Heartbroken. Again!

Heartbroken. Again!

Okay here goes....
I know there will be a next guy soon or later, trust me i've been there before and it hurted like hell. Here is the deal;-
1. Date a guy with no huge expectations don't be too optimistic about the relationship.
2. Take it like a casual relationship, and stop being too little miss perfect, some men are not looking for perfect dolls! (Sorry if i am being rude but you sound like you got it all! And too perfect which sometimes can be a deal breaker to those types of men you are getting)
3. Never make the first move by discussing any kind of committments with a guy! Girl, girl! With what you've been going through?!! let the men making moves
4. Never sound desperate, just never, ever!
5. Don't move too quickly, i repeat don't move too quickly! Whatever you do, keep it casual, be a nice girl but yet phenomenon, kind, fun, clean in and out, lovely, witty, smart, down to earth, i promise you will magically attract the man of your dreams!....and it will be easy pizzy...you will never have to work hard on anything, he will committ and if marriage is what you've always looking for? He will marry you!. Take my advice, you will thank me later. Yours, Sweetiepie .
 
Ungekaa kimya tu maana ata mlipotongozana haukushirikisha uma
 
Pole sana... Ndiyo dunia ilivyo...

Unataka kufahamu what's wrong with you? Weka picha zako kwanza...


Cc: mahondaw
 
Ok basi subiri kuwa mke wa pili dini imeruhusu utapata uttulivu
Magnumpi said:
Dini ninayo. Mimi ni muislamu japo sio muislamu safi na nina madhambi kibao. Lakini sio rahisi leo nikubali yesu kua muokozi wangu na kuingia kanisani ili tu niolewe. Nitakua sijaitendea haki nafsi yangu.
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Najua mtanitukana na kunisema eti ni kazi ya mwanamke kumuweka mwanaume sawa lakini hapa nimenyanyua mikono, isiwe kesi bora tuachane tu. Nimekua katika haya mahusiano mwezi wa 8 sasa, mwanzoni nilikua sijamuelewa sana huyu jamaa na tabia yake lakini yamenifika kooni. I'm not the cleanest...
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Au ndio huyu uliokuja kumnanga hapa Kwa uchafu?siulisema unamuacha?Mpuuzi
 
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Boyfriend wangu ni mchafu sana

Najua mtanitukana na kunisema eti ni kazi ya mwanamke kumuweka mwanaume sawa lakini hapa nimenyanyua mikono, isiwe kesi bora tuachane tu. Nimekua katika haya mahusiano mwezi wa 8 sasa, mwanzoni nilikua sijamuelewa sana huyu jamaa na tabia yake lakini yamenifika kooni. I'm not the cleanest...
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Au ndio huyu uliokuja kumnanga hapa Kwa uchafu?siulisema unamuacha?Mpuuzi
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Magnumpi said:
I'm writing this with tears in my eyes yet again. This always happens to me. I meet a guy, I fall in love, we are together for a while, I feel like maybe this is my final destination. That I wont have to feel the pain again but it just ends up the same way. Being left for no good reason. I'm very loyal, I don't cheat, I don't ask for money anyhow and I believe I'm a very beautiful woman. Yet tears and heartbreak always my portion.

My first ex changed up on me, it was very hard, I got pregnant he wanted me to abort which I did and left me.

My second ex ( we didn't have sex) he was the kind of guy I thought we could marry and have a family, he started acting weird. I launched my own investigation only to find out he is living with a certain lady. I moved on silently.

My 3rd boyfriend, I'm not sure what happened here but I found him in bed with a girl who is my neighbor, He ended up hitting me and kicked me out. It took a year to get over him as it was very hard seeing them together since the girl lived next to me. With a lot of suffering, tears and hurt I moved on.

This final guy, he was the sweetest, caring guy I've ever been with. We had a major difference (Religion). In the beginning, we agreed it shouldn't interfere with us. 1 year later he switched up and said he's mum will never be fir that idea unless I convert. I told him it's not easy to change my faith, something I grew up with just to marry him. He said we can no longer be together. Right now it's like I don't exist like I don't matter. It is easier for him since he had time to think and decide.

