Walioko kwenye ndoa pitia hapa

nasi · Mar 19, 2015

Kwa kawaida mwanaume huhitaji kufanya tendo la ndoa mara kwa mara kuliko mwanamke, ukiona mume wako anavisingizio tele ili tu asishiriki tendo hilo.

Mara leo nimechoka sana, mara kichwa kinauma, mara leo mgongo unavuta, mara joto limezidi basi hiyo ni alama tosha ya kukujuza kuwa aidha penzi lake kwako limeshuka sana kiasi cha kutolifurahia tendo hilo nawewe.

Au kuna jinsi unavyofanya naye na hapendezwi nayo au kuna sehemu anakoshiba na hana haja ya kuharibu njaa yake kwako na kama ukiona mwanamke ndio anayetoa visingizio hivi basi ujue kuna jambo au mambo hayajakaa sawa baina yenu na yanahitaji kushughulikiwa.

Kumbuka wakati wote kwamba tendo la ndoa ni mbolea ya maana sana katika kila ndoa, lisipokuwapo au lisipotolewa kwa utoshelevu husababisha mazingira hatarishi.

Madame S · Mar 19, 2015

owh sawa

kabanga · Mar 19, 2015

sawa, sasa nini kifanyike...?

namba8mimi · Mar 19, 2015

Nimepita

miss chagga · Mar 19, 2015

kabanga said:
sawa, sasa nini kifanyike...?

kubakana tu

miss chagga · Mar 19, 2015

dawa yao ni kufanya punyeto usiku mbele yake

Ngalikihinja · Mar 19, 2015

miss chagga said:
dawa yao ni kufanya punyeto usiku mbele yake

Ahahahaaaaa hivi ukipigiwa hiyo makitu miss chagga utajisikiaje..??

Zamiluni Zamiluni · Mar 19, 2015

kabanga said:
sawa, sasa nini kifanyike...?

Mkuu Suala lako adhimu !!
Lakufanyika ni kustawisha mazingara yenu hivi :-
Mwanaume kizoeshe kumletea zawadi au pesa mkeo !!
na mwanamke ampikie msosi wa maana na atunze usafi nyumbani... (thas all) !! nasi Madame S

kabanga · Mar 19, 2015

miss chagga said:
kubakana tu

wewe mwanamke, mbona hivyo....?

Zamiluni Zamiluni said:
Mkuu Suala lako adhimu !!
Lakufanyika ni kustawisha mazingara yenu hivi :-
Mwanaume kizoeshe kumletea zawadi au pesa mkeo !!
na mwanamke ampikie msosi wa maana na atunze usafi nyumbani... (thas all) !! nasi Madame S

sawa mshauri .....

miss chagga · Mar 19, 2015

Ngalikihinja said:
Ahahahaaaaa hivi ukipigiwa hiyo makitu miss chagga utajisikiaje..??

pouwa tu akipiga na mimi napiga mwisho wa siku ngoma drooo

miss chagga · Mar 19, 2015

kabanga said:
wewe mwanamke, mbona hivyo....?

sawa mshauri .....

kama kwa hiyari na kubembeleza hutaki si bora kutumia nguvu tu

kabanga · Mar 19, 2015

miss chagga said:
kama kwa hiyari na kubembeleza hutaki si bora kutumia nguvu tu

haya mambo ya kushitakiana mimi nayaogopa....

miss chagga · Mar 19, 2015

kabanga said:
haya mambo ya kushitakiana mimi nayaogopa....

ndiyo uwe mpole nikitaka unanipa

FaizaFoxy · Mar 19, 2015

Nawashauri vijana msome kitabu kiitwacho The Perfumed Garden kilichotafsiriwa na Richard Burton kutoka kitabu cha Sheykh Nefzawi.

Hayo mambo yote yanayowasumbuwa yamewekwa humo na ujanja wake na njia zake na namna zake.

Kipo cha bure mtandaoni, bofya link: The Perfumed Garden: Introduction

Maboso · Mar 19, 2015

nasi said:
Kwa kawaida mwanaume huhitaji kufanya tendo la ndoa mara kwa mara kuliko mwanamke, ukiona mume wako anavisingizio tele ili tu asishiriki tendo hilo.
Mara leo nimechoka sana, mara kichwa kinauma, mara leo mgongo unavuta, mara joto limezidi basi hiyo ni alama tosha ya kukujuza kuwa aidha penzi lake kwako limeshuka sana kiasi cha kutolifurahia tendo hilo na wewe.

Mkuu hiki ulichoandika ni nadharia tu ambayo si muda wote ni sahihi. Na mara nyingi walioko nje ya ndoa ndio hudhani kwamba ukiwa kwenye ndoa basi kila mara lazima mfanye tendo la ndoa na msipofanya basi mmojawapo anachepuka. Tendo la ndoa linahitaji mazingira fulani ya utulivu wa mawazo na mwili ili kuweza kulifurahia.

Nitoe mfano hapa Dar kwa sisi tunaomka asubuhi sana kupigana na foleni, natoka nyumbani saa kumi na moja asubuhi, nikiwa nimeamka saa kumi alfajiri ili kuweza kujiandaa, nafika kazini saa mbili kasoro au saa moja na nusu asubuhi. Nafanya kazi hadi saa kumi na mbili jioni huku nikikutana na stress kibao za kazi. Natoka kazini saa moja usiku nafika nyumbani saa nne na nusu usiku na wakati mwingine saa tano usiku. Na hii ni jumatatu hadi jumamosi. Katika mazingira haya, huyo mke atakuwa ni mtu wa ajabu sana nikimweleza nimechoka na akashindwa kunielewa.

Madame S · Mar 19, 2015

Zamiluni Zamiluni said:
Mkuu Suala lako adhimu !!
Lakufanyika ni kustawisha mazingara yenu hivi :-
Mwanaume kizoeshe kumletea zawadi au pesa mkeo !!
na mwanamke ampikie msosi wa maana na atunze usafi nyumbani... (thas all) !! nasi Madame S

me sijaolewa lakini

kabanga · Mar 19, 2015

miss chagga said:
ndiyo uwe mpole nikitaka unanipa

nitakupa...

happiness win · Mar 19, 2015

Kumbe ndoa ni kufanyana tuuuuu! kaaz kwel kwel

Zamiluni Zamiluni · Mar 19, 2015

Madame S said:
me sijaolewa lakini

Ndo chukuwa training..... ujifunze mapema kwa maandalizi mema!!

Madame S · Mar 19, 2015

Zamiluni Zamiluni said:
Ndo chukuwa training..... ujifunze mapema kwa maandalizi mema!!

ha ha ha huku kwetu mbona hii darasa nishapewa kitaaaaambo labda mengine kama kipo nisichokijua chezea pwani wewe ha ha ha

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