Watoto....best interest.....

nyumba kubwa · Jul 21, 2011

Nimekumbuka kisa kimoja. Kuna kijana ameoa mzungu. Mzungu yuko Ok sana ana kazi ya maana kweli kweli na ni dada kijana. Sasa huyo kijana alizaa na binti akiwa secondari. Kwa sasa jamaa anaishi nje ya nchi. Alimwahidi yule binti alozaa nae kuwa atamuoa akimaliza masomo yake but bahati mbaya au nzuri kijana kapata dada wa kidhungu kaoa. Sasa shughuli ni kwamba yule binti alozaa nae amegoma kata kata kumruhusu kijana amchukue mtoto aende kuishi nae majuu. Basi yule mke wa jamaa (mdhungu) kamwambia jamaa basi si neno tumwamishe mtoto akasome international school hapo hapo Tz. Binti bado kaweka ngumu anasema eti huyu mtoto atasoma hapa hapa kijijini saint kanumba kwani ndizo zilizomsomesha baba yake. Yani wamechanganyikiwa kwani kijana anaona life ya mwanae (tena wa kiume) inaharibika hivi hivi kwa ligi ya mamake kisa alitaka amuoe kamuacha kwenye mataa. Hata kumuona mtoto inawabidi waende shule kwani mama yake hataki na amesema atawarogelea mbali. Nilicheka sana mdhungu anaongelea kurogwa.
(mdhungu ni shoga yangu ndiye aliyenipa details si kijana)

Mbu said:
hapo kwenye kukomoana hapo,...mnh...Mwj1 pamoja na mapenzi yangu kwako, kina mama wengi wamejaaliwa hilo.
Kuna kina mama wachache waliojaaliwa mioyo ya huruma, mfanoi weye Mwj1 wangu, ...lol...(ulishaanza kununa ee?)

BelindaJacob · Jul 21, 2011

RR said:
BJ mzima?
RR got 2 kids to take care of....
Thanx for the compliment....ila not that wise....
Ila ikija maamuzi kuhusu watoto wangu nitawalinda kwa nguvu zote....hata ikimaanisha kupindisha misimamo yangu!

Salama RR, naamini uko vyema na wewe!!

Oops! hongera sana, you must be a very responsible dad!!..yes, you're wise hata ukatae!!..

Asante kwa darasa la leo, nime elimia na kuburudika sana na hii topic!..Barikiwa sana!!

MwanajamiiOne · Jul 21, 2011

nyumba kubwa said:
Nimekumbuka kisa kimoja. Kuna kijana ameoa mzungu. Mzungu yuko Ok sana ana kazi ya maana kweli kweli na ni dada kijana. Sasa huyo kijana alizaa na binti akiwa secondari. Kwa sasa jamaa anaishi nje ya nchi. Alimwahidi yule binti alozaa nae kuwa atamuoa akimaliza masomo yake but bahati mbaya au nzuri kijana kapata dada wa kidhungu kaoa. Sasa shughuli ni kwamba yule binti alozaa nae amegoma kata kata kumruhusu kijana amchukue mtoto aende kuishi nae majuu. Basi yule mke wa jamaa (mdhungu) kamwambia jamaa basi si neno tumwamishe mtoto akasome international school hapo hapo Tz. Binti bado kaweka ngumu anasema eti huyu mtoto atasoma hapa hapa kijijini saint kanumba kwani ndizo zilizomsomesha baba yake. Yani wamechanganyikiwa kwani kijana anaona life ya mwanae (tena wa kiume) inaharibika hivi hivi kwa ligi ya mamake kisa alitaka amuoe kamuacha kwenye mataa. Hata kumuona mtoto inawabidi waende shule kwani mama yake hataki na amesema atawarogelea mbali. Nilicheka sana mdhungu anaongelea kurogwa.
(mdhungu ni shoga yangu ndiye aliyenipa details si kijana)

Aksante nyumba kubwa .....huu ni mfano tosha wa 'kukomoana' nilikosema
Yaani mambo ya we si umemwaga mboga, mie namwaga ugali!! ...............haki, maslahi ya mtoto yamewekwa kando kabisa imagine mtoto aje akue mtu mzima maisha yamgonge afu aambiwa mamake alikataa asisome International achilia mbali kuishi nje ya nchi kama atamwelewa.

