Wivu Kipimo Cha Mapenzi

Companero · Nov 29, 2012

Ukiwa na mtu akakuambia habari za mtu aliyekuwa naye kabla au aliyefikiria kuwa naye ila ukawa husikii wivu hasa huyo mtu mwingine anapokuwa karibu au unapomuona jua humpendi mwenzio. Na ukiwa na mtu mkaachana, akakuacha au ukamuacha halafu ukimuona na mtu mwingine husikii wivu tambua kuwa ulikuwa humpendi mwenzako. Wivu ni kipimo thabiti cha mapenzi. Tahadhari: Wivu ukizidi husababisha kifo. Ushauri: Maumivu yatokanayo na wivu yakizidi muone daktari. Kwa leo ni hayo tu kutoka kwenye Tafakuri za Alfajiri za Kompanero.

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"Penzi Kitovu cha Uzembe" - Ngoswe

Bujibuji Simba Nyamaume · Nov 29, 2012

Nani kakuambia? Wivu ni mapepo, utaishia jela wewe kwa kuendekeza wivu.
https://www.jamiiforums.com/mahusia...fuli-ili-asitoke-nje-ya-ndoa.html#post4899466

Fixed Point · Nov 29, 2012

Companero said:
Ukiwa na mtu akakuambia habari za mtu aliyekuwa naye kabla au aliyefikiria kuwa naye ila ukawa husikii wivu hasa huyo mtu mwingine anapokuwa karibu au unapomuona jua humpendi mwenzio. Na ukiwa na mtu mkaachana, akakuacha au ukamuacha halafu ukimuona na mtu mwingine husikii wivu tambua kuwa ulikuwa humpendi mwenzako. Wivu ni kipimo thabiti cha mapenzi. Angalizo: Wivu ukizidi husababisha kifo. Ushauri: Maumivu yatokanayo na wivu yakizidi muone daktari. Kwa leo ni hayo tu kutoka kwenye Tafakuri za Alfajiri za Kompanero.

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"Penzi Kitovu cha Uzembe" - Ngoswe

hiyo hapo kwangu haiapply........
nakupenda tunapokuwa pamoja, nikikuona na mtu nitaumia sana.......yaani wivu unakuwa 100% lakini siku nikikubali kuachana nawe ujue na upendo kwako unaisha...... ndo maana mimi sijawahi kurudi kwa x, hata kama nilikupenda vipi..... ulishapita...... utakuwa rafiki yangu mzuri tu nakini wivu kwako hakuna tena...... tena naweza hata kumtafutia mtu ambaye naona anaweza akamfaa (nimeshawahi kufanya hivi tena kwa mtu ambaye nilimpenda saaaannnaaaa)

Heart · Nov 29, 2012

Ukipenda kweli wivu huja automatically yaani..

Nivea · Nov 29, 2012

ssiweki wala sioni wivu ikibidi nakutafutia kabisa mwanamke ,sirudii matapishi kamwe thats my principle ,kama tuliachana hapo ndio mwisho sitaki mawasiliano na wewe period.ni lipi tunalozungumza tena?????????? lala mbele huko.tukishaachana ndio basi ni sawa nakukatisha pale kongo hunijui sikujui period.utaniharibia hekalu langu jipya mie lol

Mwanamayu · Nov 29, 2012

Companero said:
Ukiwa na mtu akakuambia habari za mtu aliyekuwa naye kabla au aliyefikiria kuwa naye ila ukawa husikii wivu hasa huyo mtu mwingine anapokuwa karibu au unapomuona jua humpendi mwenzio. Na ukiwa na mtu mkaachana, akakuacha au ukamuacha halafu ukimuona na mtu mwingine husikii wivu tambua kuwa ulikuwa humpendi mwenzako. Wivu ni kipimo thabiti cha mapenzi. Angalizo: Wivu ukizidi husababisha kifo. Ushauri: Maumivu yatokanayo na wivu yakizidi muone daktari. Kwa leo ni hayo tu kutoka kwenye Tafakuri za Alfajiri za Kompanero.

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"Penzi Kitovu cha Uzembe" - Ngoswe

hivi mapenzi ndio mapendo?

Kiranga · Nov 29, 2012

Wivu deep down ni insecurity.Kwa hiyo unasema hakuna mapenzi kwa watu wasio na insecurity?

