To avoid problems in a relationship, marry your best friend (somebody who knows you)

[Natalia]

My husband is my best friend. We play together, dance together, fishing, swimming, watching porn together.

His body is my playing ground trust me it's health and no doubt au kuhisihisi or kuchunguzana or ....

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The most successful marriages are those in which spouses are also best friends.

Being in love is easy. It's emotion that has transcended the millennia. It's an emotion that's central to the best marriages and relationships. But being in love is not enough.

As our thousands of interviews with happily married couples throughout the world reveal, no relationship has ever passed the test of time without also being a friendship. Couples in longtime successful marriages always view their spouse as their best friend. They trust each other with their lives, their entire well-being and their sacred honor.

One of the questions in our interview protocol is "Who is your best friend?" We got our first telling response to the question in Rio de Janeiro. After asking the so-called "Best Couple in Rio," we got answers that drove this point home for us. When we asked the most prominent physician in the city who his best friend was, he named 10 people — and none of them were his wife of 37 years! When we asked his wife who her best friend was, she also gave 10 names and, like him, the list did not include her husband. They both told us how important their circles of friends were, never mentioning each other in those comments.

Here's another good example of our point. When we interviewed a couple in Sydney, Australia, a few years ago, we asked the same question: "Who is your best friend?" To our surprise, both people in this loving relationship did not consider each other their best friend. We probed, but neither would admit that their spouse was even one of their best friends.

The simple truth of the matter is this: these two couples professed to "love" each other, but they did not "like" each other. They were clearly not best friends. In fact, when we asked clarifying questions, it became quite clear that neither couple had a friendship within their relationships.

Make no mistake about it: Loving someone is not enough. If your partner is not your best friend, your relationship will not pass the test of time. Your relationship can never be judged as a great success. There is no equivocation when it comes to this point. Best friends provide each other with total trust, loyalty, mutual respect, admiration, encouragement, support, care and much more.

If the one you love is not your best friend, your relationship might be in serious trouble and, in all likelihood, will not become one of the lifelong love stories we have heard around the world on.

So, with that in mind, we will ask you what we have asked every couple we have interviewed across the continents: is the one you purport to love really your best friend? If not, you need to focus on building the friendship elements of your relationship — or consider finding another partner if you want your love to last for a lifetime.

Love well! And more importantly, like well!


Courtesy of - For A Lasting Relationship, Marry Your Best Friend | Dr. Charles & Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz | YourTango

 

[MKATA KIU]

Natalia unatisha swaga zako, nachokupenda vi threads vyako vifupi fupi na mara nyingi heading yake haiendan na maneno ya ndani,, na ukianza kuweka comment ndo unaharibu kabisa upepo..

 

[Natalia]

Natalia unatisha swaga zako, nachokupenda vi threads vyako vifupi fupi na mara nyingi heading yake haiendan na maneno ya ndani,, na ukianza kuweka comment ndo unaharibu kabisa upepo..

Sorry I hurted your feelings .

 

[Kongosho]

mmh, friends ni one in a million kuwapata.

 

[oldd vampire]

yap mm pia na support,beta spend da rest of ua life with ua best friend

 

[HIMARS]

Eeeeeeh hapa pazuri usikimbilie kuoa hata mtu haumfahamu mtu kwa mwezi mmoja oooh tufunge ndoa kha watu tuna friends tunaomba ufike miaka saba

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[King’asti]

Bob marley aliwahi kuimba :
your worst enemy could be ur best friend,
and your best friend, your worst enemy!
Pimpers paradise!!!!

 

[telitaibi]

looking kwa best friend uko wapi

 

[Mtego wa Noti]

mh! best friend?...kwanza siku hizi mademu wenyewe mnatutegasisi mamen...unashangaa kademu unaanza nako mahusiano mara hujakaa sawa kanakwambia twende kwa wazazi wakufahamu...mara ooh, inbidi sasa tufunge ndoa maana wazazi weshakubali...kumbe ni kuogopa expiry date isije ikafika kabla hajapata wa kumuweka ndani...baada ya hapo ni kununiana mpaka mwisho wa siku ni kugawana vitanda and lastly...talaka...

 

[Ambitious]

Best friend!!! Mmmmhh!! Someone just popped up from my mind.Hili nitalifanyia kazi.

 

[peter daudi]

Not only the best friend,but also the one who knows what life is.

 

[Nicole]

Cant imagine marrying my best friend!

 

[Skillionare]

Marrying your bestfriend eliminates the risk of divorce by over 70%.These marriages are more likely to last a life time...!

 

[g click]

it is not a guarantee i suppose

 

[Junior. Cux]

hope ni bestfriend wa opposte sex maana....!!!! btw inaweza kuwa kweli but mtakua mmejuana sana ata kumgeuza geuza kitandan utajistukia

 

[data]

:deadhorse::deadhorse::deadhorse:

 

[Kongosho]

mmmhhh!!!!!!

 

[MankaM]

my best friend??? humo ndani itakuwa comedy

 

[Mokoyo]

my best friend??? humo ndani itakuwa comedy

kivipi?

 

[Dr. Wansegamila]

I did that, and i have never regretted making such a decision.
But, i have to agree one thing; that stage of moving frm best friend to kuvuliana pichu was a difficulty one, maana tulikuwa tumeshibana kweli kweli, ma best friend hasa; tulipovuka that stage, everything else is perfect aisee, mpaka tumeoana its a beautiful feeling, its the best thing ever!!!