SOURCE: Match.com Kisses are more than a meeting of the lips. When done well, they're a form of communication, a surefire way to tell a woman "I want you" and "I love you." When done badly, kisses can be... well, the kiss of death for a new relationship. To help any man become an even better kisser, we went on a fact-finding mission. Below, nine women reveal what makes them go weak at the knees. (Is some of this information contradictory? Well, yes; what can I say? One woman's thrill is another woman's turn-off. Love is like that sometimes.) Now go ahead and read their stories, and then put these insider insights to work for you. [FONT="]Put some passion in it[/FONT] "We want to be kissed slowly, constantly, and passionately, all over... like you really mean it! We want to be kissed long, slow, deep and hard - all at once." – Cynthia Garrett, actress/television host and "Hip Girl" blogger [FONT="]Inch on over and make that move... slowly[/FONT][FONT="] "Never ask a woman if you can kiss her. If you really can't read the signs, you are better off not even trying. What does work? Getting closer and closer without touching builds tension, and that leads to the ultimate lip-lock." – Amy Sacco, owner of NYC clubs Bungalow 8 and Lot 61 Watch out for the nose! "A deep, hot kiss for me means mouth on mouth, the perfect alignment of noses, and a hand inching up to hold the back of my neck." – Elizabeth Lippman, photographer Try a kissing bandit technique "A kiss doesn't have to be face-to-face to be breathtaking. When my husband and I first started dating, I was standing at a bar ordering a drink when he came up behind me, put his arms around my waist and kissed the side of my neck, right under my ear. It literally sent shivers down my spine. I remember thinking: ‘Wow! I hope this relationship lasts!'" – Kimberly Lewis, magazine editor Always be a gentleman "A man needs to have the right amount of confidence and gentleness to deliver a good kiss. Being over-confident is a big turn-off for me. I hate when a guy is so full of himself that he goes in for the kiss when you haven't given him a single signal yet to do so. Yuck!" – Danna Weiss, fashion expert and founder, consciousjewelry.com Put your fingers in her hair "I like to have my hair stroked while kissing or having him pull my head closer. Men taking control is a total turn-on." – Melissa de la Cruz, best-selling author of the Blue Bloods series Don't underestimate the power of eye contact "I love it when a guy stops kissing me for a moment, places his hand on my face, and then just stares at me like he could devour me before going in for another kiss - that is just heaven." – Carmindy, author and makeup artist/beauty expert for TLC's What Not To Wear Pull off the perfect PDA "An intense kiss when you're not expecting it is so sexy. I was on a date with my now-husband and we were walking down the street, when out of nowhere, he pressed his body up against mine and began making out with me passionately. He didn't care who walked by or if anyone screamed, ‘Get a room!' That was a while ago, and I still think about it all the time." – Alexis Karl, painter and creator of the cherry bomb killer perfume line Deliver the sweetest series of smooches "After a make-out session, end it with a hint of sweetness... like a tiny peck on each cheek, then the tip of the nose, and then the forehead. That mix of naughty and nice sends chills up my spine. Yum." – Alexandra Bellak, real estate agent [/FONT] So, forgive for asking, but how do [FONT="]your[/FONT] kisses rate? You've probably been smooching for so many years that you take your skills for granted. Stop for a moment and think about it, though: Are you really good at it? Could your repertoire use some refreshing?