Unamkataliaje rafiki?

Mzuanda said:

Hello, need ur help guys

Nina rafiki ambaye tumekutana chuo, toka nijuane nae is about 2 years now, siwezi kusema ni best friend coz simjui ki undani, ila most of the time tukiwa campus ndio mtu ninaye ongea nae, doing discussions together.He so gud friend to me

now ni kama miezi 6 ameanza kunisumbua kimapenzi, nimejaribu kumkatalia kiistaarabu bila ya kuvunja uuhusiano wetu ila haelewi, ana hope kuna siku nitakubali.


VIGEZO VYA KUMKATAA
1: Sipendi kutoka na mtu ambaye nasoma nae au nafanya nae kazi
2: Im 2 busy(sipo tayari kuwa na uhusiano at this time(relationship holiday)
3: Simtamani kimapenzi hata kidogo(im not into him)
4: Ana makalio makubwa kama mwanamke
5: Ana kitambi
6:Meno yake yana weusi weusi kama mvuta sigara(havuti sigara)
the last one(he is from congo, i prefer black skin from bongo land)

Kigezo cha 1,2 na mwisho nimemwambia, ila hivyo vyengine siwezi kumwambia. Nifanyaje ili kuepuka kero?? bila ya kum hurt??

mbaya zaidi kuna sehemu ya kazi ananiunganishia This june.😛ray2:

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CPU said:

Vigezo vyako vimejaa utata mtupu . . .
Mara humpendi kwa vile ni mkongo, mara uko busy sana, mara ana makalio kama mdada????
Sasa tuelewe lipi???

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sweetlady said:

namba 4 na 5 umenchekesha! Mwambie tayar unae umpendae na huwezi kumsaliti. Mwambie aache kuksumbua hata kama anaungansha kaz isiwe taaaabu!!

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Mzuanda said:

we nawe wa wapi? unaweza kuwa na vigezo hata mia moja vinavofanya usimtake mtu.
hivyo vyote ukijumlisha ndio sababu zangu za kutomtaka

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CPU said:

Vigezo vilivyo kamili havijichanganyi.
Kama ni kwa sababu ana makalio makubwa na meno meusi basi iwe hivyo.
Kama huwezi kuwa na mahusiano kwa sasa basi iwe hivyo, isichanganywe na kusema ana makalio makubwa au meno meusi.
Kama hauko tayari kimapenzi kwa sasa na mtu yeyote, ya nini umchambue mwili wake????

Ila jihadhali sana na VIGEZO MUONEKANO
Isitoshe usimdhihaki mtu na kukosoa ukamilifu wake kama vile sio binadamu mwenzako
Hata wewe haujakamilika, una madhaifu yako

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Mzuanda said:

Hello, need ur help guys

Nina rafiki ambaye tumekutana chuo, toka nijuane nae is about 2 years now, siwezi kusema ni best friend coz simjui ki undani, ila most of the time tukiwa campus ndio mtu ninaye ongea nae, doing discussions together.He so gud friend to me

now ni kama miezi 6 ameanza kunisumbua kimapenzi, nimejaribu kumkatalia kiistaarabu bila ya kuvunja uuhusiano wetu ila haelewi, ana hope kuna siku nitakubali.


VIGEZO VYA KUMKATAA
1: Sipendi kutoka na mtu ambaye nasoma nae au nafanya nae kazi
2: Im 2 busy(sipo tayari kuwa na uhusiano at this time(relationship holiday)
3: Simtamani kimapenzi hata kidogo(im not into him)
4: Ana makalio makubwa kama mwanamke
5: Ana kitambi
6:Meno yake yana weusi weusi kama mvuta sigara(havuti sigara)
the last one(he is from congo, i prefer black skin from bongo land)

Kigezo cha 1,2 na mwisho nimemwambia, ila hivyo vyengine siwezi kumwambia.Nifanyaje ili kuepuka kero?? bila ya kum hurt??

mbaya zaidi kuna sehemu ya kazi ananiunganishia This june.😛ray2:

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Asha D said:

Mzuanda inaonesha muonekano wa jamaa ndio umechukia nafasi kubwa kua out of consideration mana sababu nne zote zinaelezea muonekano wake, sababu tano zote zinaonesha ikiwa kunyume hio ya pili unaweza potezea. Ushauri wangu mwangalie with new eyes (mana sometym ni bora kua na a guy ambae waschana wenzio c rahisi kumshobokea-kama umempenda lakini). But kama kweli bado humpendi muite na fuata hizi hatua.
1. Hakikisha siku hio umeonana nae ktk mazingira yenu ya kila siku kua normal na usimwambie lolote.
2. Piga cm jion kwake ukimweleza kwa ufupi kua kuna kitu kinakuumiza sana moyo, muombe umtoe lunch kesho yake hapo hapo katika mazingira mloyazoea/ ukienda sehem intimate ata mis interprete.
3. Onesho you are very down kesho yake ukionana nae (yani akusome kweli u are not happy)
4. Mkisha kaa mnakula (bt i thnk having a drink ni poa zaidi utaangalia mwenyewe) mwambie
" X sijawahi kua narafiki wa kiume, na na enjoy sana urafiki wetu na company yako in particular. Wazo la kutaka tuwe intimate C baya sana lakini inaniuma sana for I would loose you as a friend na sitaki kamwe iwe hivyo-naamini you understand me better hivyo naomba tumia kunieliwa kwa kuelewa kwanini sitaki. Naomba ukafikirie nilokwambia when ur a ready to accept then call me"
5.Fikisha ujumbe kwa ufupi ondoka, ukiongea maneno mengi utajifunga, usimpe nafasi kabisa ya yeye kujieleza.

Cna guarantee kua it will work but jaribu.

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Freema Agyeman said:

duh, inaonyesha una uzoefu wa kubreak heart silently.

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Husninyo said:

Kigezo chako cha 4,5 na 6 kimenichekesha! Hahahaha!
We mzungushe zungushe tu hadi mwenyewe atachoka.

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