Uhalisia wa Maisha ya Ndoa

mattnard · Sep 30, 2017

Wanajamvi namshukuru Mungu kwa uzima huu nilionao natoa mtazamo juu ya uhalisia wa maisha ya ndoa!

Wengi wanaingia kwa kubipu ila hawajadhamiria,iweje uoe Leo hata wiki haifiki unafumaniwa ?hebu tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwezi tu umuone mwenzio sio mzuri ?tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwaka tu ndugu waseme umeoa mwanamke hazai ?tumshirikishe Mungu !

We live once in lifetime ,no second chance so,tuishi kulingana na Muda ,wengi wanataka kuishi kama alivyokuwa single bila kujali kuwa ukishaoa au kuolewa unatakiwa kuwa kama baba au mama wa familia.
Nini mwongozo wa kutunusuru toka huku?

Ni uvumilivu,kujitambua na kujiheshimu,huu utashi tutaupata tu tukishamjua Mungu!wewe ambae unawaza kumuacha mwenzio usimwache tena same he badilika na muenjoy maisha ,

wengine wanasema nimuache nipumzike,hapo utakuwa unajidanganya kumbuka kuna MAMILLIONI YA MAMIAKA YANAKUSUBIRI YA KUPUMZIKA KABURINI

Ficus · Sep 30, 2017

Sawa tumekuelewa.

LUBEDE · Sep 30, 2017

nimejitahidi kutaka kuelewa unachotaka kumaanisha nimeshindwa kabisa kuelewa lengo au maana yako,n`way ngoja tusubiri wajuvi waje watiririke watueleweshe...

mattnard · Sep 30, 2017

Ficus said:
Sawa tumekuelewa.

Asante Kiongozi

Job K · Sep 30, 2017

Ficus said:
Sawa tumekuelewa.

Sasa wewe nawe ni Ficus sycarmorus au Ficus thorningii?

Ficus · Sep 30, 2017

Job K said:
Sasa wewe nawe ni Ficus sycarmorus au Ficus thorningii?

Ficus elastica.

Kichwa Kichafu · Sep 30, 2017

Sawa mkuu acha tujipange kabla ya kuingia huko kitanzini.

Extrovert · Sep 30, 2017

Mwanamke wa kukubali mapenzi pekeake bila hela hayupo hata kama yeye atakuwa na hela zake still atataka umhudumie. Shida huanzia hapo, ubinafsi!Ni lazima tuishi kwa kusapotiana na kushiriki kuidumisha furaha maishani. Its not a single person obligation,each one should put some efforts.
Laiti watu wangejifunza kuwa kuishi maisha bila ubinafsi ndio njia sahihi ya kujipatia furaha then ndoa zingekuwa zenye furaha mno.
Ni sawa na mmarekani anapomkazia NK asiwe na silaha za nyuklia ila yeye anazo...Selfishness!!!

love b · Sep 30, 2017

mattnard said:
Wanajamvi namshukuru Mungu kwa uzima huu nilionao natoa mtazamo juu ya uhalisia wa maisha ya ndoa!

Wengi wanaingia kwa kubipu ila hawajadhamiria,iweje uoe Leo hata wiki haifiki unafumaniwa ?hebu tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwezi tu umuone mwenzio sio mzuri ?tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwaka tu ndugu waseme umeoa mwanamke hazai ?tumshirikishe Mungu !

We live once in lifetime ,no second chance so,tuishi kulingana na Muda ,wengi wanataka kuishi kama alivyokuwa single bila kujali kuwa ukishaoa au kuolewa unatakiwa kuwa kama baba au mama wa familia.
Nini mwongozo wa kutunusuru toka huku?

Ni uvumilivu,kujitambua na kujiheshimu,huu utashi tutaupata tu tukishamjua Mungu!wewe ambae unawaza kumuacha mwenzio usimwache tena same he badilika na muenjoy maisha ,

wengine wanasema nimuache nipumzike,hapo utakuwa unajidanganya kumbuka kuna MAMILLIONI YA MAMIAKA YANAKUSUBIRI YA KUPUMZIKA KABURINI

Tumekuelewa

love b · Sep 30, 2017

Extrovert said:
Mwanamke wa kukubali mapenzi pekeake bila hela hayupo hata kama yeye atakuwa na hela zake still atataka umhudumie. Shida huanzia hapo, ubinafsi!Ni lazima tuishi kwa kusapotiana na kushiriki kuidumisha furaha maishani. Its not a single person obligation,each one should put some efforts.
Laiti watu wangejifunza kuwa kuishi maisha bila ubinafsi ndio njia sahihi ya kujipatia furaha then ndoa zingekuwa zenye furaha mno.
Ni sawa na mmarekani anapomkazia NK asiwe na silaha za nyuklia ila yeye anazo...Selfishness!!!

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love b · Sep 30, 2017

Extrovert said:
Mwanamke wa kukubali mapenzi pekeake bila hela hayupo hata kama yeye atakuwa na hela zake still atataka umhudumie. Shida huanzia hapo, ubinafsi!Ni lazima tuishi kwa kusapotiana na kushiriki kuidumisha furaha maishani. Its not a single person obligation,each one should put some efforts.
Laiti watu wangejifunza kuwa kuishi maisha bila ubinafsi ndio njia sahihi ya kujipatia furaha then ndoa zingekuwa zenye furaha mno.
Ni sawa na mmarekani anapomkazia NK asiwe na silaha za nyuklia ila yeye anazo...Selfishness!!!

