Some comments hurt! A little sensitivity goes a long way
Some comments hurt! A little sensitivity goes a long way
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Toria
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Acha usingiwizi ila naunga mkono hoja japo sikuona
Miss Neddy
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nifafanulie hapo kwenye usingiwizi ni nini hicho
Gorgeousmimi
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Hao watu wazima hovyo,wamekosa kazi za kufanya
.mi ningewapa jicho hilo mpaka wakashika adabu!!
Nimeelewa na pole kwa majanga ila ulichofanya sio busara mm nafikiri bora ungewahama hao watu ukakaa mahala usipowasikia kwani sijui uliwafundisha nini hao watoto.pia hata kukaa kimya ni jibu la mjinga kubishana na mtu usiemjua ni risk wht if yangetokea mabaya zaidi.kwahyo u dont need to fight to be a man brother
mwekundu
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masai dada
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sasa hao ndo wale wanaangalia movie chafu na watoto wao wala hawapeleki mbele wanazani ni utandawazi
kumbe ni ujinga mtupu
mtoto unavyomlea ndivyo anavyokua
JE KWA MFANO UKAMWAMBIA ,WANAO UNA KIBAMIA SI ATAKUA AKIWA HAJIAMINI NA KUJICHUKIA
WAZAZI KAMA HAO WANAWAKE WAPO NDO WALE WANAWAACHA WATOTO WAANGALIE PORNO
kumbe ni ujinga mtupu
mtoto unavyomlea ndivyo anavyokua
JE KWA MFANO UKAMWAMBIA ,WANAO UNA KIBAMIA SI ATAKUA AKIWA HAJIAMINI NA KUJICHUKIA
WAZAZI KAMA HAO WANAWAKE WAPO NDO WALE WANAWAACHA WATOTO WAANGALIE PORNO
DuppyConqueror
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Aisee nimecheka sanaaaa...anyway...shukuru pia kuwa dogo amejaaliwa...
Siungi mkono wale wanaosema watoto wengine wabaya!!!
Siungi mkono wale wanaosema watoto wengine wabaya!!!
EMT
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Sexual stereotypes begins immediately when the doctor says, "It's a boy" or "It's a girl". With the modern technology, sexual stereotypes begin even before the child is born. Now,what should the like of Karucee do to prevent their infants from being sexually stereotyped?
One couple came up with an extreme solution. The decided to raise their child as "gender neutral" for five years so that the infant's "real personality" could shine through. They decided not to reveal baby Sasha's gender to the world so he would not be influenced by society's prejudices and preconceptions.
They referred to their child as "The Infant" and only allowed him to play with "gender-neutral toys" in their television-free home. For the first five years of his life Sasha alternated between girls' and boys' outfits, leaving friends, playmates and relatives guessing. But the couple finally revealed his sex after it became harder to conceal when Sasha started primary school.
His mother thought gender stereotyping was "fundamentally stupid. I wanted to avoid all that stereotyping," she said. "Stereotypes seem fundamentally stupid. Why would you want to slot people into boxes? It's like horoscopes: what could be stupider than thinking there are 12 types of personality that depend on when you were born? It's so idiotic. Gender affects what children wear and what they can play with, and that shapes the kind of person they become."
However, they admitted that their stance had led them to suffering some ostracisation and and being branded a "loony" by other parents. But the mother felt it was worth it. "I discovered later that I'd been described as 'that loony woman who doesn't know whether her baby is a boy or a girl. And I could never persuade anyone in the group to come around for coffee. They just thought I was mental."
She added, "I don't think I'd do it if I thought it was going to make him unhappy, but at the moment he's not really bothered either way. We haven't had any difficult scenarios yet." She said early gender stereotyping was "harmful". "My mother's very sporty and my dad was very emotional," she said. "We'd watch The Wizard of Oz and always start crying, whereas my mum would think we were really soppy. So, it's always seemed obvious to me that stereotypes didn't fit the people I knew."
Source: Couple raise child as 'gender neutral' to avoid stereotyping - Telegraph
nyumba kubwa nimekumbuka story ya rafiki yako kuamua kumkuza mtoto wake wa kike kama wa kiume
One couple came up with an extreme solution. The decided to raise their child as "gender neutral" for five years so that the infant's "real personality" could shine through. They decided not to reveal baby Sasha's gender to the world so he would not be influenced by society's prejudices and preconceptions.
They referred to their child as "The Infant" and only allowed him to play with "gender-neutral toys" in their television-free home. For the first five years of his life Sasha alternated between girls' and boys' outfits, leaving friends, playmates and relatives guessing. But the couple finally revealed his sex after it became harder to conceal when Sasha started primary school.
His mother thought gender stereotyping was "fundamentally stupid. I wanted to avoid all that stereotyping," she said. "Stereotypes seem fundamentally stupid. Why would you want to slot people into boxes? It's like horoscopes: what could be stupider than thinking there are 12 types of personality that depend on when you were born? It's so idiotic. Gender affects what children wear and what they can play with, and that shapes the kind of person they become."
However, they admitted that their stance had led them to suffering some ostracisation and and being branded a "loony" by other parents. But the mother felt it was worth it. "I discovered later that I'd been described as 'that loony woman who doesn't know whether her baby is a boy or a girl. And I could never persuade anyone in the group to come around for coffee. They just thought I was mental."
She added, "I don't think I'd do it if I thought it was going to make him unhappy, but at the moment he's not really bothered either way. We haven't had any difficult scenarios yet." She said early gender stereotyping was "harmful". "My mother's very sporty and my dad was very emotional," she said. "We'd watch The Wizard of Oz and always start crying, whereas my mum would think we were really soppy. So, it's always seemed obvious to me that stereotypes didn't fit the people I knew."
Source: Couple raise child as 'gender neutral' to avoid stereotyping - Telegraph
nyumba kubwa nimekumbuka story ya rafiki yako kuamua kumkuza mtoto wake wa kike kama wa kiume
Mndengereko
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michael western
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Heri hata wangekuwa wanamdiscuss mtu mzima!
Ila kuna baadhi ya watu hata mtu akikatiza lazima wacheke tu while hamna hata cha kuchekesha
Ila kuna baadhi ya watu hata mtu akikatiza lazima wacheke tu while hamna hata cha kuchekesha
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