The HSPs (Highly Sensitive Persons)

Vipi kwa mtu ambaye ana combination of the two...yaani kuna kipindi in life he feels very comfortable being around people na yote yafananayo na kujichanganya kwenye jamii, HALAFU kuna vipindi anakuwa hataki kabisa kujichanganya kwenye jamii, the same jamii ambayo few months back he enjoyed being around them.

Huyo anakuwa kundi gani?
 
Well, u are narcissistic, that's somehow far from being an HSP though u may hold some traits of HSPs. An HSP is concerned about himself and others.

Hope you are not being too narcissistic hence having a narcissistic personality disorder.

As for me, the presence of people at any given time and place is simply stressful.
 
I see..

Another question...and please feel free to pass if you don't feel comfortable.

Do you sometime go through periods where you experience suicidal ideations?

And I've got to give you kudos for being able to know yourself that well.

Some of us don't even know who we are. I don't think I know what my personality is and I've never even bothered to try to find out.

But that's probably due to my '*** it' attitude. I don't know...
 
Reina princess nimeuliza swali hapo juu naomba unijibu...
 
That's a normal person in his highs and lows.
 
Imebidi niingie "gugo" nijisomee zaidi...nimekutana na hii. Mnaizungumziaje, kuwa 30% of HSPs ni extroverts!
 
Suicidal??? That's scary.

Never have I had such an idea.

U people just don't get it, do u

HSPs prefer being alone but they are not lonely. They prefer being alone so as they can process everything that's around them.

Things that ordinary people ignore, HSPs take them very seriously and carefully digest them, every small detail.
So we are very busy, our minds are not idle.

We find fulfillment and great joy in nature and from a few people who understand us, we enjoy our own company. . Music is an icing on the cake... How can we be Suicidal???

We, on the contrary wonder how other people cope with this social world. Loud people and objects, rude and inconsiderate people, very busy environments, social gatherings.
It's simply over stimulating and too much for the brain... And that's a recipe for suicide.

That's why after a very busy day, we simply need a quieter place, sip a cup of tea, gaze at nature, analyse things and enjoy life.

Sio tena kutoka na mashosti kwenda sijui out. Ni kutafuta kachanganyikiwa.

And do a personality check, u never know what you might come up with.
 
Well, one way towards 'getting it' is to avoid making declarative statements and ask questions.

Some of us are not shrinks and this is the first time even hearing it.

Bear with us, will you?

So, how can you connect with this Nyani?

This Nyani needs some connection man....


Oh...and, is it fair to call you people worriers?
 
Do u think Nyani can connect with an HSP?

And yes u can call us worriers because at some point we are concerned about things not turning out right.
 
Nyani is a very well-rounded fella. Very easy to get along with. He'll have no issues connecting with an HSP.
Will Nyani understand if I burst into tears by just watching what I consider a sad movie? (which may seem ok to others)
 
Nimeuliza hii kitu, mtoa mada Reina princess naomba mtazamo wako tafadhali.
 
Will Nyani understand if I burst into tears by just watching what I consider a sad movie? (which may seem ok to others)

Of course he will.

Nyani understands that people are different. Different in every sense of the word.

Some are stoic and some, like you, wear your heart on your sleeve.

It's life.

And life is this big old intricate phenomenon and he embraces it wholeheartedly.

No half-steppin'.
 
For a man being HSP makes him seen like a fag!!
 
Nadhani umejibiwa hapo juu #90 mkuu Gwamahala said,hii mada imenibamba sn nko nayo mwanzo mwisho
 
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