Help: I cant wash his underwear

[itahwa]

I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel

 

[Watu8]

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[promiseme]

Majanga..........

 

[shansarie]

Majanga haya ngoja ampelekee kidumu akusaidie

 

[Hornet]

Hahaaaa

 

[autorun255]

Jst throw them away n buy him new one this will save u a lot of trouble .
Take ‘em n throw away simple like dat.

 

[Complex]

I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel

Ngoja kitokee kigoli kitakachokuwa kikikusaidia kumfanyia hizo kazi, usibishane na mme hata siku moja. Wewe ni msaidizi wa mme, na huo ndio wajibu wako katika nyumba. Kufua nguo, kubrush viatu, kupika ni mojawapo ya majukumu ya mke katika nyumba. Wakati unaolewa hukufanyiwa counceling/kitchen party juu ya majukumu yako na wajibu wako kwa mme.?

Usifuatishe wabeijing, wanawapoteza. Hakuna kitu kinaitwa haki sawa kati ya mme na mke, mme ni mme tuu. Kwa ushauri tuu fanya hayo akuombayo kumfanyia, kwani hayatopunguza kitu bali yataongeza upendo.

 

[ram]

Fanya tu mamangu ndio ndoa hiyo, siku moja moja muombe akusaidie hasa kupiga pasi na kubrash viatu

 

[Munkari]

Kha we nawe uliolewa wa nini? Rudi kwenu!

 

[Idimi]

Fanya tu mamangu ndio ndoa hiyo, siku moja moja muombe akusaidie hasa kupiga pasi na kubrash viatu

Kasema hawezi! Mie nampa solution ndogo. Kila mara boxer za mumewe zikichafuka awe anatupa na kununua mpya. Afanye hivyo na kwenye viatu pia, ili kujipunguzia mzigo wa kusafisha/kufua.

 

[life is Short]

I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel

BaBy...! Life is give and take... Just do 50%~50% (fifty-fifty) volunteer by preparing the necessity ( dish/bucket of water soap, Brush polish ) near him thats all he will complete the rest.... Mambo mazuri... poa hakuna matata!!
Life goes on.

 

[Husninyo]

wewe nawe, kuosha hiyo pichu yake tu huwezi, je kumkatikia kitandani utaweza kweli?

 

[Chocs]

Umekubali kuolewa kubali yote....yani hizo tasks ndogo ndogo hivyo ndo unaona tabu...mi nilifikiri anakwambia ufyatue matofali!!

Hili nalo ni la kuleta hapa..eboo

 

[Safari_ni_Safari]

Kama ulilipiwa mahari acha ubishi..........kama uliolewa kanisani au msikitini acha ubishi.......contrary na haya komaa

 

[ram]

Tehtehteh.... haya mleta mada jibu hili hapa
Mie naenda kwenye siasa huko kuna msiba wa mbunge

Kasema hawezi! Mie nampa solution ndogo. Kila mara boxer za mumewe zikichafuka awe anatupa na kununua mpya. Afanye hivyo na kwenye viatu pia, ili kujipunguzia mzigo wa kusafisha/kufua.

 

[charger]

It seems you are coming frm two diffent background.You are westernised while he is not,it will take a very great effort to make reconciliation bwt u two.wisdom is needed here or this marriage will be miserable.Be ware of totos they are good at providing what ur husband is looking for.

 

[Mapi]

poor you! Kwenye ndoa uliingia kwa fasheni...

 

[Tyta]

Fanya tu mamangu ndio ndoa hiyo, siku moja moja muombe akusaidie hasa kupiga pasi na kubrash viatu

 

[kijani11]

tafuta msaidizi wa kazi akusaidie

 

[ERoni]

Wakati mwingine naona wanawake wako kama watumwa vile... dume lifanyiwe kila kitu, kila kitu...
umpikie, umfulie, umpasie nguo, umuandalie ipi avae, soksi na boksa ziwe safi, utandike kitanda na bado kila iitwapo usiku ulale bila pichu...
mwisho wa mwezi mnagawana majukumu 50/50...
Its not fair kwa wanawake, lol.