Hear what oprah winfrey had to say about men

Thank you asha D, to me i think she doesnt know herself very well, yaani unakaa na jamaa kama petty dog, halafu kila wakati unatoka na girlfriend, no ndoa no nothing, all teh fun with the girlfriend.... AND SADLY, YOU END UP JUDGING MEN!!!

DAH!!!
It makes me wonder
 
It makes me wonder
Mkuu kuna level fulani ya achievement huwa inatulevya.... na inatufanya hata yale tunayodhani, basi ndiyo ya kweli na sahihi

Oprah has achieved more than any other woman in the world, businesswise... but she hasnt achieved in family, glamour, interpersonal relationship, sexuality and even spiritually...

My models ni wale wanaoshare daily ordinary life - na wapo wengi sana, but it comes to emotions and relationship, huwa napenda ksikia Diane Warren anaandika nini....
 
Mkuu kuna level fulani ya achievement huwa inatulevya.... na inatufanya hata yale tunayodhani, basi ndiyo ya kweli na sahihi

Oprah has achieved more than any other woman in the world, businesswise... but she hasnt achieved in family, glamour, interpersonal relationship, sexuality and even spiritually...

My models ni wale wanaoshare daily ordinary life - na wapo wengi sana, but it comes to emotions and relationship, huwa napenda ksikia Diane Warren anaandika nini....
Point sana hii, na ukifikiria watu wengi walioshindwa mahusiano ndio washauri sana wa mambo haya ya mahusiano ila ukiangalia point ziko sawa hata kama haziwasaidii wao zinawasaidia wengine in other way
 
Oprah, Oprah no wonder you are not married; dragging your partner for all these years without a wedding ring nor a child....
Nothing is this black and white...

Asha nimeipenda sana hii,thats true we are in a complex world nothing is black and white,the way unavyochagua maisha yako yawe ndivyo yatakuwa
 
Maneno haya namuunga mkono 100% "Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women",
anawadunga dunga mimba wanawake tofauti tofauti halafu hawaoi.

Kuna baadhi ya hayo aliyoyasema ukiyafuatilia sana basi AMUA kuishi single katika uhai wako wote,
manake mwanaume ni binadamu kama tulivyo sisi Wanawake ni lazima awe na mapungufu yake,
kama tuliyonayo sisi wanawake,kwa hiyo lililo muhimu uwe tayari kuyavumilia madhaifu yake unayoona unaweza kuyavumilia.

KWA SABABU OPRAH NI BINADAMU WA KAWAIDA SO NAAMINI KUWA,
KILA ASEMACHO PAMOJA NA UZURI WAKE BASI NA MAPUNGUFU PIA LAZIMA YAWEPO,
HAKUNA BINADAMU MWENYE MAWAZO, FIKRA,MTAZAMO, NA USHAURI ULIOKAMILIKA KWA 100%.
 
Oprah, Oprah no wonder you are not married; dragging your partner for all these years without a wedding ring nor a child....
Nothing is this black and white...

Jamani hiyo ya child hata yeye siyo kwamba anapenda ASIWE NA MTOTO,
ila imemtokea ksb ubakaji aliofanyiwa akiwa mtoto.
Naomba kwa hilo asilaumiwe hata kidogo, amehangaika sana,
kupata mtoto lakin imeshindikana.
TUCHUKULIE USHAURI WA OPRAH KAMA WA KIBINADAMU,
NI LAZIMA UWE NA MAPUNGUFU.
 
Jamani hiyo ya child hata yeye siyo kwamba anapenda ASIWE NA MTOTO,
ila imemtokea ksb ubakaji aliofanyiwa akiwa mtoto.
Naomba kwa hilo asilaumiwe hata kidogo, amehangaika sana,
kupata mtoto lakin imeshindikana.
TUCHUKULIE USHAURI WA OPRAH KAMA WA KIBINADAMU,
NI LAZIMA UWE NA MAPUNGUFU.
There's a lot hidden about the controversial life of Oprah
 
Mkuu kuna level fulani ya achievement huwa inatulevya.... na inatufanya hata yale tunayodhani, basi ndiyo ya kweli na sahihi

Oprah has achieved more than any other woman in the world, businesswise... but she hasnt achieved in family, glamour, interpersonal relationship, sexuality and even spiritually...

My models ni wale wanaoshare daily ordinary life - na wapo wengi sana, but it comes to emotions and relationship, huwa napenda ksikia Diane Warren anaandika nini....
Mkuu you said it all sina hata cha kuongeza, especially hapo kwenye bluu
 
Maneno haya namuunga mkono 100% "Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women",
anawadunga dunga mimba wanawake tofauti tofauti halafu hawaoi.

