That the galaxy may not be there now (now as in our earth based now, there is no universal "now"), is without objection.
Light from the sun takes approximately 8 minutes and 20 seconds to reach the earth. That is, if the sun is totally and suddenly extinguished now (our now, again, there is no universal now), we will not know about that fact for 8 minutes and 20 seconds. Everything will go on as normal for 8 minutes and 20 seconds. It is like turning off an electric light in your room, only that the electric light takes 8 minutes and 20 second to go off.
So if you hear "the star is 64 million light years away" that means, the light we are seeing now as coming from that star lef the star many million of years ago. The star may not even be there by our "now", but we have not yet received the last light from it, because of the distance.
So there is no mystery in saying that an observable star or galaxy may not be there.
The business about another universe, if you have the math and logically consistent testable theory on that, I encourage you to write a paper, you may be in for a Nobel prize.
There is no proven argument for the existence of other universes. Even proponents of the multiverse theory, most of them anyway, like Leonard Susskind, posits that these universes are unobservable from us by definition.
Sir Roger Penrose has claimed we can see evidence of another universe that was before the Big Bang, but there is a rebuttal on that
here