Hivi how do u feel when your partner talks to the ex?

[Kbd]

Sijasema bado nampenda ila nimesema she has been the best love of my life

Mi sijasema kama umesema.....ila nimesema kulingana na nilivyokusoma. Maneno mbali...............vitendo mbali....eep:

 

[EJM_]

You are taking it too seriously. Alisema kwa kutania tu. she wanted you to feel better baada ya mpenzi wake kukutukana, so you know that she doesn't support his behavior.

Yeah inawezekana alisema kwa kutania na hapa what am tryin to see is why did this bro react from my hi, coz from the conversation we had there was nothing he said which showed that he knew and i didnt tell him anything and unfortunately if he was trying to see ni watu gani the girl talks to much basi i culd turn out to be the last. Hapo ndipo ninapopata tabu kidogo

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

If you know that no matter what you do they will still communicate, why bother tryin to find out if they still do? I have my philosophy in love;
I don't wanna know mpenzi wangu anawasiliana na nani coz i believe if she loves me no matter who she talks to she will never do anything that she knows would hurt me and if she does then she doesn't love me period!"

Your philosophy is a naive philosophy.

 

[EJM_]

Mi sijasema kama umesema.....ila nimesema kulingana na nilivyokusoma. Maneno mbali...............vitendo mbali....eep:

Hahahahaaa haya let me honest with you hapa,

Tumeachana kwa zaidi ya miaka minne iliyopita, and believe me nilirecover from that almost a year later but believe me kama ningetaka kurudiana tungesharudiana siku nyingi sana but we didnt and we wont so nakuhakikishia kuwa ninachosema kinaendana na matendo

 

[EJM_]

Your philosophy is a naive philosophy.

Then an intelligent one is what makes you get heart attacks

 

[sweetlady]

If you know that no matter what you do they will still communicate, why bother tryin to find out if they still do? I have my philosophy in love;
I don't wanna know mpenzi wangu anawasiliana na nani coz i believe if she loves me no matter who she talks to she will never do anything that she knows would hurt me and if she does then she doesn't love me period!"

Duuh! Hiyo philosophy yako ni kali kuliko ndugu!...

Achana kuwasiliana na gf wa mwenzio, mie naamini lazima mmechart na vya chumbani ndio mana jamaa kakutukana, haiwezekani akushukie hivi hivi wakati umesema kuwa hajui kama huyo gal aliwahi kuwa mpenzi wako.

 

[sweetlady]

Hahahahaaa haya let me honest with you hapa,

Tumeachana kwa zaidi ya miaka minne iliyopita, and believe me nilirecover from that almost a year later but believe me kama ningetaka kurudiana tungesharudiana siku nyingi sana but we didnt and we wont so nakuhakikishia kuwa ninachosema kinaendana na matendo

Mliachana au alikuacha?

 

[EJM_]

Duuh! Hiyo philosophy yako ni kali kuliko ndugu!...

Achana kuwasiliana na gf wa mwenzio, mie naamini lazima mmechart na vya chumbani ndio mana jamaa kakutukana, haiwezekani akushukie hivi hivi wakati umesema kuwa hajui kama huyo gal aliwahi kuwa mpenzi wako.

Unajua kama leo kila mtu atasema hivyo then wanaume hawatakuwa wanawasiliana na wanawake zaidi ya ma gf wao na the same applies to women.

 

[EJM_]

Mliachana au alikuacha?

We were forced to break..........well at least thats what happened

 

[Dotworld]

Mkuu,
Kwenye story yako wewe unaonyesha udhaifu kuwa ulibreak na huyo msichana lakini bado una kisebusebu!
Mwache mwenzio aendelee na maisha yake bana, mbona unataka kumharibia binti wa watu?...kama hutakiwi kubali mkuu!

Jitahidi kuji-distance na ex wako, especially kama kila mtu ameshaanza maisha yake...mpaka hapo jua kuwa yule dada ana maswali ya kujibu kwa mtu wake wa sasa!
Mimi mwenyewe nikihisi maongezi au chatting kati ya wife na ex wake, i must go mad, coz wakikubaliana kitu ni lazima wakitimize. Jamaa atataka kumwonyesha mke wangu kuwa ana mauwezo, na atajitahidi kum-allure hata kwa kukopa Saccos na kuingia madeni!...huh!

Kwa mujibu wa TUKI Kamusi:

Kisebusebu nm vi- [ki-/vi-] pretending not to like sth while really wanting it.

Jamaa anasumbuliwa na Kisebusebu na Kirohopapo hana haya wala soni!

Kama walishaachana sasa anamtakia nini? - mara hi! ooh! .. sijui nilikuwa nakusalimia tu ... mara ooh I just want kuku-wish nice weekend! .. hicho ndio kisebusebu! kama alivyosema PJ.

Mwache dada wa watu aendelee na maisha yake. And wewe shika Hamsini zako. Utakufa kwa kisebusebu!

 

[EJM_]

Kwa mujibu wa TUKI Kamusi:

Kisebusebu nm vi- [ki-/vi-] pretending not to like sth while really wanting it.

