G bado kidogo na ww ungechelewa kuiweka hiyo dislaimer....bahati yako!
Sasa hapo kwenye kutoa mimba ili upate psychological relief hapo....kitendo chenyewe cha kutoa mimba si tayari kinaweza kumpa mtu tatizo la kisaikolojia?
Au tatizo hilo linakuwa si long lasting kama vile kumzaa mtoto na kuwa nae for the rest of your life?
Ni kweli kabisa kama mtu anapata tubuar pregancy hapa ni lazima wa-ternimate kwa ajili ya afya ya mama ila kuna mtu naye mfahamu ambaye alikuwa na tubular pregnancy na walimpa uchaguzi wa ku-plant kwenye tumbo la uzazi au kutupa viseli. Yeye alichagua kuplant, katoto kake sasa ni ka six grader
Sio sawa hata kidogo..labda kwa sababu za kiafya pekee.
Kama mtu aliweza kufurahia starehe yake bila kufikiria nini kinaweza kutokea bila yeye kua mwangalifu basi inabidi apokee na kukubali jukumu la kuzaa iwapo litajitokeza. After all...kila mwenye akili timamu anajua kabisa nini kinaweza kutokea akifanya mapenzi bila kinga...kwahiyo kama kweli hana nia wala mawazo ya kuitwa mama karibuni ni vizuri akawa mwangalifu au asifanye mapenzi kabisa.
Sio starehe apatr mwingine na adhabu apate mwingine.
Sasa hapo kwenye kutoa mimba ili upate psychological relief hapo....kitendo chenyewe cha kutoa mimba si tayari kinaweza kumpa mtu tatizo la kisaikolojia?
Au tatizo hilo linakuwa si long lasting kama vile kumzaa mtoto na kuwa nae for the rest of your life?
Wapo wanaotumia labda contraceptives and njia nyengine za kujilinda na bado wakapata uja uzito. Ninamjua dada mmoja alikuwa na mume na alipata mtoto wake kwa operation, baada ya mwezi alikuwa taabani anaumwa sana tumbo. Kufika hospitali akaambiwa ni mjamzito tena na daktari akamlazimisha kuitoa kwa kuwa mwili wake usingeweza kuhimili mimba kwa wakati huo. Yeye alikuwa akitumia contraceptives pia.
Chamoto kuna post moja ya Gaijini ameweka pia msimamo wa sheria zetu...ni kosa la jinai kutoa mimba (exception ndo kama hiyo ya kuhatarisha maisha ya mama lakini ithibitishwe na daktari) huo ndo msimamo. Kinyume na hapo ni kosa.
Hivi nani aliwahi kusikia mwanamke aliyetoa mimba kafungwa? Karibuni niliskia dada mmoja kajifungua katupa kichanga chooni sijui kesi yake iliishia wapi. Nataka tu kujua hilo, maana kesi za kuiba kuku na kutukana jadharani tunaskia wamefungwa.
Gaijin back to your point: kwamba dhehebu likiniruhusu kuitoa kwa sababu yoyote ile ilhali ni kinyume na sheria za nchi inakuwaje hapo? Dhehebu liko juu ya sheria za nchi? (au hayo madhehebu hayapo tz)
Wapo wanaotumia labda contraceptives and njia nyengine za kujilinda na bado wakapata uja uzito. Ninamjua dada mmoja alikuwa na mume na alipata mtoto wake kwa operation, baada ya mwezi alikuwa taabani anaumwa sana tumbo. Kufika hospitali akaambiwa ni mjamzito tena na daktari akamlazimisha kuitoa kwa kuwa mwili wake usingeweza kuhimili mimba kwa wakati huo. Yeye alikuwa akitumia contraceptives pia.
Gaijin nilitaka tufike tu hapo....sheria ipo na haiwi enforced, its as good as it doesnt exist! Kwa hiyo acha hata hayo madhehebu yajiamulia kulingana na sheria zao.
Nchi ya hovyo kabisa, madaktari watoa mimba wapo tu wanandunda na wateja wao. Imekuwa kawaida tu siku hizi kutoa mimba. Na hili ndo linapelekea hasa watu hata wasiogope.
Btw: kuna mmoja alikuwa maarufu kama Dr. Coca pale kimara alikamatwa sijui aliishia wapi.....wanahabari nao, taarifa kama hizi hawfatiliii.
kama kawaida kilakitu mzaha mzaha tuuThe Citizen on Sunday managed to buy the pills at one of the drug shops in Mwenge area in Dar es Salaam during the week. The seller looked at me in the eyes for a few seconds, then went to the storeroom and handed them to me."There you are," she said without asking for a prescription, as she gave them to me as if I knew what to do with them.
In a simple search for abortion pills in the retail drug outlets in Dar es Salaam, more than three sellers gave the life-threatening pills without prescriptions at all
<br />Kuna na hili la kwenda pharmacy bila ya kuulizwa cheti cha daktari ukapewa vidonge vinavyotumika kutoa mimba nalo. Serikali imekaa burdaaan hata habari haina <br />
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<a href="http://allafrica.com/stories/201101100328.html" target="_blank">allAfrica.com: Tanzania: Abortion Pills Now Sold Over the Counter</a>
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Hata kama watu hawajali sheria za nchi wala Mungu kwa nini wasitizame welfare yao binafsi? au hawajui madhara ya abortion? <br />
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Binafsi mpaka nimefika form 6 sikuwahi kusikia watu wakizungumzia madhara ya kutoa mimba huko shule.
umewahi kubakwa!?umewahi kukutana na aliebakwa na akapata madhara yanayoonekana(mimba,magonjwa etc.)?nimekutana na case za hivi kama nne hivi na mbili nilizi-ateend mwenyewe.nakuhakikishia,ni sawa na kifo!!sisemi hii inahalalisha utoaji mimba,ila mazingira na madhara ya tukio hulazimisha ishu kama mimba ikitokea mwathirika aifute kwa nguvu zote.the act of rape itself,(pregnancy & diseases aside)has a life time effects on a victim as ni udhalilishaji wa kiwango cha juu mno wa utu wa mtu.sasa jumlisha na kumbukumbu ya kudumu ya tukio husika on a victim in form of mtoto!!without a proper support baada ya tukio(amabayo ni ngumu kuipata as victims wengi hawasemi labda kwa kuona aibu na hisia za kudhalilishwa utu wao),abortion hapa haikwepeki dada angu!
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Hivi ukibakwa na ukabeba mimba je, is it a legitimate reason to abort?
kama kawaida kilakitu mzaha mzaha tuu
Hivi idara husika zinafanya nini katika mambo kama haya?
After pushing her hard on instructions for usage the seller claimed that for the case of abortion it can be carried out at home within the first nine weeks of pregnancy.