Ushauri Wenu: Demu nampenda lakini sio level yangu

[mizy gajo]

hamna ushauri

 

[Mwifwa]

Hata kama unazipenda nguo za Le mbebez, unaweza kuzivaa?

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Just holla at her.

The worst thing that could happen is her saying no.

And if she does, so what!??

The sky won’t fall and your life will go on [with the satisfaction of knowing that you did try but got turned down].

You have nothing to lose.

Jermaine Dupri hollered at Janet Jackson and she said yes.

If he hadn’t tried she would never have said yes.

 

[ukhuty]

habari zenu wahenga na madogo wa humu jf?
ni mwaka wa 2 sasa tangu niajiriwe ila kuna shorry namuelewa sana hapa offcn ila nashindwa kumwambia sababu najua haez kukubali kwa urembo alio nao na utashi naombeni ushauri nifanyaje maana nahisi kuchanganyikiwaa...
ushauri wenu utanisaidiaa....

mfungukie tu mapenzi hayana hizoo

 

[mizy gajo]

mfungukie tu mapenzi hayana hizoo

yani hapo ndo ata kufikiria nashindwaa...

 

[stritglow]

Kwa mentality hiyo utafeli.

Don't put her on a pedastal. Mchukulie kawaida tu, just like any other girl.

 

[Deva]

Jiamini mkuu

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

bonge la advice mkuu shida jini kutojiamini kanishikilia koromeoo

Mtupilie jalalani huko huyo jini kutojiamini.

Hakuna kibaya kinachoweza tokea zaidi ya yeye kusema hapana.

 

[Ushimen]

Aiseeeee.....[emoji45] [emoji45]
Mdomowangu umebaki wazi..[emoji47] [emoji47]

 

[mizy gajo]

Mtupilie jalalani huko huyo jini kutojiamini.

Hakuna kibaya kinachoweza tokea zaidi ya yeye kusema hapana.

nikifikiria kujaribu ilhali najua atasema hapana ndo hapo nachoka kisha nasema kwann sasa si kutafuta gonjwa la moyoo..

 

[mizy gajo]

Kwa mentality hiyo utafeli.

Don't put her on a pedastal. Mchukulie kawaida tu, just like any other girl.

kwan mkuu we ujawahi kukutana na hali kama hii

 

[mizy gajo]

Aiseeeee.....[emoji45] [emoji45]
Mdomowangu umebaki wazi..[emoji47] [emoji47]

kwa nn usifunge kiongozii

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

nikifikiria kujaribu ilhali najua atasema hapana ndo hapo nachoka kisha nasema kwann sasa si kutafuta gonjwa la moyoo..

Unajua kuwa atasema ‘hapana’ au unadhani/ unahisi kuwa atasema ‘hapana’?

Maana ‘kujua’ na ‘kudhani/kuhisi’ ni vitu viwili tofauti kabisa.

Ila, kama ‘unajua’ atasema hapana basi hakuna hata haja ya kujaribu maana jibu unalo tayari!

Lakini kama ‘unadhani/unasadiki’ tu basi jaribu bahati yako.
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[Castr]

Sikushauri kitu kwa sababu ushauri wangu wa kwanza ni

USIWE NA UHUSIANO WA KIMAPENZI NA MTU UKO NAYE OFISI MOJA

Hiyo ni golden rule. Ishi ukiifuata.

 

[mbisom ramos]

kaptula la Marx

 

[mbisom ramos]

tena watu wa aina hiyo ndio unajikuta unajichukulia mzigo kiulaiiini

 

[Mbaga Jr]

km unajua atakukataa sa kwa nn unanuka mikojo mpaka wadada wakukimbie ?

 

[Clueless14]

Akikutosa, ofisi utaiona kituo cha polisi kwa aibu[emoji4][emoji4]

 

[stritglow]

kwan mkuu we ujawahi kukutana na hali kama hii

Mkuu usi-overthink things, just do it. Usisubiri sijui the perfect time, hizo ni delaying tactics. We siku ukimuona count mpaka 5 secs, zikiisha tu we mfuate hakuna kubadilisha mawazo wala kugeuka nyuma. Just do it! Kama utamuomba date au kuchukua namba, it's up to you. Just be respectful.

Mimi a few years back kuna msichana nilikuwa namuona in my neighbourhood, she was way too pretty.Jina nilikuwa hata simjui, ila nilikuwa nimemuelewa kweli. Shida ilikuwa kumu-approach tu. Kila nikimuona naishia kumpa hi ya juu juu tu. Halafu najiambia next time I'll ask for her number. Lakini wapi.

Baada ya hiyo hali kujirudia mara kadhaa, siku ninapishana nae nikampa hi kama kawa then baada yakwenda hatua kadhaa mbele, nikajiambia nitafanya huu ujinga mpaka lini, what do I have to lose. Nikageuka nakuanza kumfuata hapo najiambia liwalo na liwe huku nikitafuta vitu kadhaa vya kumpigisha story kidogo ili anichangamkie ndo nimuombe namba.

Ile nimefika tu alipo, plan yote went out of the window, sema nikajikaza hivo hivo, nikamuuliza tu anaitwa nani kisha I told her; baada ya kupishana nae sekunde kadhaa zilizopita, I figured I should get her number. Akauliza yangu? Ni kamwambia ndio yako. Alipause for a sec kisha akanitajia. Huwezi amini ile namba niliichukua huku mkono unatetemeka kwasababu ya anxiety.

After that as they say the rest is history.

Kwahiyo mkuu sometimes it's all in your mind. Don't overthink things. Kuliko kukaa na what ifs, wewe siku just say f.uck it and go for it liwalo na liwe.

Kuna msemo usemao, Confidence isn't "she'll like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine wether she likes me or not."

 

[Mwaikibaki]

habari zenu wahenga na madogo wa humu jf?
ni mwaka wa 2 sasa tangu niajiriwe ila kuna shorry namuelewa sana hapa offcn ila nashindwa kumwambia sababu najua haez kukubali kwa urembo alio nao na utashi naombeni ushauri nifanyaje maana nahisi kuchanganyikiwaa...
ushauri wenu utanisaidiaa....

Mbuzi yake kamba....mkate mkubwa huliwa na chai.Mpe voko tuu...