguze nyendo zake hiyo sio game ya kawaida tu. polee!
 
R.B said:
Husband coming home at 4am? is that ok?

Around once a week my husband goes over to his friends house to watch series movies and play video games,
he doesnts come home until around 4am. Another time a week he comes home around 1am. I feel like its wrong for him to stay out so late. He says that his mom never use to give him a curfew so I don't have the right to treat him like a little kid and tell him to come home earlier. We are newly weds but it feels like he still thinks he is single. I know were he is at, but it is dangerous especially because he walks home since his friend only lives 2 Km away home.
Am I over reacting and trying to take away his freedom?
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