Aziniye na mwanamke hana akili kabisa

[Dani]

kitabu cha mithali kimeandikwa na mfalme suleiman anaaminika kuwa alikuwa na hekima za hali ya juu, hamna mtu amewahi kutokea mwenye hekima za kwake ...
Yeye alikuwa na wanawake zaidi ya elfu moja, na alimuua jemedari wake ili amuoe mke wake.
Hapo kaka pambanua mwenyewe.

Umemchanganya na Daudi ambaye alisababisha kifo cha Uria ili amwoe Bathsheba (2 Samweli 11).

Pia, angalia hatima ya Suleimani:

As long as Solomon remained true to the worship of Jehovah, he prospered. Solomon began to disregard God’s law. We read: “And King Solomon himself loved many foreign wives along with the daughter of Pharaoh, Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian and Hittite women, from the nations of whom Jehovah had said to the sons of Israel: ‘You must not go in among them, and they themselves should not come in among you; truly they will incline your heart to follow their gods.’ ...his wives gradually inclined his heart...to follow other gods; and his heart did not prove to be complete with Jehovah his God like the heart of David his father. And Solomon began going after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians and after Milcom the disgusting thing of the Ammonites. And Solomon began to do what was bad in the eyes of Jehovah, and he did not follow Jehovah fully like David his father. (1Ki 11:1-8).

The account does not say that Solomon completely forsook the worship at the temple and the offering of sacrifices there. He apparently attempted to practice a sort of interfaith, in order to please his foreign wives. For this, “Jehovah came to be incensed at Solomon, because his heart had inclined away from Jehovah the God of Israel, the one appearing to him twice.” Jehovah informed Solomon that, as a consequence, He would rip part of the kingdom away from him, but not in Solomon’s day, out of respect for David and for the sake of Jerusalem. But he would do it in the days of Solomon’s son, leaving that son with only one tribe (besides Judah), which tribe proved to be Benjamin.—1Ki 11:9-13.

 

[Pdidy]

Moral standard za ndoa sasa zimeshuka kiasi kwamba
si ajabu tena kuona bibi harusi na vazi la harusi huku ana mimba kubwa! Karibu watu wote wanaokamatwa na suala la kutokuwa waaminifu katika ndoa zao (infidelity/Affair/cheating) hukubali kwamba ni kweli wamekosea na wengine husema ni shetani tu aliwaingia.
Tafiti zinaonesha kwamba katika jamii yoyote duniani asilimia 25 ya wanaume huchepuka nje ya ndoa zao na asilimia 10 ya wanawake hukiri kuchepuka kwenye ndoa zao hii haina maana wanandoa wenzao hujua suala ni kwamba huwa wanakiri kwamba wamewahi kutoka nje ya ndoa zao.

NINI HUSABABISHA WENGI KUCHEPUKA
Kutoridhika na ndoa zao idara zote na kuanza kutafuta mtu wa nje ili kuridhishwa.
Matatizo ya familia.
Wengine hujikuta amempenda mtu mwingine (fall in love).
Kutengana kwa muda mrefu mume na mke inaweza kuwa masomo au kazi nk.
Kushuka kwa kiwango cha kiroho cha wanandoa.
Kuhitaji kuridhishwa zaidi kimapenzi; kuna watu wana libido la ajabu!
Kutafuta Kujiamini na kutambuliwa kwamba yeye ni nani katika jamii ( kama ujinga fulani hivi)

Kuikata kweli ya Neno la Mungu.
Ukaidi na uhuni.
Hitaji la kupendwa baada ya kutelekezwa.
Kuzaliwa mtoto wa kwanza katika ndoa; Feelings za kumpa mume huhamia kwa mtoto na wanandoa hujikuta wapo emotionally distant.

NINI HUSABABISHA WENGI KUGOMA KUCHEPUKA.
Kujitoa (commitment) kwa ndoa na kulinda ahadi na agano (covenant)
Kuaminiana kwa wanandoa (strong trust)
Sababu dini yaani wokovu (uhusiano binafsi wa mwanandoa na Mungu)
Kuogopa matokeo ya kuchepuka kama vile magonjwa (UKIMWI) na crisis zingine.
Kujifahamu na kukomaa kiakili na Kujiamini.
Kupenda mke na watoto na kuwapa heshima iliyotukuka na kuishi kwa mfano kimatendo na kimaneno.
Uadilifu (moral standard)


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[Annina]

Naona neno hili la biblia lina mlenga zaidi mwanaume kuwa hana akili ambayo sio sahihi, wote mwanamke na mwanaume wazinifu hawana akili. Ingekuwa sahihi kama lingesomeka hivi" mtu aziniye na mwanamke au mwanaume hana akili kabisa"...................

Makubwa! kwa mara ya kwanza nashuhudia mwanaume akililia usawa na wanawake! Kweli mwisho umekaribia.


Annina

 

[MaxShimba]

Habari wana ndugu nikiwa katika kusoma maandiko nimekutana na hili neno limenigus a nikaona si kushirikiana tu kwingine hata kwenye kuokoa roho zetu pia

Mithali 6:32

MTU AZINIYE NA MWANAMKE HANA AKILI KABISA;AFANYA JAMBO LITAKALOMWANGAMIZA NAFSI YAKE
ATAPATA JERAHA NA KUVUNJIWA HESHIMA WALA FEDHEHA YAKE AITAFUTIKA

MMH JAMANI WALE BEBA BEBA TUSHTUKE KIDOGO ;

MENGINE MENGI TUTAAMBIANA

....and I don't want to be the one who lacks understanding before God. It is only the fear of the Lord will make you respect yourself and is a beginning of wisdom.

Proverbs 6:

25 Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
26 For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life.
27 Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?
28 Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?
29 So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.
It is possible to overcome evil in Jesus Name.