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- Dec 15, 2009
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I'm a 20 year old woman and my boyfriend is 23. I've only been with one partner and we've been together for a year. He's always joked with me about sticking a finger in my butt to "check my temperature" as a running inside joke between us but he's never pushed after I said no. However, whenever we've talked about things we'd like to do in the bedroom and anal was brought up I told him that I'm not going to say no because it may be something I enjoy but I'm not ready to take that step.
Anal has always seemed scary and painful, plus there always seems to be a lot of prep involved. Well the other night he was fingering me while I was going down on him and he started to circle my butt with his finger told me he was going to put a finger in my asshole and gave me a chance to say no. I was really worked up at this point so I thought what the hell why not? It felt so good along with the clit stimulation and I was really confused because I was always under the impression for it to not hurt you have to under go a lot of foreplay there to loosen up.
Then last night while having sex he again stuck a finger in my ass and again it felt amazing. But I still don't understand that after no precautionary measures to my asshole how it can feel so good. We weren't even using lube for crying out loud! It's extremely hard for me to orgasm and we always have to spend a lot of time on me to get me there but I felt ready to explode. He asked me if I wanted him to put it in my ass and I honestly had to think for a second. I ended up telling him no but it really felt like if I had said yes he probably would have been able to.
This whole time I've been apprehensive about doing any butt stuff because of everything I've ever heard or read on the subject about it being hard at first and thinking it was some big complicated thing. But now I'm just confused and I'd like to try anal but I don't really know how to approach it now. I've never been that interested in it but now I think its extremely hot and I get excited just thinking about it. I guess I'm just freaked out by how good it felt coupled by the fact it seemed too easy after everything I've ever heard about anal.
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Anal has always seemed scary and painful, plus there always seems to be a lot of prep involved. Well the other night he was fingering me while I was going down on him and he started to circle my butt with his finger told me he was going to put a finger in my asshole and gave me a chance to say no. I was really worked up at this point so I thought what the hell why not? It felt so good along with the clit stimulation and I was really confused because I was always under the impression for it to not hurt you have to under go a lot of foreplay there to loosen up.
Then last night while having sex he again stuck a finger in my ass and again it felt amazing. But I still don't understand that after no precautionary measures to my asshole how it can feel so good. We weren't even using lube for crying out loud! It's extremely hard for me to orgasm and we always have to spend a lot of time on me to get me there but I felt ready to explode. He asked me if I wanted him to put it in my ass and I honestly had to think for a second. I ended up telling him no but it really felt like if I had said yes he probably would have been able to.
This whole time I've been apprehensive about doing any butt stuff because of everything I've ever heard or read on the subject about it being hard at first and thinking it was some big complicated thing. But now I'm just confused and I'd like to try anal but I don't really know how to approach it now. I've never been that interested in it but now I think its extremely hot and I get excited just thinking about it. I guess I'm just freaked out by how good it felt coupled by the fact it seemed too easy after everything I've ever heard about anal.
ukiona anapenda kupima gesi ujue atachimba
