Tujadili: Dunia ya machale!!!!!!!!

Kaizer · Nov 19, 2013

Kaunga said:
Kwenye uzi ule ulizungumzia umuhimu wa uaminifu kwa wana ndoa, ndio maana nikasema nilitegemea mchango unahamasiha uaminifu; au sivyo ulivyomaanisha kwenye post yako ya awali?

Na nimekuuliza pia kuwa machale ni remedy au silaha ya kujihami na kuvunjika kwa uaminifu? Sasa kila mtu akijihami hiyo familia itakuwaje au hayo maisha yatakuwaje au hiyo partnership katika biashara itakuwa vipi?

Nimekupata Kaunga nafurahi kama u grabbed that virtue as well. Nilidhani umenielewa ndivyo siyvo lol

Unajua binadamu tabia zake ni predictable...as a rational being kuna wakatininamfanya a act irrationally.na ndiposa inabidi kuweka control.mechanisms. kwenye biashara kuna.mikataba for the same reason na hiyo in my opinion inafanya.maisha kuwa marahisi zaidi...while ktk.ngazi ya familia kama mke na.mume ili kuhakikisha usalama wa.muungano kunakuwa.na maagano na a signed contract.....so kuwa.na machale.ni.muhimu kwa kuwa inafahamika madhara yake.endapo tutachukulia poa tu

Kaunga · Nov 19, 2013

Husninyo said:
mi nafikiri watu wanaaminiana sana, wapo wengi tu wanaingia kwenye biashara bila hata makubaliano ya kimaandishi, hapo wanaongozwa na kuaminiana.
tuna wapenzi wetu na tunashiriki nao sex, ni imani hiyo mpaka kuoneshana viungo vyenu vya uzazi.
trust ipo sana sema tu kinachosumbua wengi ni hofu ya kutendwa lakini huwezi ukafanya yote hayo bado useme huwaamini watu wako.

mimi ni mmoja wa watu wanaoamini mtu kabla na kutomuamini baada ya kutendwa; nilijaribu kuishi kwa machale nikajikuta nakosa amani nimeona l am the best person nikiwa the way l am trustful. Hivyo nakubaliana na wewe kuwa wengi bado tunaaminiana hata baada ya kuumizwa mara kadhaa. Na nakubaliana na lara 1 kuwa mtu akikusaliti mara ya kwanza ni aibu yake, lakini mtu huyo huyo akikusaliti tena na tena basi wewe ni fool.

Kuhusu hofu ya kutendwa hiyo ni indication kwamba huna imani tena; yaani umejaa negative thoughts na huenda unaweza kumuambika mwenzako naye akawa na hofu na matokeo yake akakutenda kweli (in his mind, kabla wewe hujamtenda). Imani inaendana na kuwa na uhakika au positive thoughts.

Eiyer · Nov 19, 2013

miss chagga said:
alikuwa anmeniambia eneo lote hilo ni lake kumbe ni mwongo:crying::crying::crying:...

Ungekubali alikuwa na mpango wa kukufanya nini?

Husninyo · Nov 19, 2013

Eiyer said:
Mh!!!!

bwana asifiwe.

Kaizer · Nov 19, 2013

Husninyo said:
mi nafikiri watu wanaaminiana sana, wapo wengi tu wanaingia kwenye biashara bila hata makubaliano ya kimaandishi, hapo wanaongozwa na kuaminiana.
tuna wapenzi wetu na tunashiriki nao sex, ni imani hiyo mpaka kuoneshana viungo vyenu vya uzazi.
trust ipo sana sema tu kinachosumbua wengi ni hofu ya kutendwa lakini huwezi ukafanya yote hayo bado useme huwaamini watu wako.

mmmm....imani hiyo Husninyo madhara yake umeyafahamu bila "kishikilio" cha hiyo imani.....halafu usipoonyesha viuongo vya uzazi utapataje watoto,.,,,mficha u.chi hazai:tape:

miss chagga · Nov 19, 2013

Eiyer said:
Ungekubali alikuwa na mpango wa kukufanya nini?

angenidocha tu....

Eiyer · Nov 19, 2013

Husninyo said:
bwana asifiwe.

Amen!!!!!!!!!

Eiyer · Nov 19, 2013

miss chagga said:
angenidocha tu....

Khaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!
Bora ulistuka

Ila nasikiaga eti ukidochwa huwa kuna ka utam
Ni kweli?