Kuna baadhi ya hayo aliyoyasema ukiyafuatilia sana basi AMUA kuishi single katika uhai wako wote,
manake mwanaume ni binadamu kama tulivyo sisi Wanawake ni lazima awe na mapungufu yake,
kama tuliyonayo sisi wanawake,kwa hiyo lililo muhimu uwe tayari kuyavumilia madhaifu yake unayoona unaweza kuyavumilia.

KWA SABABU OPRAH NI BINADAMU WA KAWAIDA SO NAAMINI KUWA,
KILA ASEMACHO PAMOJA NA UZURI WAKE BASI NA MAPUNGUFU PIA LAZIMA YAWEPO,
HAKUNA BINADAMU MWENYE MAWAZO, FIKRA,MTAZAMO, NA USHAURI ULIOKAMILIKA KWA 100%.

Thank you nnunu... Hivi mummy umeobserve wanaume wengi walozaa kila Corner wengi saani ni wale walio na pesa ndefu ??? Inaonesha pia kua kutokana na tabia ya most of the ladies kutaka security through a guy who is well off inapelekea sana wengi kutaka kumzalia wakiamini once amezaa mwanaume atamuona wa maana na kumuoa which in most cases si kweli ... Most of the time most ladies tunajua njia za kujikinga na pregnancy but una ignore ukiona you want to land the guy....Bahati mbaya umesikia ana watoto kibao bado nawe wamzalia sijui ukifikiria kua you are mo' special or what.....
 
Jamani hiyo ya child hata yeye siyo kwamba anapenda ASIWE NA MTOTO,
ila imemtokea ksb ubakaji aliofanyiwa akiwa mtoto.
Naomba kwa hilo asilaumiwe hata kidogo, amehangaika sana,
kupata mtoto lakin imeshindikana.
TUCHUKULIE USHAURI WA OPRAH KAMA WA KIBINADAMU,
NI LAZIMA UWE NA MAPUNGUFU.

I have heard about the story before, kama kuna sehemu ambayo fashion ni ku adopt mtoto kwa the rich and famous (for what ever reasons we get) ni US, Oprah hana tu ile in beneath mothers feelings... angekua kweli anataka saana mtoto angekua kesha adapt siku nyingi mpaka tungekua tunasikilizia mjukuu... Nachukulia the Oprah's man angekua ni ndugu yangu - I dont like vile yeye Oprah alivyomchulia na ninajua I have no right to say but I have a right to comment..
 
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it's strange that many times those not in marriage always try to be marriage counselors
 
Some of these stuffs are good, but the rest are bull shit! It is more Americanized! Well, you might take it or leave it. Mind you, most of the women advocacy... are not married. This means what? Ladies, take a tailor made situation which suits you and jamaa yako, and live your life! A
 
Angetupa ushuhuda jinsi gani hizo theory zimework kwake kwanza. Ni sawa na Europeans,World Bank na IMF wanapotoa prescriptions za kufikirika kwa LDCs ambazo hazina matunda yoyote. Je hizo theory zimework kwake au kwa nani na katika mazingira gani. Maana mwanaume/mwanamke wa kizungu si sawa na wa kiafrika.

Ndio hizo theory zimework kwake. Ndio zimepelekea kwenye maisha yake ya uchumba wa kudumu.
 
Oprah Winfrey hajawahi kuwa na binding commitment na mwanamme, atawezaje kushauri wenzie?

Yeye kazi yake ni kuchumbiana tu na kula raha na mwanamme kwa kipindi fulani, hanaga mpango wa kwenda mbele zaidi, kiswahili tunaita malaya.
 
Oprah Winfrey hajawahi kuwa na binding commitment na mwanamme, atawezaje kushauri wenzie?

Yeye kazi yake ni kuchumbiana tu na kula raha na mwanamme kwa kipindi fulani, hanaga mpango wa kwenda mbele zaidi, kiswahili tunaita malaya.


That is so harsh, huyo mama hana sifa ya umalaya, ila nakubali kua ushauri wake ni hafifu....
 
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Tatizo kubwa kwa Oprah katika masuala ya women empowerment..herself she is not a role model...................financial and business succes at expense of long-term companionship is itself an anathema to being a relationships mentor........how many times do we confuse money with wisdom......................................?????????????????????????????
 
Tatizo kubwa kwa Oprah katika masuala ya women empowerment..herself she is not a role model...................financial and business succes at expense of long-term companionship is itself an anathema to being a relationships mentor........how many times do we confuse money with wisdom......................................?????????????????????????????
Si tunaweza fata maneno yake tu? kama tunavowasikiliza wachungaji makanisani, tunafata maneno wanayotuambia au vipi Ruta
 

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