Companero · Nov 29, 2012

FP said:
hiyo hapo kwangu haiapply........
nakupenda tunapokuwa pamoja, nikikuona na mtu nitaumia sana.......yaani wivu unakuwa 100% lakini siku nikikubali kuachana nawe ujue na upendo kwako unaisha...... ndo maana mimi sijawahi kurudi kwa x, hata kama nilikupenda vipi..... ulishapita...... utakuwa rafiki yangu mzuri tu nakini wivu kwako hakuna tena...... tena naweza hata kumtafutia mtu ambaye naona anaweza akamfaa (nimeshawahi kufanya hivi tena kwa mtu ambaye nilimpenda saaaannnaaaa)

acha denialism, hapa hatumaanishi kuwa unataka kurudiana naye au you are not over him - tunamaanisha kuwa usiposikia kale kamshtuko kule ndani basi ujue hukuwa unampenda, hayo mengine yote ni jitihada tu za ku-move on na kujiaminisha (kujipumbaza) kuwa upendo umeisha hivyo unaweza hata kumtafutia mtu; hivi unajua kwenye baadhi ya jamii zenye mitala ni mke anayemtafutia mume mke wa pili hivyo hicho sio kigezo cha kusema eti unafanya hivyo kwa sababu humpendi tena au huna wivu naye tena, ni namna tu ya kuendelea na maisha kwa kuwa huna jinsi...

Nyani Ngabu · Nov 29, 2012

Jealousy is a natural human emotion.

gfsonwin · Nov 29, 2012

FP said:
hiyo hapo kwangu haiapply........
nakupenda tunapokuwa pamoja, nikikuona na mtu nitaumia sana.......yaani wivu unakuwa 100% lakini siku nikikubali kuachana nawe ujue na upendo kwako unaisha...... ndo maana mimi sijawahi kurudi kwa x, hata kama nilikupenda vipi..... ulishapita...... utakuwa rafiki yangu mzuri tu nakini wivu kwako hakuna tena...... tena naweza hata kumtafutia mtu ambaye naona anaweza akamfaa (nimeshawahi kufanya hivi tena kwa mtu ambaye nilimpenda saaaannnaaaa)

mm bana sinaga experience sana ya ma-x ila niko hivi nikikupenda siku nikikushit basi kiwango kitazidi upendo nlokuwa nakupendea.

nina experience moa mtu ali hire private investigator kwaajili ya mkewe kisa wivu. the man lvd his wife mno and the wife alijua hilo. but mume hakuwa na 100% trust kwake. imagine the man anafanya kazi nzuri sana na muda mwingi hayuko nchini so alimweka huyu investigator awe ana link na wife pasi wife kujua.

jamaa sjui alibugi vipi wife akagundua mbona alitaka kudai talaka kwa hasira. ikabidi mume ajirudi manake ilikuwa ni kesi ya ukoo tena. but wife hadi leo anahisi mumewe anamwekea mlinzi ingawa hamjui ni nani.

Companero · Nov 29, 2012

Kiranga said:
Wivu deep down ni insecurity.Kwa hiyo unasema hakuna mapenzi kwa watu wasio na insecurity?

wrong premises give wrong conclusions - you are asking the wrong question sir, hiyo ni tafsiri yako ya wivu...yaani ukute mpenzi wako anafanya mapenzi na mtu mwingine kisha ukisikia kitu kinachoma moyoni useme ni insecurity?

Heart · Nov 29, 2012

Nyani Ngabu said:
Jealousy is a natural human emotion.

So so true..

Nyani Ngabu · Nov 29, 2012

Companero said:
wrong premises give wrong conclusions - you are asking the wrong question sir, hiyo ni tafsiri yako ya wivu...yaani ukute mpenzi wako anafanya mapenzi na mtu mwingine kisha ukisikia kitu kinachoma moyoni useme ni insecurity?

