Things a woman should never do for a man when in love

[masai dada]

Usichore TATOO YA MTU ULIEKUTANA NAE UZEENI
kama kweli unapenda tatoo mchore mama yako

 

[KATASAN'KAZA]

Ukimaliza kutoa povu rudi useme ndoa ya nani imemshinda.

Ndooroooobo wewe ...! Huna hoja za kujenga zaidi ya kuhimiza mabambano.

 

[Sibonike]

Hello JF,

Love has the uncanny ability to make some people dumb. More so my fellow sisters. To save some of us the woes of having to wipe tears of love gone sour each time, here are some tips to help you sister there draw a line when it comes to love.

1. Never give up on your dreams
Career-wise, go where you always wanted to be and never let anything stand in your way. Least of all a man.
If there is anything my Dad taught me, it is the mechanism of a man's mind. They are very tricky and to survive you have to be a step ahead.

2. Never forget who you are.
Do not try to stoop to a lower caliber and be someone you are not just to please your man. If your man is daft and small minded and you are so in love to move on without him then the best you can do is not not to lower yourself to his standards


3. Change your appearance
By this I do not mean changing your sense of style. Nah. We all like to go with the latest fashion trends as lomg as out pockets allow us to do so. I mean undergoing surgery to please a man. Know your limits when dealing with men. Entertain every whim and you are doomed.


And Many More..... Just listen to the God given voice inside you and you will always be safe.

Nice Weekend People.

If and only if those ideas were inculcated during those "kitchen parties"

 

[Roger Sterling]

1. Never give up on your dreams
Career-wise, go where you always wanted to be and never let anything stand in your way. Least of all a man.

It is true tho, no woman should ever give-up anything for a man, but the man. Her future will look better than her past if she's present with the man.

 

[kamagetac]

inglishi izi noti richabo

......ati presenti tensi

 

[Karucee]

Where is the line? for a 'man' ?
is the same as saying for a 'husband'?

The ground is laid from the dating scene.

 

[Karucee]

It is true tho, no woman should ever give-up anything for a man, but the man. Her future will look better than her past if she's present with the man.

I am not advocating for a life without a man.

I am a career woman, married with two kids.

 

[Lee Cho in]

Mapenzi hayafundishwi... kila mtu anaweza kufanya kitu tofauti na kika work.... unaweza giveup kila kitu na mahusiano yaka dumu kwa furaha and viseversa.... live the life OMBA MUNGU UPATE MWNY AFADHALI MAANA HAMNA MKAMILIFU

Mi naomba niungane na wwe

 

[Karucee]

If and only if those ideas were inculcated during those "kitchen parties"

Hahaaa.

To me those parties are just another excuse to gather people and make merry.

 

[Karucee]

Ndooroooobo wewe ...! Huna hoja za kujenga zaidi ya kuhimiza mabambano.

Too bad I wont stoop to your level honey.

I argue with facts not insults.

Pole sana.

 

[Bavaria]

It should start with no 2. "Know yourself" is more important. Most of girls don't know how to keep that.

 

[Karucee]

It should start with no 2. "Know yourself" is more important. Most of girls don't know how to keep that.

Very true my friend.

Its not like a particular order should be followed.

 

[Roger Sterling]

I am not advocating for a life without a man.

I am a career woman, married with two kids.

Didn't say you're Ma'am. I bet you must've compromised somehow at some point for him, no?

Congrats btw.

 

[Bob Lee Swagger]

Stori za kuambiwa na baba zimekuwa formula!! Muulize mama akuambie honestly kama she was the happiest woman katika ndoa kwa kuwa naye ndiyo utajua kama ufuate maneno yake au la!!
Sio zile ishu za kuona wanacheka sitting rum ukajua mama is the happiest!

 

[King’asti]

Right on point. Ila haya mambo nadhani mnatakiwa kuyaongea wakati mnafukuziana. Mwenza ambae is too controlling and expects you to see things through his eyes is suicidal. A man who can be intimidated by your choices, whether of a lifestyle or a career hafai kabisaa. Kuna compromising but you should never compromise to the extent of loosing yourself completely.
Karucee usisahau kuna wanaume pia wanaosacrifice career zao kwa ajili ya mke na watoto. Not going after their dreams just to get a bit more time to spend with family. Bless thine hearts

 

[Karucee]

Stori za kuambiwa na baba zimekuwa formula!! Muulize mama akuambie honestly kama she was the happiest woman katika ndoa kwa kuwa naye ndiyo utajua kama ufuate maneno yake au la!!
Sio zile ishu za kuona wanacheka sitting rum ukajua mama is the happiest!

You missed my Dad's point,Bob Lee.

 

[MankaM]

iko murua aiseee

 

[Thread Starter]

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[bigmind]

sis not always easy,sometimes women compromise their careers for men they love n family,I.know some cases wadada wameacha kazi kutunza watoto na mume,n sometimes wanabadili kazi ili waweze kumudu kuishi na mume ndani,
career wise we want so many things,but priorities za mwanamke na mwanaume ni TOFAUTIII,a man can afford moving places na kuacha wife na watoto nyumbani,mwanamke u do the.same hio family itakua.na hali gani,
I agree don't go the extreme to please him,but u need to know ur priorities as a woman

Clever you are..!!

 

[Betterhalf]

Nice post Karucee
muda mwingine unakuta sasa sisi wanawake wenyewe hatujijui tunataka nini................
afu tumelishwa sumu nyingi toka mwanzo kwamba ndoa ni kumridhisha mume tuu na sio kusapotiana
hii imekuwa ndio changamoto kubwa sana
ndo mana mwali wadogo kwa sasa wanakazi ya kulia lia tu wakiamin kwamba wao wamewekwa kuwa rula za wenzi wao. kuwa shape kwa namna wanavyotaka.
unakuta mtu ili m=kupliz mume anaamua hata ku undergo plastic surgery kupata shape inayotakwa na mumewe wanaasahau kwamba mwanaume hajulikana anataka nini.
ukidhan ni shape siku ikiwepo atataman aso na shepu.
ukidhan ni rangi siku ikiwepo atataman asokuwa na rangi

better be yourself always

Nice post but being yourself is against nature.Unless uwe robot.