I'm still trying to figure out where do I go wrong, what is wrong with me? Will I ever find love or should I just agree with the fact that it is not my portion and protect myself from future heartbreaks.

Right now life is hard for me, I can't eat, I cry all the time, I don't have the energy to get out of bed but I have to go to work. I take antidepressants which helps me sleep but makes me emotional. I can't talk to anyone I know because i feel like they'll just feel pity for me and I don't want that.

I know time heals all wounds but right now this feeling is too intense. I don't deserve this but then again life is not fair.

This is not an ad. I'm not looking for a lover here. Please respect my pain, don't come to PM just to ask for my number etc. I can't stand anyone right now.
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Time heals
 
Nina mengi ya kukushauri ila kwasababu umeandika kiingishi, basi acha tu niwaachie wananchi wengine..
 
Ni yule boyfriend wako mchafu uliyedai umemchoka au mwingine?
 
pole sana mpendwa.
try to be social, usiwe alone, jichanganye na watu, make a new new friend circle, kukaa upweke upweke kutakuongezea depression, try to accept the situation, dont feel guilt.

i wish niwe rafiki yko, just friend to socialize with.
 
Magnumpi said:
I'm writing this with tears in my eyes yet again. This always happens to me. I meet a guy, I fall in love, we are together for a while, I feel like maybe this is my final destination. That I wont have to feel the pain again but it just ends up the same way. Being left for no good reason. I'm very loyal, I don't cheat, I don't ask for money anyhow and I believe I'm a very beautiful woman. Yet tears and heartbreak always my portion.

My first ex changed up on me, it was very hard, I got pregnant he wanted me to abort which I did and left me.

My second ex ( we didn't have sex) he was the kind of guy I thought we could marry and have a family, he started acting weird. I launched my own investigation only to find out he is living with a certain lady. I moved on silently.

My 3rd boyfriend, I'm not sure what happened here but I found him in bed with a girl who is my neighbor, He ended up hitting me and kicked me out. It took a year to get over him as it was very hard seeing them together since the girl lived next to me. With a lot of suffering, tears and hurt I moved on.

This final guy, he was the sweetest, caring guy I've ever been with. We had a major difference (Religion). In the beginning, we agreed it shouldn't interfere with us. 1 year later he switched up and said he's mum will never be fir that idea unless I convert. I told him it's not easy to change my faith, something I grew up with just to marry him. He said we can no longer be together. Right now it's like I don't exist like I don't matter. It is easier for him since he had time to think and decide.

I'm still trying to figure out where do I go wrong, what is wrong with me? Will I ever find love or should I just agree with the fact that it is not my portion and protect myself from future heartbreaks.

Right now life is hard for me, I can't eat, I cry all the time, I don't have the energy to get out of bed but I have to go to work. I take antidepressants which helps me sleep but makes me emotional. I can't talk to anyone I know because i feel like they'll just feel pity for me and I don't want that.

I know time heals all wounds but right now this feeling is too intense. I don't deserve this but then again life is not fair.

This is not an ad. I'm not looking for a lover here. Please respect my pain, don't come to PM just to ask for my number etc. I can't stand anyone right now.
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Maboy friend watano halafu unapaniki?

Nilijua labda 30 hivi?

Watano?

Mtoto bikra kabisa aisee!
 
pole,
ndo ukubwa huo, yaani mitihan yoote hii inakutengeneza uje kiwa mke bora.
Juat like a gold, the more heat in the furnance, the pure it becomes.
 
Umepitia maumv kadhaa ila LA mwisho limekuumiza zaidi.pole sana ila aunt changamoto ya mwisho kbl ya mafanikio huwa ni kubwa na inaumiza sana.hamna fainali nyepesi.now u heading into grace period.
 
