Dilemma!!!

[Eiyer]

kwani kuna nini hapa Kaizer na Eiyer puleeez hebu doeni ze needful mi hata sielewi!naona tu babu Dark City analalamikia tu ustaafu wake!
alikuwa wapi kuchapa kazi enzi za ujana wakeeeeee aaaargh ASITUCHOSHE!ahahaahhahah
babu sikamoo!

Hivi vitoto vinatuaibisha saa aisee
Naona kuna haja ya kuanzisha chuo cha mafunzo!

 

[miss chagga]

Yuo sound like your in midle 20's

mmh okey nakubali tu

 

[Eiyer]

mmh okey nakubali tu

Usikubali tu hata kama hujaridhika na jibu!

 

[RR]

Mismatch....
Huyu achape mwendo tu....watakuja kugombana bure tu.
Huyo kijana atafute wa aina yake...

Hivi vitoto vinatuaibisha saa aisee
Naona kuna haja ya kuanzisha chuo cha mafunzo!

 

[miss chagga]

Usikubali tu hata kama hujaridhika na jibu!

nakubali kaka yangu.....umepatia

 

[mkonowapaka]

Gay world

 

[Eiyer]

nakubali kaka yangu.....umepatia

Waooo!!!!!!!!!
Kumbe nimepatia!!

 

[miss chagga]

Waooo!!!!!!!!!
Kumbe nimepatia!!

yah... msalimie mama

 

[Eiyer]

yah... msalimie mama

Mama mzazi au?

 

[snowhite]

Mama mzazi au?

ahahahhah hizi nondo za aina hii hawa wavaa supra sijui kama wanazo hizi!
enzi zetu ukishaona swali limekaa kihiv unajua enheeeeeeeeee hapa ndo nadedi hiv hivi najiona!

 

[snowhite]

Hivi vitoto vinatuaibisha saa aisee
Naona kuna haja ya kuanzisha chuo cha mafunzo!

naandaaa nondos!
vinginevyo hapa kuna hatari ya kukuta kijana anapiga kelele eneo la tukio kuwa anaumizwa!

 

[kibella24]

Kwani we unataka kubinywa ngap ndo uridhike?

 

[Antidius Mutalemwa]

Consult da doctor,especially of psycology and relationship.

 

[DR. LOVE]

msaidie kwa encouraging words zitakazo muweka fit psychologically, unajua sex is all about mental function, akiwaza kuwa labda hataweza ku-perform to your expectations uwezo unafifia, pili labda aina ya misosi anayokula, vinywaji/vileo vya kunywa na kuvuta, mazoezi pia muhimu! Infact, if he is less than 30yrs or even above but not 50's or 60's and above kwa mziki tu wa siku ya kwanza which you claimed to have gone only twice (ingawa kwa afya inatosha) ulipaswa kuweka mpira kwapani, hata kama ungepewa ushindi wa mezani na TFF kwa kuchukua point 3 muhimu na madoli 3 bila gemu kuisha!!! you would have loved the moment..... you also need to learn how to hold him muda mrefu b4 afikie peak ili ufurahie tendo mara nyingi zaidi kabla ya yeye kuchoka (rules of the game applies), usije muacha huyo umjuaye ukajaishia pabovu zaidi, regards!!!

 

[miss chagga]

Mama mzazi au?

i mean mkeo hata mama mzazi sawa tu

 

[tweenty4seven]

Ndio tatizo l kina dada wanapenda masharo w chip kuku kimoja 2 then anakoroma kma jenereta y mnara.mechi haitaki uwe n stress n mwili uwe legelege, mechi uwe unakula vizuri n mazoezi kias hpo unampa m2 doz yke akiondoka kila muda anatuma ms jaman leo umenipa raha mpka basu, c unatoa kimoja cha uvivu unamwacha m manyege kibao then unasema dem wng hajatulia cjui anamegwa n wengne.sisi vidume kwenye game sharti umpe m2 kitu mpka roho yke isuuzike

 

[Gamba la Nyoka]

i know much ya matatizo ya erection ni psychological...how you do it...where and when...
mfano najitolea mwenyewe..
1.I hardly have an erection with the tv on sijui kwanini,but im ok with music playing but not the tv.
2.the scent of a woman can be my turner or piss me off..my nose..inachangia sana in my sexual life.
3.Joto...how i hate doing it while its hot...
4.Njaa na kiu...better the former than the later...yaani nikishikwa kiu ndo naeza nikaacha kabisaaa.

Thats true man, the biggest sex organ is the brain not the penis. When it comes to sex, the brain is the master and penis is slave. therefore most of men erection issues are PSYCHOLOGICAL

Take it this way, why you can't achieve an erection when you see your "hot" sister naked, but you can achieve one "sometimes" when someone elses sister is wholly or partially naked?- The answer is conditioning, just the BRAIN

Adrenaline hormone takes precedent over Testosterone hormone, when a man is in fear, perhaps the fear of achieving erection, the fear of satisfying a woman, the fear of being caught, the fear of HIV any fear, just any fear, IT can affect the functioning during sex
.
WHAT A WOMAN NEEDS TO DO AT THIS TIME
1. HELP YOUR MAN BY RELIEVING HIM OF TENSION OF PERFORMANCE, Just tell him, "Its Ok, It happens to most men, Just relax my love it is gonna be fine", Both of you may laugh of the situation, dont take it too seriously to scare off your man.

2. WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR MAN, TRY INSISTING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX.
when you do this, pressure is relieved from the man and it will come to your surprise that a man will in no time achieve erection, because he is relaxed.

3.NEVER EVER INSULT A MAN OF HIS MANHOOD
even if you are pretty like Angelina Jolie, he won't be into you emotionally, he will avoid you, and you will find him going out to test his manhood to other women, and if he is successful there, those bar ladies will be like Queens to him.

4. HELP YOUR MAN TO RELAX, TO FEEL WANTED, TO FEEL APPRECIATED
When he recognises that despite his troubles, you are with him, he will want to repay you, the ultimate way is to repay you through great sex, he will work it out secretly with his friends, traditional doctors, or hospitals whatever but he will be doing this for you

5. TRY TO AVOID RUSH SEX, TAKE YOUR TIME
Some men find it easier to have sex, when sex is not a timetable issue. I mean, when sex comes automatically without pre-planning, It is not a matter of Saying now let us have sex, then voila it comes, THE KEY HERE IS RELAXATION, AND IT IS EASY IN MY OPINION TO FIND RELAXATION AT NIGHT THAN IN THE DAY TIME, AT NIGHT THE BRAINS ARE REBOOTED DUE TO SLEEP, MANY MEN ACHIEVE ERECTIONS AT NIGHT, AND TESTOSTERONE HORMONE WORKS BETTER , THEREFORE IF IT DOESN'T WORK IN THE AFTERNOON TRY TO SLEEP TOGETHER AT NIGHT AND RELAX COMPLETELY WITHOUT FORCING IT, YOU WILL SEE YOUR MAN ACHIEVING ERECTIONS IN INTERVALS OF TIME.

THE OTHER THINGS ARE BIOLOGICAL
1. A man should exercises so that to have Stamina, and also to riase testosterone hormone
2. We men should be very careful with Plastic water, When these bottles are sun heated they release chemicals that when we drink enters the bllod streams and mimic the female Oestrogen hormones. We better go back to maji ya Mtungi.
3. Cholestrol due to higher non vegeteble/fish oils, cholestrol blocks blood cappillaries and therfore could cause lower blood flow to the penis.
4. Be careful with some lotions, perfurmes, soaps as some of them contains chemicals that exhibit Oestrogenic behaiviours while in blood and hence reduce male libido
5. Stress is not good for a man on bed, Stress raises Cortisol hormone which inhibits testosteron hormone.

THE BOTTOM LINE IS, MANY MEN PERFORMANCE ISSUES ARE PSYCHOLOGICAL, NOT PHYSICAL

 

[MAKULUGA]

hello wana jf. I have never posted anything on this forum ila leo mwenzenu yamenikuta! I got into a relationship with this guy about a couple of months ago. He is loving, caring, understanding....you name it. Tumejuana miaka mingi iliyopita kumbe yy alikua ananipenda toka siku nyingi akawa anaogopa kuniambia.

So as fate would have it about 3 months ago we exchanged numbers and we started chatting and one thing led to another and i finally fell for him. We love each other,that is as much as i know.

Tumeshapima na afya zetu and we are both ok,tatizo jamaa si mwelewi elewi when it comes down to business. Tangu tujuane tumefanya mapenzi only twice and i pretty much did most of the work. I had abstained from sex for over 2yrs and so as you would imagine i was so looking forward to making love with the man i loved ila jamaa haeleweki.

The first time we did it we only went twice akasema amechoka so he promised that we would make love again in the morning, asubuhi jogoo alishindwa kuwika akasingizia kwamba last nyt i did him too much,mmhhh! The second time we made love we only did it once.

Sasa kila wakati nina hamu ya kufanya mapenzi yy anasingizia kuchoka,kuumwa,mara kazi,yaani the excuses are endless. And its not like he doesn't feel me or anything,the romance btw us is intense, we can kiss and fondle and do stuff that gets us all horny ila nikitaka twende all the way he comes up with some sort of excuses. Nimechoka kumbembelezea penzi and i am beginning to get frustrated with all these.

I am a 'one man woman' so i can't go get it from someone else however the temptations ila jamani mwenzenu nachoka kusubiri. And this is a guy we are talking "forever after" and stuff ila i am beginning to have seconds thought coz kama kwenye courtship yenyewe mambo ndo haya huko kwenye ndoa si ndo itakua ukamee balaa! Someone please tell me what could be the problem,is it me or him or us?

He's not even 30yrs old yet!

goli mbili mbona nyingi tu inategemea ziligungwaje .
Hata goli moja ni kali sana inategemea limefungwa muda gani ,kumbuka magoli ya dk 80 -90 ni matamu sana!

 

[Eiyer]

i mean mkeo hata mama mzazi sawa tu

Dah!
Una bahati mbaya sana
Kwanza sijaoa,hivyo sina mke

Kuhusiana na mama nina muda sana sijaongea nae so sijui hata nikuambie nini!

 

[miss chagga]

Dah!
Una bahati mbaya sana
Kwanza sijaoa,hivyo sina mke

Kuhusiana na mama nina muda sana sijaongea nae so sijui hata nikuambie nini!

leo jitahidi umpigie mama mzazi kesho unipe majibu anaendeleaje okey