This is for you Ladies, still its up to you

[LorenzoA]

This is my advice for all Ladies. I'm sorry If it will

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annoy you but it's the Truth, you really have to take

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correction now. Dear ladies,

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Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at

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an old age because you are looking for a perfect man,

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Something is wrong

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with you, Sorry to say that but it's true. Your

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propaganda magazine tells you that 'All men are liars,

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cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is

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more likely?. Is it that there’s something wrong with

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about 100 million African men, OR there is

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something wrong with one African Woman?.Ladies, you

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certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you

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are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends

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every night at a beer palour or bar and waiting for a

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guy to buy you a drink and take you home. Drinking

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yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday nights

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does

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not exactly make you look like a marriage material. You

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want a man?. Invest in a good wardrobe, and dress

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responsibly. When a man comes to you, smile and be

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polite, even if he does

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not fit your mental image of your kind of man.Ladies

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please and please, stop going into a relationship with a

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chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad

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and all men are Dogs, then it will become a self

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fulfilling prophesy.

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No man is perfect!. Even you!.

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You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a

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mechanic or

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carpenter. If a carpenter was good enough to marry

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MARY THE MOTHER OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST", why

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isn't one good enough for you?. Do not focus on where

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a man is now, but look and see where he has the

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potentials to be. What’s

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the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some

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rich, good looking and non caring man?. Do you want a

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future where you will sit in a traffic in your car with

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sunglasses covering your swollen eyes, you look out of

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the window and see a happy couple in a Tuk Tuk

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holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple

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even

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after 12 years of marriage.

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Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap

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him. Your perfect man is out there, believe, work and

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pray and you will get him.THINK ABOUT IT
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[The Boss]

'damaged goods' looking for 'perfect buyer'

 

[Mafikizolo]

Bravo,good Poem.

 

[promiseme]

Habari ndio hiyo...............

 

[everlenk]

Nice message

 

[Kaunga]

'damaged goods' looking for 'perfect buyer'

And we will keep on looking n looking till the end of time.
Have problem with that? Sit by the railway station and have a long cry!!!

 

[everlenk]

'damaged goods' looking for 'perfect buyer'

Can you elaborate please..who are the damaged goods, who is the perfect buyer??

 

[Kaunga]

Maneno kuntu, ingawa uwakilishaji ni wa mipasho zaidi na mwisho ukageuka kuwa religious.
Kuna kaka yangu kaoa juzi, baada ya kukosa mwarabu ambaye ni msomi na anayeweza kumtunza mama yake mzazi kijijini na kuweza kulima na kuchota maji at the same time.
He is over 40 na ndio kaoa juzi. So na wanaume ni damaged goods looking for perfect takers.

 

[The Boss]

And we will keep on looking n looking till the end of time.
Have problem with that? Sit by the railway station and have a long cry!!!

inawezekana hukunielewa..

 

[The Boss]

Can you elaborate please..who are the damaged goods, who is the perfect buyer??

Simple meaning ni kuwa usi demand hig standards ambazo na wewe huna...
damaged goods ni yeyote yule hata ambae ni 'perfect' kwa mwingine..
so nimejibu according to thread ya mtu kuweka so many demands kwa mwingine while yeye mwenyewe anaweza kuwa hana sifa za kuvutia mtu....

 

[nyumba kubwa]

Uliposema kuolewa na rich huku ukiwa kwenye gari unavaa miwani ya jua macho yamevimba nimemkumbuka dada yangu (family friend) aliolewa na milionea lakini kama alikuwa good time basi ni miaka 5 ya ndoa...baada ya hapo alijuuutra kumfahamu huyo bwana...

Nakumbuka wakati ndio kaolewa alikuwa hali home...wanakula Kilimanjaro hotel daily na mumewe huku wana ma hg kadhaa ndani (walikuwa wanaishi city center)

Hivi navyoongea amesharudi kwenye umasikini wake baada ya kuvumilia vituko vyote ...mume alipoona anang'ang'ania kaamua kumtimua kaoa mwingine... dada alikuwa mzuri mpaka anabore...mkimya... lakini sasa hivi amechujuka kwa stress...

mwanaume ukimkuta na miela chances are atakunyanyasa unless kwenu muwe mambo safi...