Wengi wetu tumejikuta tuna vinyongo na wazazi wetu hasa wale ambao wametudenai baadhi ya haki zetu kwa kuwa tu kwao waliona inafaa....bila kujiuliza ni sahihi/inafaa kwa mwanangu??

Manda · Jul 22, 2011

RR said:
Wakichachua wapeleke kwa pau.....kudaadeki...waone kilichomtoa kanga manyoya....Kuhusu hilo swali lako....Mara nyingi ni ubinafsi....japo yawezekana baba akawa amepoteza uwezo wa kuwa baba! Hizo kazi ya utktf nimezistaafu asee....ila mbona ulikana ile mimba ya mtoto wa grini eka?

Haaaaaaaa! nakusemelea kwa Babu Asipirini akupige bani...ndo nn mambo ya behind the scenes ukayaweka jamvini?Babuuuuuu!...uyu Ex Mtakatifu ananchokozaaa...

Manda · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Aisee we dogo hili dhalilisho kama la Bi. Shelukindo......... nahesabu 1.............. 2................

Manda ni mjukuu kwa Babu Asipiri...ntashangaa ka' utanirushia mkongojo wako Babu...mm na ww utani kwenda mbele.WARNING: Una kila dalili za kumpoteza 'mwanao' wa ubatizo..yaelekea hizi sredi topic anazoanzisha zinaelezea matatizo aliyonayo...one.....two....am counting.

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

Manda said:
Haaaaaaaa! nakusemelea kwa Babu Asipirini akupige bani...ndo nn mambo ya behind the scenes ukayaweka jamvini?Babuuuuuu!...uyu Ex Mtakatifu ananchokozaaa...

Sema neno moja tu uone kazi ya babu ODM!

Manda said:
Manda ni mjukuu kwa Babu Asipiri...ntashangaa ka' utanirushia mkongojo wako Babu...mm na ww utani kwenda mbele.WARNING: Una kila dalili za kumpoteza 'mwanao' wa ubatizo..yaelekea hizi sredi topic anazoanzisha zinaelezea matatizo aliyonayo...one.....two....am counting.

Aisee umenifumbua macho.......... ngoja niisome kwa makini sredi ya shetani mtakatifu..... am reading........

RR said:
Najua wengi wetu mmeshawahi kushuhudia au kuishi ndani ya ‘single parenting'……ama maisha ya magomvi muda wote….namaanisha kuwa mzazi kati ya migongano ya kimahusiano….
Mimi (ex. st) RR nawashauri ‘single parents' (wale walio kwenye magomvi)

waache kutumia watoto kama zana ya kupigania uhusiano wao….. au kama kifaa cha kumwadhibu mzazi mwenzake….(hapa wengine hata hupandikiza chuki kwa watoto dhidi ya uapande wa pili).

waache ubinafsi katika kufanya maamuzi yahusuyo watoto….sio vizuri mzazi akaruhusu mtoto akakaa na mzazi mwengine, hata kama kisheria mzazi huyu ana uwezo wa kung'ang'ania …as long as it is of best interest to the kid….mfano sioni ulazima wa baba kumchukua mtoto kwa kisingizio cha mtoto kutimiza miaka saba ya kisheria au mama kukataa mtoto asikae na baba kwa akisingizia mtoto hajatimiza miaka saba!

Kumbukeni....mzazi wa mwanao akipata maumivu….basi hayo maumivi yanamfikia mtoto…in some ways!
Ni ushauri tu!

RR · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Sema neno moja tu uone kazi ya babu ODM!

Aisee umenifumbua macho.......... ngoja niisome kwa makini sredi ya shetani mtakatifu..... am reading........

Hommie hii thredi ni out of context kwa Manda.......kakurupuka kuchangia......

Back to topic....Nina hasira na mijitu inayotesa watoto kwa ubinafsi......kumbaf!

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Kuna tukio kama hili:

Baada ya binti kumaliza chuo kikuu, mama yake akamwambia binti akamuonyeshe baba yake halisi......... Yaani mida yote amekaa na mtu akidhania ni baba yake kumbe si baba yake. Imagine!......... ngoja nisiendelee manake chozi laweza kunitoka bure....

