Am I falling in love or is just a crush?

Bree ven

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I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like serious, sina boyfriend hadi sasa. Although I had several crushes over some men, but neither of them didn't work because they were just crushes. Here I am again facing another case.

Kuna kijana nimetokea kumpenda jinsi alivyo tu, yaani I wish he can be more than a boyfriend nadhani naenda mbali kidogo. Kuna some coincidences zinatokea tunapokutana maana we work at the same place, to the extent that I think like he is mine. Kuna siku nilitamani kumwambia but I was so afraiding of speaking it out.

Kwa jinsi alivyo is like he is single nilikua tu namsoma nikajitoa kumuuliza status yake. Akanambia ataoa hivi punde, I will never forget nililia sana usiku. Yaani niliumia wiki nzima, ni kama kuachwa nadhani. Up to now I'm trying to move on and the guy doesn't know that he has broken my heart. Siku zinazidi kwenda afu sioni dalili za yeye kuoa, but I'm trying to let him go.

Japo kila nikifikiria naumia that's why najiuliza if it's just a crush or falling in love.. The man is good in keeping in touch with people in communication wise but unfortunately kwangu mimi ni kama may be I'm not his type although he is just a friend because he doesn't text me, sometimes he doesn't reply my texts, or even pick up my calls.

Inauma lakini ndo hivo inabidi nimuache aende. . Ijapokuwa kuna wakati nikijisikia upweke naumia, lakini ndo hivo afu kuna wakati natamani nimshirikishe jambo hasa la kufurahisha then napotezea maana ndo hivo najua atachukulia poa.

Yeye hunitafuta tu Pale akihitaji msaada wangu, otherwise he does not call or text. This makes me feel bad anyway he just doesn't know... Hakika moyo sukuma damu...
 
Naona dalili za mbuzi mgonjwa akafia kwa muuza supu.

Inaonekana jamaa haumo moyoni mwake, ndio maana akakujibu kama karibuni anaowa.

Kwanini usimwambie unavyojihisi moyoni mwako juu yake? Mimi siwezi kuzuwia hisia moyoni kabisa, nikikubaliwa poa nikikataliwa poa tu lakini la moyoni lishatoka.
Nashangaa kuomba kazi mnaweza tena kwenye interview mnajielezea vizuri hatari. lakini kumwabia mtu unamtaka mnashindwa.


Ndukiiiii
 
fool heart.... by Don Williams
Fool Fool Heart
WHat have you done,
I thought by now, you'd had enough but oh no, you've got me fall in Love again!
Fool Fool heart
Taking chance like you do, isn't smart
My fool, fool heart....
Fool, Fool heart, how quickly you forget
Just when you were about to mend,
you get to feeling lucky, so you try it again........

Tafuta huu wimbo utadhani Don Williams alikuwa anasimulia kisa chako!

Mwimbo mwingine ni huu Falling Again by Don Williams
I should take my time I know...Take it easy take it slow,
Every heartache need to mend, before you fall in love again
so I hold on for a while, try to keep this old heart free
And then I look across the room, someone smiles at me.....

Oh and, heaven help me here I go again
Before I have even had time for this old heart to mend
Oh I just get over one heartache and then
Here I go, like a fool falling again....

Naona jamaa alikutabiri!

don't worry lengo ni kukuonesha kuwa it is very common na sio leo, Don aliimba hizi almost 30 years ago!
 
fool heart.... by Don Williams
Fool Fool Heart
WHat have you done,
I thought by now, you'd had enough but oh no, you've got me fall in Love again!
Fool Fool heart
Taking chance like you do, isn't smart
My fool, fool heart....
Fool, Fool heart, how quickly you forget
Just when you were about to mend,
you get to feeling lucky, so you try it again........

Tafuta huu wimbo utadhani Don Williams alikuwa anasimulia kisa chako!

Mwimbo mwingine ni huu Falling Again by Don Williams
I should take my time I know...Take it easy take it slow,
Every heartache need to mend, before you fall in love again
so I hold on for a while, try to keep this old heart free
And then I look across the room, someone smiles at me.....

Oh and, heaven help me here I go again
Before I have even had time for this old heart to mend
Oh I just get over one heartache and then
Here I go, like a fool falling again....

Naona jamaa alikutabiri!

don't worry lengo ni kukuonesha kuwa it is very common na sio leo, Don aliimba hizi almost 30 years ago!
Duuuh. That's really
 
Muonyeshe ishara kama unampenda, if you're getting completely negative vibes, the person clearly isn't right for you. It's hard to be rejected but better to know so you can move on.
 