Jamaa anasumbuliwa na Kisebusebu na Kirohopapo hana haya wala soni!

Kama walishaachana sasa anamtakia nini? - mara hi! ooh! .. sijui nilikuwa nakusalimia tu ... mara ooh I just want kuku-wish nice weekend! .. hicho ndio kisebusebu! kama alivyosema PJ.

Mwache dada wa watu aendelee na maisha yake. And wewe shika Hamsini zako. Utakufa kwa kisebusebu!

Kwenye hiyo hiyo tuki yako kuachana maana yake nini? Kuwa maadui hata salamu msipeane au kila mtu ahame mtaa?

 

[Inno laka]

Inshort inauma hata m ctajisikia poa kabisa..

 

[EMT]

Sasa swala la msingi hapa ni kuwa, what do you feel mpenzi wako anapoendelea kuongea na ex?

Kwani ulikuwa unachat na ex wako au boyfriend was ex wako?

 

[EJM_]

Inshort inauma hata m ctajisikia poa kabisa..

Okay, but pamoja na mazungumzo yote ya mi na yule bwana hakuna hata sehemu moja anayohisi mimi nilikuwa na mahusiano na gf wake ila sijui tu what was the reason for his reaction

 

[Amyner]

If you've both moved on, then whats the problem?!
I wouldnt mind kabisa kama ni cheater ata cheat tu hata kama sio na ex wake.
Ya nini nijipe presha!

 

[masssaiboi]

If you know that no matter what you do they will still communicate, why bother tryin to find out if they still do? I have my philosophy in love;
I don't wanna know mpenzi wangu anawasiliana na nani coz i believe if she loves me no matter who she talks to she will never do anything that she knows would hurt me and if she does then she doesn't love me period!"

I bet you one of this days you will be back here crying out loud, ni sawa unavyoamini lakini based on my xprience na watu wengine ni vyema ukaamini kwamba inaweza tokea na pia fuatilia japo kiasi fulani usije ukakumbana na surprises. Pia wadada wanaenjoy ukionyesha unafuatilia nyendo zao

 

[Song'ito]

tawapa ka stori kamoja ili niweke clear haka ka thread,

"Kwenye account yangu ya fb kuna msichana ambaye basically aliwahi kuwa gf wangu, yes she was my first love and probably the best love ever for me. Sasa baada ya kubreak yapata miaka kadhaa sasa tumebaki kuwa marafiki na huwa tunawasiliana mara kadhaa kutakiana hali. Kila mmoja ameendelea na maisha yake na when we talk ni salamu tu then basi, maana kwa sasa yuko nje ya nchi kwa masomo.

Sasa for a while nimekuwa nahisi the current bf wake anaingia kwenye fb account yake so kuna wakati anaweza kuwa online tukachat lakini najua this is not the one. Sasa friday nikiwa online naye akaingia, mi nilipomuona nikampa hi then nikamuwish nice weekend kwa wakati huo sikujua ni nani kama ni yeye au bf wake (huyo bf wake ni mnigeria)

Basi from nowhere yule jamaa akaanza kunishushia matusi makali makali, dah kiukweli i tried to be a gentleman ila nikajiuliza where the hell all those came from! I broke with the girl kwa zaidi ya miaka minne and theres nothing going on maana hata kuongea tunaweza kuongea baada ya miezi kadhaa so i dont know what was the reason.

Baadae jamaa akaniblock huko kwenye fb ya gf wake mi nikasema hamna taabu, ila jioni nikampigia huyo gf wake nikamwambia tu one thing "Mwambie huyo bf wako akue" nikatania pia, "if he doesnt i will take u back coz i know i can. Ka story kanaishia hapa.

Sasa swala la msingi hapa ni kuwa, what do you feel mpenzi wako anapoendelea kuongea na ex?

Mi nauliza mkubwa utajisikiaje ukipata kwa bahati mbaya kujua kuwa mkeo ama rafiki yako wa kike uliyenae sasa ana mawasiliano na X wake aliyempotezea usichana wake kwa mfano, tuseme kuwa mawasiliano hayo yanayoshabihiana sana na hayo uliyonayo wewe sasa na huyo x wako wa kwanza? Utajisikiaje? hebu jiulize na jijibu moyoni mwako kiukweli....

 

[Da Asia]

mara nyingi mke na mume wakiachana, ndio imetoka, mkiwa na mazungumzo ni kama siasa. ila ex bf na gf mkiachana, kuna siku isokua na jina mnaweza mkakumbukia. huyo tapeli wa ki nija analijua hivyo ndio maana kazuia mapema. wewe kama unae mwingine kwa sasa bora concentrate nae achana na vya watu maana mlishamalizana. jiweke kwenye position ya m nija, gf wako anachat na ex wake kila siku, utajisikiaje kaka?

 

[Remmy]

Alijuaje kuwa wewe ni ex wa gf wake? Au mlipokuwa mnachati mlikuwa mkikumbushana?

 

[Nemo]

Musimo Jr
Unless I ve been given sufficient reasons to be concerned, I do not mind if my patner communicates with his ex. I actually could careless! Im more of the mind, binadamu hachungiki so................................