Asprin said:
Mheshimiwa moskwito..... kibaya zaidi baba naye alikuwa anajua kuwa yule ni binti yake.... aliuziwa mimba!...... Hili liliibuka baada ya baba kukorofishana na mama na bahati mbaya binti akawa upande wa baba yake.......... akashangazwa kuambiwa baadae kuwa yule anayemtetea wala si baba yake, na kama vipi wajipange ampeleke kwa baba yake halisi ili ahuhudie alivyo "gentleman" kuliko huyo aliyefikiri ndo baba yake...............kilichotokea, naogopa kukiweka hadharani hapa... waweza kulia aisee!

Mbu said:
Mwj1, kwa mara nyingine tena ninakurudisha kwenye mfano wa Aspirin.
Mama mtu akiamua kumchapia mzazi mwenziwe kwa kumtumia mtoto,
miaka ikishapita asiitumie bakora hiyo hiyo kuwaadhibu wengine,...sio busara!
msome Aspirin.

Aspirin weka yaliyojiri, nishaandaa tissues hapa...

Well well well....... binti akawa konfyudi. Akakaa nalo yapata mwezi uzalendo ukamshinda, akafanya kosa moja kubwa mbalo sijui kama alipata muda wa kulijutia.......akamvaa baba yake "mlezi" kumuuliza...... Aisee nyie watu ngoja niishie hapa, Moskwito tishu haizitasaidia sana.....

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

RR said:
Hommie hii thredi ni out of context kwa Manda.......kakurupuka kuchangia......

Back to topic....Nina hasira na mijitu inayotesa watoto kwa ubinafsi......kumbaf!

Hivi huyu kijana kumbe bado siyo?

RR · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Well well well....... binti akawa konfyudi. Akakaa nalo yapata mwezi uzalendo ukamshinda, akafanya kosa moja kubwa mbalo sijui kama alipata muda wa kulijutia.......akamvaa baba yake "mlezi" kumuuliza...... Aisee nyie watu ngoja niishie hapa, Moskwito tishu haizitasaidia sana.....

Asee.....

RR · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Hivi huyu kijana kumbe bado siyo?

Mbado sana asee.....anadhani maisha ya kulea lelemama.....

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

RR said:
Mbado sana asee.....anadhani maisha ya kulea lelemama.....

Understood......... lets play low profile.......

Manda · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Hivi huyu kijana kumbe bado siyo?

Khekheeeeee! usimsikilize huyu Babu ODM....hii inaitwa Commercial break...ata kwa luninga ipo..BTW anahangaika tu apa, trying to sympasize na nyie wadau, mm nina dossier files zake zoote...RR...harooo harooo harooo! nakupa LAST WARNING bfr kukufurumusha.... heshimu kiti cha shemejio.Back to the topic: Vp, mwanao wa nyumba ndogo Kishumundu ushamchukua aft kushinda kesi ustawi wa jamii?..damn u...!

Mbu · Jul 22, 2011

Asprin said:
Well well well....... binti akawa konfyudi. Akakaa nalo yapata mwezi uzalendo ukamshinda, akafanya kosa moja kubwa mbalo sijui kama alipata muda wa kulijutia.......akamvaa baba yake "mlezi" kumuuliza...... Aisee nyie watu ngoja niishie hapa, Moskwito tishu haizitasaidia sana.....

ehhh? aliuliwa nini?

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

Manda said:
Khekheeeeee! usimsikilize huyu Babu ODM....hii inaitwa Commercial break...ata kwa luninga ipo..BTW anahangaika tu apa, trying to sympasize na nyie wadau, mm nina dossier files zake zoote...RR...harooo harooo harooo! nakupa LAST WARNING bfr kukufurumusha.... heshimu kiti cha shemejio.Back to the topic: Vp, mwanao wa nyumba ndogo Kishumundu ushamchukua aft kushinda kesi ustawi wa jamii?..damn u...!

Aisee!

Kumbe nna kazi kubwa ya kufanya siyo?

Asprin · Jul 22, 2011

Mbu said:
ehhh? aliuliwa nini?

Asprin said:
Well well well....... binti akawa konfyudi. Akakaa nalo yapata mwezi uzalendo ukamshinda, akafanya kosa moja kubwa mbalo sijui kama alipata muda wa kulijutia.......akamvaa baba yake "mlezi" kumuuliza...... Aisee nyie watu ngoja niishie hapa, Moskwito tishu haizitasaidia sana.....

Hapo mbele ya bold ilipaswa niendeleze sentensi "mbele ya baba yake mlezi"......... Haya mambo yanatisha jamani, na yanaliza.

Watoto....best interest.....

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