Magnumpi said:
I'm writing this with tears in my eyes yet again. This always happens to me. I meet a guy, I fall in love, we are together for a while, I feel like maybe this is my final destination. That I wont have to feel the pain again but it just ends up the same way. Being left for no good reason. I'm very loyal, I don't cheat, I don't ask for money anyhow and I believe I'm a very beautiful woman. Yet tears and heartbreak always my portion.

Come to me my dear "I am Mr Perfect" you will not regret ever.

My first ex changed up on me, it was very hard, I got pregnant he wanted me to abort which I did and left me.

My second ex ( we didn't have sex) he was the kind of guy I thought we could marry and have a family, he started acting weird. I launched my own investigation only to find out he is living with a certain lady. I moved on silently.

My 3rd boyfriend, I'm not sure what happened here but I found him in bed with a girl who is my neighbor, He ended up hitting me and kicked me out. It took a year to get over him as it was very hard seeing them together since the girl lived next to me. With a lot of suffering, tears and hurt I moved on.

This final guy, he was the sweetest, caring guy I've ever been with. We had a major difference (Religion). In the beginning, we agreed it shouldn't interfere with us. 1 year later he switched up and said he's mum will never be fir that idea unless I convert. I told him it's not easy to change my faith, something I grew up with just to marry him. He said we can no longer be together. Right now it's like I don't exist like I don't matter. It is easier for him since he had time to think and decide.

I'm still trying to figure out where do I go wrong, what is wrong with me? Will I ever find love or should I just agree with the fact that it is not my portion and protect myself from future heartbreaks.

Right now life is hard for me, I can't eat, I cry all the time, I don't have the energy to get out of bed but I have to go to work. I take antidepressants which helps me sleep but makes me emotional. I can't talk to anyone I know because i feel like they'll just feel pity for me and I don't want that.

I know time heals all wounds but right now this feeling is too intense. I don't deserve this but then again life is not fair.

This is not an ad. I'm not looking for a lover here. Please respect my pain, don't come to PM just to ask for my number etc. I can't stand anyone right now.
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Magnumpi said:
I'm writing this with tears in my eyes yet again. This always happens to me. I meet a guy, I fall in love, we are together for a while, I feel like maybe this is my final destination. That I wont have to feel the pain again but it just ends up the same way. Being left for no good reason. I'm very loyal, I don't cheat, I don't ask for money anyhow and I believe I'm a very beautiful woman. Yet tears and heartbreak always my portion.

My first ex changed up on me, it was very hard, I got pregnant he wanted me to abort which I did and left me.

My second ex ( we didn't have sex) he was the kind of guy I thought we could marry and have a family, he started acting weird. I launched my own investigation only to find out he is living with a certain lady. I moved on silently.

My 3rd boyfriend, I'm not sure what happened here but I found him in bed with a girl who is my neighbor, He ended up hitting me and kicked me out. It took a year to get over him as it was very hard seeing them together since the girl lived next to me. With a lot of suffering, tears and hurt I moved on.

This final guy, he was the sweetest, caring guy I've ever been with. We had a major difference (Religion). In the beginning, we agreed it shouldn't interfere with us. 1 year later he switched up and said he's mum will never be fir that idea unless I convert. I told him it's not easy to change my faith, something I grew up with just to marry him. He said we can no longer be together. Right now it's like I don't exist like I don't matter. It is easier for him since he had time to think and decide.

I'm still trying to figure out where do I go wrong, what is wrong with me? Will I ever find love or should I just agree with the fact that it is not my portion and protect myself from future heartbreaks.

Right now life is hard for me, I can't eat, I cry all the time, I don't have the energy to get out of bed but I have to go to work. I take antidepressants which helps me sleep but makes me emotional. I can't talk to anyone I know because i feel like they'll just feel pity for me and I don't want that.

I know time heals all wounds but right now this feeling is too intense. I don't deserve this but then again life is not fair.

This is not an ad. I'm not looking for a lover here. Please respect my pain, don't come to PM just to ask for my number etc. I can't stand anyone right now.
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Andika Kiswahili ili tuelewe? Au hii barua kuna mtu maalum unamlega hapa Jf?
 
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