Perhaps he is a different breed.

ndetichia · Nov 29, 2012

HEART said:
Ukipenda kweli wivu huja automatically yaani..

wivu ni nature ya mtu..

ndetichia · Nov 29, 2012

nivea said:
ssiweki wala sioni wivu ikibidi nakutafutia kabisa mwanamke ,sirudii matapishi kamwe thats my principle ,kama tuliachana hapo ndio mwisho sitaki mawasiliano na wewe period.ni lipi tunalozungumza tena?????????? lala mbele huko.tukishaachana ndio basi ni sawa nakukatisha pale kongo hunijui sikujui period.utaniharibia hekalu langu jipya mie lol

well well love ndio inavotaka akikuzingua tupa kule na unamsahau kabisaa...

Fixed Point · Nov 29, 2012

Companero said:
acha denialism, hapa hatumaanishi kuwa unataka kurudiana naye au you are not over him - tunamaanisha kuwa usiposikia kale kamshtuko kule ndani basi ujue hukuwa unampenda, hayo mengine yote ni jitihada tu za ku-move on na kujiaminisha (kujipumbaza) kuwa upendo umeisha hivyo unaweza hata kumtafutia mtu; hivi unajua kwenye baadhi ya jamii zenye mitala ni mke anayemtafutia mume mke wa pili hivyo hicho sio kigezo cha kusema eti unafanya hivyo kwa sababu humpendi tena au huna wivu naye tena, ni namna tu ya kuendelea na maisha kwa kuwa huna jinsi...

kati ya yoooote uliyoyaongea hapo ndo mwisho wa matatizo, huna jinsi...... mimi nina jinsi.....I am not with you anymore, unaweza kufanya chochote na hakinihusu.....kila mtu ame-move on na maisha yanaendelea.
mimi nilichosema kwangu haki-apply ni kwamba lazima usikie kawivu kwa x, ukiona kuwa bado unakawivu ujue bado unampenda, na ndo maana itakuwa rahisi sana kwenu kurudiana sababu bado mnapendana..... wanasema kiporo hakihitaji moto mwingi, siyo?

The Boss · Nov 29, 2012

Nyani Ngabu said:
Perhaps he is a different breed.

Different breed? how? lol..

Fixed Point · Nov 29, 2012

gfsonwin said:
mm bana sinaga experience sana ya ma-x ila niko hivi nikikupenda siku nikikushit basi kiwango kitazidi upendo nlokuwa nakupendea.

nina experience moa mtu ali hire private investigator kwaajili ya mkewe kisa wivu. the man lvd his wife mno and the wife alijua hilo. but mume hakuwa na 100% trust kwake. imagine the man anafanya kazi nzuri sana na muda mwingi hayuko nchini so alimweka huyu investigator awe ana link na wife pasi wife kujua.

jamaa sjui alibugi vipi wife akagundua mbona alitaka kudai talaka kwa hasira. ikabidi mume ajirudi manake ilikuwa ni kesi ya ukoo tena. but wife hadi leo anahisi mumewe anamwekea mlinzi ingawa hamjui ni nani.

huo nao eti unaitwa wivu, lol!
mtu akifikia hatua hiyo siyo kwamba anakuonea wivu bali hakuamini....
hakuna kwenda kazini, shule, sokoni, kwa mjomba, kwa wakwe bila mume....yaani huamini mtu yeyote.....na home umefunga CCTV ambayo upo nayo 24/7..... halafu mama unasema "mume wangu ana wivu kweli na mimi"

Kiranga · Nov 29, 2012

Companero said:
wrong premises give wrong conclusions - you are asking the wrong question sir, hiyo ni tafsiri yako ya wivu...yaani ukute mpenzi wako anafanya mapenzi na mtu mwingine kisha ukisikia kitu kinachoma moyoni useme ni insecurity?

Mosi, ukikuta mpenzi wako "anafanya mapenzi" na mtu mwingine, kitu kitakachokuchoma moyoni si wivu. Unaweza kuchomwa na wivu ukimuona mtu unayemtaka yuko na mwingine, lakini ukimkuta mpenzi wako yuko na mwingine kihivyo unaweza kupata hasira, unaweza kuona umehadaiwa, unaweza kupata chuki, lakini ukifikiri una wivu ama unajichanganya au you are beyond insecure.

Pili, the height of security would not allow that situation to happen in the first place anyway.

Tatu, in the hypothetical situation where that were to happen, the height of security would not invoke wivu, but ditching the betrayer, without looking back.

Wivu is hardly the mark of confidence and security.

Kitoabu · Nov 29, 2012

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