 

[The Boss]

Maneno kuntu, ingawa uwakilishaji ni wa mipasho zaidi na mwisho ukageuka kuwa religious.
Kuna kaka yangu kaoa juzi, baada ya kukosa mwarabu ambaye ni msomi na anayeweza kumtunza mama yake mzazi kijijini na kuweza kulima na kuchota maji at the same time.
He is over 40 na ndio kaoa juzi. So na wanaume ni damaged goods looking for perfect takers.

it goes to both sexes......na neno damaged goods sio tusi...
mfano ukioa na kuacha hata kama mkeo ndo alikuwa kimeo...as long as kwenye jamii utaonekana
'uliioa na kuacha' for some wewe ni 'damaged goods'....so hata ambao wanaona wako in a relationship perfect
siku yeyote anaweza jikuta yuko 'damaged goods'

 

[everlenk]

Simple meaning ni kuwa usi demand hig standards ambazo na wewe huna...
damaged goods ni yeyote yule hata ambae ni 'perfect' kwa mwingine..
so nimejibu according to thread ya mtu kuweka so many demands kwa mwingine while yeye mwenyewe anaweza kuwa hana sifa za kuvutia mtu....

Nimekusoma vizuri kabisa,nami kidogo unichanganye. Ni kweli kabisa huwezi kutaka mke/mume mwema wakati wewe si mwema

 

[Husninyo]

Maneno kuntu, ingawa uwakilishaji ni wa mipasho zaidi na mwisho ukageuka kuwa religious.
Kuna kaka yangu kaoa juzi, baada ya kukosa mwarabu ambaye ni msomi na anayeweza kumtunza mama yake mzazi kijijini na kuweza kulima na kuchota maji at the same time.
He is over 40 na ndio kaoa juzi. So na wanaume ni damaged goods looking for perfect takers.

kuna mwingne nae ana zaidi ya 40 anataka anioe mimi.! nimetoka nduki. yaani hata wanaume huwa wanakosa wa kuoa.

 

[The Boss]

Sikumbuki ni kipindi kipi cha TV nilisikia for the first time neno 'damaged goods' likitumika
but lilikuwa linatumika kwa wanasaikolojia kuwa refer wale wote ambao wana struggle kupata pertners hata kwa sababu zilizo nje ya uwezo wao..

mfano watoto wanaotoka kwenye familia ambazo unakuta watoto watatu labda mama mmoja lakini baba tofauti.......na effects wanazokumbana nazo.....kimahusiano....

au msichana alie wahi kuwa 'raped' ikam affect kutopenda sex...

the list goes on.....na divorcees ....pia...hata kama ni mtu 'perfect'...ni labels ambazo some society...wanatumia..

 

[daviey69]

'damaged goods' looking for 'perfect buyer'

Interesting, isn't it?

 

[Khantwe]

kuna mwingne nae ana zaidi ya 40 anataka anioe mimi.! nimetoka nduki. yaani hata wanaume huwa wanakosa wa kuoa.

Nipe mimi jamani....

 

[Kongosho]

mbona huyu mtoto mdogo wa kufunga pampazi?

kuna mwingne nae ana zaidi ya 40 anataka anioe mimi.! nimetoka nduki. yaani hata wanaume huwa wanakosa wa kuoa.

 

[Kaunga]

Sikumbuki ni kipindi kipi cha TV nilisikia for the first time neno 'damaged goods' likitumika
but lilikuwa linatumika kwa wanasaikolojia kuwa refer wale wote ambao wana struggle kupata pertners hata kwa sababu zilizo nje ya uwezo wao..

mfano watoto wanaotoka kwenye familia ambazo unakuta watoto watatu labda mama mmoja lakini baba tofauti.......na effects wanazokumbana nazo.....kimahusiano....

au msichana alie wahi kuwa 'raped' ikam affect kutopenda sex...

the list goes on.....na divorcees ....pia...hata kama ni mtu 'perfect'...ni labels ambazo some society...wanatumia..

Either way sio neno zuri kumrefer binadamu ambaye Mungu akipoteza muda wake kumuumba na kisha kusit back na kutazama kuwa yote ni mema.
Si ndio cyber bullying hiyo? Kutumika both sex haipunguzi makali ya maneno.

 

[Kaunga]

mbona huyu mtoto mdogo wa kufunga pampazi?

Amenifanya niwande, Husninyo atakuwa in her early twenties. Wakati wengine tumechumbiwa na 50s. LOL