Husninyo · Nov 19, 2013

Kaunga said:
mimi ni mmoja wa watu wanaoamini mtu kabla na kutomuamini baada ya kutendwa; nilijaribu kuishi kwa machale nikajikuta nakosa amani nimeona l am the best person nikiwa the way l am trustful. Hivyo nakubaliana na wewe kuwa wengi bado tunaaminiana hata baada ya kuumizwa mara kadhaa.
.

hata mimi kuishi kwa machale kulinishinda, unaweza jikuta hauna furaha maisha yako yote kwa kufikiria mabaya unayoweza kutendewa. huwezi kuamini kila mtu lakini kuna baadhi ya matendo ya mtu yanaweza ashiria kuwa ni muaminifu (hapo utakiwi kuchunguza sana kama FBI kufikia hiyo conclusion). hebu fikiria asubuhi unatoka unamuacha mtoto na housegirl, kama humuamini ina maana utakuwa unawaza nyumbani tu muda wa kazi. tunatakiwa tusizipe nafasi hofu zote zitokanazo na kukosa imani.

Kongosho · Nov 19, 2013

Ndio, usipoamini mtu hata mmoja maisha ynakuwa magumu sana, kila saa unakuwa 'on guard'

Kuna msemo kuwa 'kuamini watu ni hatari, lakini kutoamini hata mtu mmoja ni hatari zaidi'

Kaunga said:
Nafikiri Eiyer alimaanisha maisha yanakuwa magumu usipoamini watu, usipoamini huyu dreva atakufikisha salama kazini, usipoamini hayo maembe uliyonunua hayajadungwa sindano za sumu, usipoamini kuwa housegirl hajakojolea mkojo kwenye chai yako, usipoamini nyama choma uliyokula huenda ni nyama ya mbwa etc. Labda hii nimeexagerate lakini ofcourse as you said huwezi muamini kila mtu kwa baadhi ya mambo lakini you got to trust someone, awe mume, mke, dada, rafiki haijalishi. It is okay kuwa na siri walau moja au mbili lakini zile zisizo na madhara makubwa.

miss chagga · Nov 19, 2013

Eiyer said:
Khaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!
Bora ulistuka

Ila nasikiaga eti ukidochwa huwa kuna ka utam
Ni kweli?

amna utamu zaidi ya maumivu na kero ila hata me nasikiaga kwa watu wanasema hivyoooo...

Husninyo · Nov 19, 2013

Kaizer said:
mmmm....imani hiyo Husninyo madhara yake umeyafahamu bila "kishikilio" cha hiyo imani.....halafu usipoonyesha viuongo vya uzazi utapataje watoto,.,,,mficha u.chi hazai:tape:

umeona eeeh! bila imani utamu wa hayo makitu ningekuwa siujui. lol, ila sina imani na wewe ankal.

Husninyo · Nov 19, 2013

Eiyer said:
Amen!!!!!!!!!

baba paroko usiwe na hofu na unatakiwa kuanza kumtrust mama paroko. lol

Eiyer · Nov 19, 2013

miss chagga said:
amna utamu zaidi ya maumivu na kero ila hata me nasikiaga kwa watu wanasema hivyoooo...

Kama huwa husikiagi mautam kuna tatizo mahali

Na ukifanikiwa kuliondoa hilo tatizo utajua kuwa maihsa yana raha yake!

Eiyer · Nov 19, 2013

Husninyo said:
baba paroko usiwe na hofu na unatakiwa kuanza kumtrust mama paroko. lol

Mama paroko namuamini sana ...lol!
CC: Kaunga ....!!!!!!!!

Kaizer · Nov 19, 2013

miss chagga said:
angenidocha tu....

Ndo kufanywaje huko? N.B Natokea Sitimbi

Kaizer · Nov 19, 2013

Husninyo said:
umeona eeeh! bila imani utamu wa hayo makitu ningekuwa siujui. lol, ila sina imani na wewe ankal.

hahahahaaa....bora maana ni kawaida........

miss chagga · Nov 19, 2013

Eiyer said:
Kama huwa husikiagi mautam kuna tatizo mahali

Na ukifanikiwa kuliondoa hilo tatizo utajua kuwa maihsa yana raha yake!

i wish i wish i wish!!!!!!!!!!!

miss chagga · Nov 19, 2013

Kaizer said:
Ndo kufanywaje huko? N.B Natokea Sitimbi

kufanya s.e.x

Kaizer · Nov 19, 2013

miss chagga said:
kufanya s.e.x

Aiseee!,.....:shocked::tape:

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