He no longer calls Updated 16 hr(s) 53 min(s) ago Dear Greg, I am worried because my boyfriend has not been calling me. It all began with him saying I was too pretty for him and that he feared I would leave him for another man. He said a similar thing had happened to him in the past and he feared it would happen again. I convinced him that I would never leave him, but he still doesnt call as regularly as he used to. We set a date to solve the issue, but he never turned up, saying he had to attend a party at his workplace. We planned another meeting at my house, but he did not come. When I called, he didnt take the call and he later switched off his phone. He called the following day and said he was called to the office abruptly and did not know how to tell me because he was afraid of my reaction. Please help me! Should I leave him or not.　 Dear anonymous, Youre right. Your so-called boyfriend is not serious. Hes just playing around. Am surprised at the poor creativity of his excuses. I am surprised even more that you fall for them. Whats the matter with you? Let me give you a few clues. Theres no such thing as being too pretty to be with you as far as guys are concerned. Thats the dumbest thing Ive ever heard. The prettier a girl is, the more we want to be with her and show off. So thats a terrible lie. Secondly, he stands you up all the time. His favourite excuse is the office, which he has used twice. Then he switches his phone off when you try to reach him? After all these signs, its a wonder youre still hanging in there hoping for the best. Consider yourself free to move on. Forget about this conman.