Can a single mother teach her son how to be a man?

[Jodoki Kalimilo]

A lot of good men out there were raised by single moms.

Kua mwanaume bora kwa mwanamke wako hakutokani na malezi ya baba na mama tu, kuna sababu nyingi.

Unaweza kulelewa na mama peke yake au baba peke yake au wote baba na mama na ukawa mwanaume bora au kinyume chake pia ni sahihi.

Kwa kizazi chetu wahenga...lakini wa miaka hii kizazi cha facebook...closeness na mama mpaka dogo anafika form 4 (kama picha inavyojieleza ndivyo life ya siku hizi inakwenda mpaka kijana anakuwa mkubwa)...maana kuna tofauti kati ya KUFUGA na KULEA ...kwa miaka hii ni kama TUNAFUGA

 

[miss chagga]

mazingira na jamii pia inachangia

 

[miss chagga]

Kwa kizazi chetu wahenga...lakini wa miaka hii kizazi cha facebook...closeness na mama mpaka dogo anafika form 4 (kama picha inavyojieleza ndivyo life ya siku hizi inakwenda mpaka kijana anakuwa mkubwa)...maana kuna tofauti kati ya KUFUGA na KULEA ...kwa miaka hii ni kama TUNAFUGA

nimenuniwa kisa nilisema wewe unafuga watoto mpaka leo siongeleshwi ila kiukweli wazazi wengi wa sasa hudhani ndiyo malezi bora kumbe wanapoteza muelekeo wa mtoto

 

[Jodoki Kalimilo]

nimenuniwa kisa nilisema wewe unafuga watoto mpaka leo siongeleshwi ila kiukweli wazazi wengi wa sasa hudhani ndiyo malezi bora kumbe wanapoteza muelekeo wa mtoto

Ni kweli kabisa hili hata mie nimeona

 

[miss chagga]

Ni kweli kabisa hili hata mie nimeona

tusipojirekebisha uko mbeleni kuna tabu kubwa

 

[lovebitelol]

nimenuniwa kisa nilisema wewe unafuga watoto mpaka leo siongeleshwi ila kiukweli wazazi wengi wa sasa hudhani ndiyo malezi bora kumbe wanapoteza muelekeo wa mtoto

Kila saa picha na status na kumvalisha mtoto nguo za kihuni na kumnyoa nywele mtindo wa kuhuni

 

[Nokia83]

Saa nyingine watt wenyewe tu akili zao zinakuwa hovyo mtu analelewa vzr anapewa kila kitu lkn bado anaharibika

 

[miss chagga]

Kila saa picha na status na kumvalisha mtoto nguo za kihuni na kumnyoa nywele mtindo wa kuhuni

ni tatizo mtoto apati nafasi ya kujijua wazazi wanawpollute tena makusudi , nasema makusudi

 

[NAKWEDE]

hapo chacha

hahaah Devi umeshindwa useme nini hahhaa

 

[lovebitelol]

Saa nyingine watt wenyewe tu akili zao zinakuwa hovyo mtu analelewa vzr anapewa kila kitu lkn bado anaharibika

Hapana watoto hawana tatizo ni akili za mzazi zinatakiwa zibadilike tuu kutokana na mazingira. Mlee mtoto katika njia impasayo nae hataiacha hata atakapokuwa mzee

 

[NIMPENDENANI]

Sio lazima alelewe na Single parent ndio asiwe a Man na wala kulelewa na wazazi wote wawili hakumfanyi mtoto akawa a real Man...

 

[Paul Buchira]

swala sio chips, ebu jarbu kijikita kwenye sababu za msingi

 

[LadyAJ]

Though am not single but the answer is YES ..….!!
Mama hakuna kitu kinamshinda, anayajua yote na kati ya hayo yote hunchavulia mwanae kilicho bora na chema,hivyo tunaweza si tu kuwatengeneza wawe wanaume,Bali wawe wanaume wanaojali

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[serio]

Kwani tatizo la single mothers ni lipi? Dhambi yao ni ipi?

 

[Mrs Van]

Kwanini ashindwe? Regardless kua single mother au a wife sidhani kama baba anashiriki sana kwenye makuzi ya mtoto tena wa kiume.

Mrs Van

 

[nyakanazi]

I have no doubt that I am the best man, responsible father and caring husband who raised-up by my mom only. My success is an outcome of her amazing teachings and care. Tabu zinazompata mamako katika kukukuza zinakufanya umuonee huruma na kuapa kutorudia makosa yaliyofanywa na babako katika kukutelekeza. There is a lesson to lean from this. So, yes, we are out there, a number of us.

 

[Jodoki Kalimilo]

tusipojirekebisha uko mbeleni kuna tabu kubwa

Ni kweli kabisa yaani tunawapenda watoto ni kweli lakini tusiwatumie kama mapambo...sometime tunatakiwa kuwapeperushia bendera nusu mlingoti na kuongeza kupandisha juu kadri anavyozidi kukua ili mwisho wa siku aweze kusimama mwenyewe

 

[DiasporaUSA]

Sio lazima ulelewe na mama.

hata wale waliachwa na wazazi wao wakiwa bado INFANTS wanaweza kuwa Men kutegemea mazingira yao wanayokulia

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[miss chagga]

Ni kweli kabisa yaani tunawapenda watoto ni kweli lakini tusiwatumie kama mapambo...sometime tunatakiwa kuwapeperushia bendera nusu mlingoti na kuongeza kupandisha juu kadri anavyozidi kukua ili mwisho wa siku aweze kusimama mwenyewe

tunasahahu ya kuwa hawatakuwa watoto milele

 

[Nokia83]

Kwanini ashindwe? Regardless kua single mother au a wife sidhani kama baba anashiriki sana kwenye makuzi ya mtoto tena wa kiume.

Mrs Van

Ishia hapohapo...baba tuna mchango mkubwa sana