Nimekuelewa sana hasa hapo kwenye selfishness

Extrovert · Sep 30, 2017

love b said:
Nimekuelewa sana hasa hapo kwenye selfishness

Hahah asante love b

Mamy K · Sep 30, 2017

Extrovert said:
Mwanamke wa kukubali mapenzi pekeake bila hela hayupo hata kama yeye atakuwa na hela zake still atataka umhudumie. Shida huanzia hapo, ubinafsi!Ni lazima tuishi kwa kusapotiana na kushiriki kuidumisha furaha maishani. Its not a single person obligation,each one should put some efforts.
Laiti watu wangejifunza kuwa kuishi maisha bila ubinafsi ndio njia sahihi ya kujipatia furaha then ndoa zingekuwa zenye furaha mno.
Ni sawa na mmarekani anapomkazia NK asiwe na silaha za nyuklia ila yeye anazo...Selfishness!!!

That's nature, tumeumbwa hivyo kuhudumiwa, hata tuwe na pesa kuliko waume zetu, hazitutoshi.

mwandende JR · Sep 30, 2017

LUBEDE said:
nimejitahidi kutaka kuelewa unachotaka kumaanisha nimeshindwa kabisa kuelewa lengo au maana yako,n`way ngoja tusubiri wajuvi waje watiririke watueleweshe...

Maana yake ni kwamba UMEOA..au UMEOLEWA ...mbona bado UNAHANGAIKA na WAPENZI wengine nje? unapaswa ujitambuwe....PIA kuoa au kuolewa ni UTULIVU.....na ni mwanzo wa kuanzisha family.....mimi nimemuelewa hivyo....mleta UZI..

Joseverest · Sep 30, 2017

Extrovert · Sep 30, 2017

Mamy K said:
That's nature, tumeumbwa hivyo kuhudumiwa, hata tuwe na pesa kuliko waume zetu, hazitutoshi.

Sio kuumbwa, ni kujiendekeza tu trust me. Kama ukiamua kuishi hivyo ni sawa hukataliwi ila unaweza kataa hayo maisha kama unavyoukataa ujinga darasani. Hakuna aliezaliwa anajua ila tumeweza kupitia kujifunza mkuu.

cocktail · Oct 1, 2017

Nimekutana na mume ambae anetawaliwa na mamaake kiasi kwamba mke hana nafasi kwenye familia yaan kila kinachoendeleakwenye maish yaan mumewe yy hajui na hashirikishwi mama mkwe ndo mwenye sauti kwenye hiyo ndoa

JWKRMM · Oct 1, 2017

Mungu

mattnard said:
Wanajamvi namshukuru Mungu kwa uzima huu nilionao natoa mtazamo juu ya uhalisia wa maisha ya ndoa!

Wengi wanaingia kwa kubipu ila hawajadhamiria,iweje uoe Leo hata wiki haifiki unafumaniwa ?hebu tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwezi tu umuone mwenzio sio mzuri ?tuwe serious, iweje uoe Leo mwaka tu ndugu waseme umeoa mwanamke hazai ?tumshirikishe Mungu !

We live once in lifetime ,no second chance so,tuishi kulingana na Muda ,wengi wanataka kuishi kama alivyokuwa single bila kujali kuwa ukishaoa au kuolewa unatakiwa kuwa kama baba au mama wa familia.
Nini mwongozo wa kutunusuru toka huku?

Ni uvumilivu,kujitambua na kujiheshimu,huu utashi tutaupata tu tukishamjua Mungu!wewe ambae unawaza kumuacha mwenzio usimwache tena same he badilika na muenjoy maisha ,

wengine wanasema nimuache nipumzike,hapo utakuwa unajidanganya kumbuka kuna MAMILLIONI YA MAMIAKA YANAKUSUBIRI YA KUPUMZIKA KABURINI

Mungu hakusubiri mamilioni ya miaka kumtimua shetani alipopanga kumsaliti. Mie sikubali mwanamke anaenda kuto...na wanaume mwingine halafu niseme navumilia. Kama mimi natoka na wanawake wengine hapo navumilia so ngoma droo hakuna shida.

atouch · Oct 1, 2017

Kichwa Kichafu said:
Sawa mkuu acha tujipange kabla ya kuingia huko kitanzini.

Ukisha anza na mawazo ya kuwa ndoa ni kitanzi , utapotea....!! Ndoa ni moja ya hata za maisha ! Na kila hata za maisha hazikosi changamoto... Kinachoitajika tuu ni hekima za kukabiliana na hayo matatizo, ambayo yatatofautiana kulingana na ulivyo yachagua wewe ! Choose wisely...!

miss chagga · Oct 1, 2017

Ukishaamua kuolewa kubali kuishi maisha ya ndoa .. Na kubali kuishi maisha ya mtoto akiwepo.. Kama hutaki kushi maisha ya mwingine better to be alone for life ....

But kila hatua maishani ni
Vizuri kujifunza kuhifurahia .. Na pia kujifunza kukabiliana na changamoto utaenjoy maisha yako yote ila ukishindwa kufurahia kila hatua utakuwa unalalamika ambapo hupeleke kupoteza mwelekeo na kuwa na chuki mda mwingi na furaha kusikia kwa wengine...

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