I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like serious, sina boyfriend hadi sasa. Although I had several crushes over some men, but neither of them didn't work because they were just crushes. Here I am again facing another case. Kuna kijana nimetokea kumpenda jinsi alivyo tu, yaani I wish he can be more than a boyfriend nadhani naenda mbali kidogo. Kuna some coincidences zinatokea tunapokutana maana we work at the same place, to the extent that I think like he is mine. Kuna siku nilitamani kumwambia but I was so afraiding of speaking it out. Kwa jinsi alivyo is like he is single nilikua tu namsoma nikajitoa kumuuliza status yake. Akanambia ataoa hivi punde, I will never forget nililia sana usiku. Yaani niliumia wiki nzima, ni kama kuachwa nadhani. Up to now I'm trying to move on and the guy doesn't know that he has broken my heart. Siku zinazidi kwenda afu sioni dalili za yeye kuoa, but I'm trying to let him go. Japo kila nikifikiria naumia that's why najiuliza if it's just a crush or falling in love.. The man is good in keeping in touch with people in communication wise but unfortunately kwangu mimi ni kama may be I'm not his type although he is just a friend because he doesn't text me, sometimes he doesn't reply my texts, or even pick up my calls. Inauma lakini ndo hivo inabidi nimuache aende. . Ijapokuwa kuna wakati nikijisikia upweke naumia, lakini ndo hivo afu kuna wakati natamani nimshirikishe jambo hasa la kufurahisha then napotezea maana ndo hivo najua atachukulia poa. Yeye hunitafuta tu Pale akihitaji msaada wangu, otherwise he does not call or text. This makes me feel bad anyway he just doesn't know... Hakika moyo sukuma damu...
Personally i would advise you to keep yourself busy loving yourself and praying. In our eyes not everything is perfect. People nowdays take advantage of loyalty. Kuna men/women who prefer to hear more about i love you rather than saying if they feel the same or no. A real man don't brags around talking lies, don't get yourself into situations and illusion hoping for same response try to do something great to make make yourself potential in away falling in love with right people is real and not just a sided enforcement. It's better to chill love always finds its way. KEEP BEING YOU IT IS WORTH FULL FOR YOU TO DO NOW DON'T SHOUT OUT TO GET HIS ATTENTION IT WILL BE HUMILIATING IF HE IS TOTALLY CONTRARY WITH YOUR FEELINGS. RELAX. TAKE DEEP BREATH. ITS HARD BUT WORTHY THAN GETTING TORCHED FOR LOVING WRONG PERSON.
 
Naona dalili za mbuzi mgonjwa akafia kwa muuza supu.

Inaonekana jamaa haumo moyoni mwake, ndio maana akakujibu kama karibuni anaowa.

Kwanini usimwambie unavyojihisi moyoni mwako juu yake? Mimi siwezi kuzuwia hisia moyoni kabisa, nikikubaliwa poa nikikataliwa poa tu lakini la moyoni lishatoka.
Nashangaa kuomba kazi mnaweza tena kwenye interview mnajielezea vizuri hatari. lakini kumwabia mtu unamtaka mnashindwa.


Ndukiiiii
 
The problem is that you give your own answer without telling the man that you feel something about him, when you grow up you will know the important of asking what you want? Or express your feeling without fear anything. Next time when you meet with him just tell him what you feel about him. Then let him to give you the answer.
 
I'm 29 yrs old now. I have never been in any relationship, like serious, sina boyfriend hadi sasa. Although I had several crushes over some men, but neither of them didn't work because they were just crushes. Here I am again facing another case. Kuna kijana nimetokea kumpenda jinsi alivyo tu, yaani I wish he can be more than a boyfriend nadhani naenda mbali kidogo. Kuna some coincidences zinatokea tunapokutana maana we work at the same place, to the extent that I think like he is mine. Kuna siku nilitamani kumwambia but I was so afraiding of speaking it out. Kwa jinsi alivyo is like he is single nilikua tu namsoma nikajitoa kumuuliza status yake. Akanambia ataoa hivi punde, I will never forget nililia sana usiku. Yaani niliumia wiki nzima, ni kama kuachwa nadhani. Up to now I'm trying to move on and the guy doesn't know that he has broken my heart. Siku zinazidi kwenda afu sioni dalili za yeye kuoa, but I'm trying to let him go. Japo kila nikifikiria naumia that's why najiuliza if it's just a crush or falling in love.. The man is good in keeping in touch with people in communication wise but unfortunately kwangu mimi ni kama may be I'm not his type although he is just a friend because he doesn't text me, sometimes he doesn't reply my texts, or even pick up my calls. Inauma lakini ndo hivo inabidi nimuache aende. . Ijapokuwa kuna wakati nikijisikia upweke naumia, lakini ndo hivo afu kuna wakati natamani nimshirikishe jambo hasa la kufurahisha then napotezea maana ndo hivo najua atachukulia poa. Yeye hunitafuta tu Pale akihitaji msaada wangu, otherwise he does not call or text. This makes me feel bad anyway he just doesn't know... Hakika moyo sukuma damu...
Don't worry, njoo inbox nikupe namba yangu, achana na huyo
 
Your style of writing profiles a no-keeper type. 29er should be a woman, not a girl. Maybe that's what scaring the brothaman away, I would be. You need some self evaluation first, otherwise you'll keep taking them Ls.
 

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