Having privacy vs keeping Secrets

[Paula Paul]

Hello guys.

How would you feel if your husband/boyfriend, wife/girlfriend never posted you on his/her social media?
What would you do? Does social media matter to you?

Me personally, I wouldn’t like it if my significant other actively used social media but never mentioned me, but I would never mention him on mine, because I like my privacy at this point in life.

Is something fishy about this. There is difference between privacy and secrecy tho.
How about you guys? Does this matter to you?

Good morning.

 

[cosmonaut]

That "you wouldn't like....... never posted you" but you'll never post him coz of privacy!!!? mringanyo haukubali...

 

[Bella Ciao]

Nothing to say, welcome to Jf

 

[miss chagga]

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[Daby]

Sijaelewa vizuri ila....inategemea...

Na hoja zifuatazo.

1. Hali ya hewa.
2. Uchumi wa nchi na wa Dunia kwa ujumla.
3. Hali ya siasa nchini.
4. Kabila
5. Dini

 

[DAN LOKOMOTIVE]

why in the hell girls like to be posted on social media that does even mean shit when to come to real love. If a man loves he keep you in his mind and keep her away from the world so that she can be his only happiness.

 

[Fursakibao]

Chizi kabisa wewe. Japokuwa hata mimi sijaelewa hasa hizo aya 2 za mwisho

 

[cute b]

Red flag
You are not acknowledging him because you are planning to cheat and maybe you want to appear single to other men. That's your husband's thoughts not mine.

Yeah something is fishy, you can mention in your bio that you are married or engaged and not mention to who. That's your privacy. Nevertheless, social media is not that serious.
Incidentally, I have never dated a man with a social media account so sijui ningejisikiaje.

 

[Nebuchadinezzer]

Social media are not genuine platform to reveal love.These youngs of today think that being posted on social media means being loved. They forget that likes, love or congratulations on fb and the like are mere symbols of a reply rather than emotion of the confidential heart.

 

[Paula Paul]

That "you wouldn't like....... never posted you" but you'll never post him coz you of privacy!!!? mringanyo haukubali...

What's your opinion on the particular subject?

 

[Paula Paul]

Nothing to say, welcome to Jf

Why nothing? Let's share ideas.
Thank you.

 

[Paula Paul]

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Kwanini wewe haumpost? Na kwanini unapenda yeye ndio akupost?
Na asipokupost kama wewe usivyompost utalichukuliaje?

 

[Paula Paul]

Sijaelewa vizuri ila....inategemea...

Na hoja zifuatazo.

1. Hali ya hewa.
2. Uchumi wa nchi na wa Dunia kwa ujumla.
3. Hali ya siasa nchini.
4. Kabila
5. Dini

Haujaelewa vizuri wapi ? Naweza kuelezea zaidi kwa kuchimba ili uelewe.
Na wewe naomba uelezee hizi point zako with vivid examples

 

[Tuttyfruity]

How old are u? So I can advise you accordingly

 

[Logikos]

Whatever tickles your fancy..

Maisha hayana Kanuni ishi vile nyie wawili mpendavyo; whatever makes you happy hata kama wewe ni mchawi tafuta mchawi mwenzako muishi

 

[Paula Paul]

why in the hell girls like to be posted on social media that does even mean shit when to come to real love. If a man loves he keep you in his mind and keep her away from the world so that she can be his only happiness.

Just to be sure he's not dating or approaching other girls and acting like he's single.

 

[Paula Paul]

Red flag
You are not acknowledging him because you are planning to cheat and maybe you want to appear single to other men. That's your husband's thoughts not mine.

Yeah something is fishy, you can mention in your bio that you are married or engaged and not mention to who. That's your privacy. Nevertheless, social media is not that serious.
Incidentally, I have never dated a man with a social media account so sijui ningejisikiaje.

His thoughts exactly.
He claimed this way all the time lately but who cares?
Thank you for the advice, I will mention him in my Instagram bio.

 

[cosmonaut]

What's your opinion on the particular subject?

"Live to like what is at your disposal, never expect what u can't give"
"relationship is all about being able to sacrifice" u can love someone but if u ain't sacrificing there can't be a relationship

 

[Paula Paul]

Social media are not genuine platform to reveal love.These youngs of today think that being posted on social media means being loved. They forget that likes, love or congratulations on fb and the like are mere symbols of a reply rather than emotion of the confidential heart.

I think a man should profess his love to the world for his woman when he truly loves her. Same applied to us.

 

[Paula Paul]

How old are u? So I can advise you accordingly

I think it doesn't matter how old I am. You can advise me.