Having privacy vs keeping Secrets

Hello guys.

How would you feel if your husband/boyfriend, wife/girlfriend never posted you on his/her social media?
What would you do? Does social media matter to you?

Me personally, I wouldn’t like it if my significant other actively used social media but never mentioned me, but I would never mention him on mine, because I like my privacy at this point in life.

Is something fishy about this. There is difference between privacy and secrecy tho.
How about you guys? Does this matter to you?

Good morning.

That "you wouldn't like....... never posted you" but you'll never post him coz of privacy!!!? mringanyo haukubali...

Nothing to say, welcome to Jf

Me napenda anipost ila simposti

Sijaelewa vizuri ila....inategemea...

Na hoja zifuatazo.

1. Hali ya hewa.
2. Uchumi wa nchi na wa Dunia kwa ujumla.
3. Hali ya siasa nchini.
4. Kabila
5. Dini

why in the hell girls like to be posted on social media that does even mean shit when to come to real love. If a man loves he keep you in his mind and keep her away from the world so that she can be his only happiness.

Chizi kabisa wewe. Japokuwa hata mimi sijaelewa hasa hizo aya 2 za mwisho

Red flag
You are not acknowledging him because you are planning to cheat and maybe you want to appear single to other men. That's your husband's thoughts not mine.

Yeah something is fishy, you can mention in your bio that you are married or engaged and not mention to who. That's your privacy. Nevertheless, social media is not that serious.
Incidentally, I have never dated a man with a social media account so sijui ningejisikiaje.

Social media are not genuine platform to reveal love.These youngs of today think that being posted on social media means being loved. They forget that likes, love or congratulations on fb and the like are mere symbols of a reply rather than emotion of the confidential heart.

COSMOLOGIST said:

That "you wouldn't like....... never posted you" but you'll never post him coz you of privacy!!!? mringanyo haukubali...

Click to expand...

What's your opinion on the particular subject?

Bella Ciao said:

Nothing to say, welcome to Jf

Click to expand...

Why nothing? Let's share ideas.
Thank you.

miss chagga said:

Me napenda anipost ila simposti

Click to expand...

Kwanini wewe haumpost? Na kwanini unapenda yeye ndio akupost?
Na asipokupost kama wewe usivyompost utalichukuliaje?

Daby said:

Sijaelewa vizuri ila....inategemea...

Na hoja zifuatazo.

1. Hali ya hewa.
2. Uchumi wa nchi na wa Dunia kwa ujumla.
3. Hali ya siasa nchini.
4. Kabila
5. Dini

Click to expand...

Haujaelewa vizuri wapi ? Naweza kuelezea zaidi kwa kuchimba ili uelewe.
Na wewe naomba uelezee hizi point zako with vivid examples

How old are u? So I can advise you accordingly

Whatever tickles your fancy..

Maisha hayana Kanuni ishi vile nyie wawili mpendavyo; whatever makes you happy hata kama wewe ni mchawi tafuta mchawi mwenzako muishi

DAN LOKOMOTIVE said:

why in the hell girls like to be posted on social media that does even mean shit when to come to real love. If a man loves he keep you in his mind and keep her away from the world so that she can be his only happiness.

Click to expand...

Just to be sure he's not dating or approaching other girls and acting like he's single.

cute b said:

Red flag

You are not acknowledging him because you are planning to cheat and maybe you want to appear single to other men. That's your husband's thoughts not mine.

Yeah something is fishy, you can mention in your bio that you are married or engaged and not mention to who. That's your privacy. Nevertheless, social media is not that serious.
Incidentally, I have never dated a man with a social media account so sijui ningejisikiaje.

Click to expand...

His thoughts exactly.
He claimed this way all the time lately but who cares?
Thank you for the advice, I will mention him in my Instagram bio.

Paula Paul said:

What's your opinion on the particular subject?

Click to expand...

"Live to like what is at your disposal, never expect what u can't give"
"relationship is all about being able to sacrifice" u can love someone but if u ain't sacrificing there can't be a relationship

Nebuchadinezzer said:

Social media are not genuine platform to reveal love.These youngs of today think that being posted on social media means being loved. They forget that likes, love or congratulations on fb and the like are mere symbols of a reply rather than emotion of the confidential heart.

Click to expand...

I think a man should profess his love to the world for his woman when he truly loves her. Same applied to us.

Tuttyfruity said:

How old are u? So I can advise you accordingly

Click to expand...

I think it doesn't matter how old I am. You can advise me.