Kwanza nikupongeze kwa uandishi mzuri, very objective, subjective, literaly based and excellently critical but also one sided story.
Umezungumza jambo muhimu sana hasa kwa wakati huu ambapo mimba zisizotarajiwa ni nyingi kupita kiasi despite all the efforts of sexual education inayofanywa na taasisi mbalimbali na jamii kwa ujumla.
God bless woman.
Ni vile tu wanawake nao hawana choice huenda nao wangekuwa wanawakimbia watoto if they had that opportunity, sifa tunazowapa huenda zingekuwa sio za kweli, zingekuwa kinyume chake.
Mku mtoa mada umewahi kufikiria kwamba umedate demu, anakuringia mwanzo mwisho, u.etupa efdorts zako zote ili kumpata na pengine anakuachia matusi, dharau na kejeli kibao, ukaamua kukomaa nae, pengine ni money oriented Woman, akakupa penzi kwa mnunuzi( just because you give her money), je ukimaliza hapo kinchobaki nyuma utafatilia?
Pengine hata mwanamke mwenyewe hajui baba wa mtoto ni nani mpaka mtoto azaliwe ijulikane anafanana na nani kati ya walio wengi( this is the women's mistakes let them carry their own cross).
And sometimes( nimeshuhudia na kunitokea hata mimi) mwanamke anatembea na wanaume wengine ihali wewe ndio uko nae, mpaka unashangaa hata akipata mimba huwezi amini kabisa kama ni yako( moyo haukubaki kabisa). Unaona fedheha kukubaki.mimba ambayo mtaa mzima au hata marafiki wako na hata wewe mwenyewe unaona kabisa unauziwa mbuzi kwenye gunia( yes you hit the cervix, may be the very same day another men hit it).
Katika.maswala la kifamilia nwakati.mwingine ni ngumu sana kusolve hizi conflicts na ndio maana unaona kamwe haziishi maana binadamu( wanaume na wanawake hawaishi vituko).
N:B i'm the product of the pops who had no plans for my mother but only fck her.
But still i consider the other side of the coin, i'm not here to just put blames to either of parents, however, whatever you narrated is all the truth.
When woman are still hot in their young ages ni matatizo, anaweza akawa anakukera kila siku na kukutambia nipe talaka yangu kama ni mtoto hanishindi kulea, bila kufikiri impact ya kulea as a single mother, life is full.of dynamics, kesho hivi kesho vile. Lakini mtoto anayekuwa at the end life la kutelekezwa na baba linauma sana na linatesa hata kama Mama ana uwezo wa kusupply kila mahitaji.
Ujumbe wako na tjread yako ntaishare kuna rafiki yangu wa karibu sana anadalili za kutelekeza mtoto wake mwenyewe wa kumzaa. Hii itamfunza kitu.
