ww vp mbona unatoka povu?
Au ulizaliwa na single mom nn. Hatutaki sasa kuoa single mom sababu hawajatulia walikuwa viruka njia
Mkuu pata picha ifuatayo... mkeo ana mtoto na mwanaume mwingine nanyi mna watoto wawili pamoja. Mnakaa nao wote. Mtoto wa kambo anasomeshwa shule na baba mtoto ya million 6 kwa mwaka, wewe mume ukijipiga sana unaweza kuwasomesha watoto hawa wawili government na vi tuition kidogo. Aisee noma sana kidume lazima uwe mpole tu ukisikia wife anaenda kuchukua matunzo ya mtoto! Ndo maana kwangu mimi naona its more than money, kuna jealously, kujisikia inferior mbele ya kidume mwenzio nk.
Kama hilo ni tatizo mtoto si aende kwa baba yake
ww vp mbona unatoka povu?
Au ulizaliwa na single mom nn. Hatutaki sasa kuoa single mom sababu hawajatulia walikuwa viruka njia
ww hata ujitetee vp single mom nenden zenu hatutaki kuoa used sisi.
Labda kwa kugegedwa tu ila kuoa hakuna
Kwanini unadhani najifariji? na kwanini nijifariji.....Mpendwa,nadhani uko under age ndo maana unafikra za kitoto hivyo,Naomba nikufahamishe mtoto ni baraka na faraja ya ajabu,utakuwa na stress na kila aina ya shida,lakini ukimwona mtoto moyo wako unakupa nguvu ya kusonga mbele...
Ni hivi kama unadhani single momz are nothing infront of anyboy , you are wrong.....wapo wanaume wengine wanaowapenda kwa dhati hao hao unaowaona wewe hawafai....
kwa kumalizia ..kama wewe unaona huhitaji mtu wa hivyo nenda unakohitaji kwenda,kwasababu kila mtu Kaandikiwa wake,huna sababu ya kuruka ruka kama kinda la ndege...
Single mom ni tatizo sana kwenye mahusiano aisee...
Mie nimekwenda mbali, siwezi kuoa mwanamke aliyekuzwa na single mom, wengi huwa wanakua na tabia kama za mama zao
Na pia wanawake wengi hawawezi kulea mtoto wa mwenzie,hasa pale yeye anapokuwa bado hajapata mtoto....unamwandalia mtoto jehanam ya dunia,....I cant take it,Kwa baba yake napo kuna mama wa kambo. Ombea huyo mama awe ni mwema na ampende huyo mtoto. Hakuna kitu kibaya kama mama wa kambo amuwekee mgomo baridi mwanao, kila anachotaka anampa, hamuonyi, hamkanyi, hafuatilii homework wala nini anamuwashia tv mtoto acheki cartoon 24/7. Subiria a spoilt kid! Haya mambo magumu sana aisee
Watu wengi wanachukulia single momz kama hawana umuhimu tena na hawafai katika mahusiano. Siku hizi wanaume wengi ambao hawajakuwa na watoto utasikia wakisema "Mimi mwanamke wenye mtoto simtaki amechoka na amekongoroka kabisa huyo"
Kumbuka hapa kuna wanawake wengine hata ukikutana nae na asipokuambia ana mtoto huwezi jua, anajipenda na ni mrembo wa kuvutia na mwenye maendeleo.
Wanaume wengi sana wanaona hana thamani, na wengine kusema ni wameshindikana walikotoka yaani na jaamaa aliyezaa nae.Tukumbuke NOT EVERYMAN MEANT TO BE A DADY, kuna wengine ni waharibifu tu, pengine pia tofauti za maisha zinazotokea zinapelekea yote hayo kutokea, Watu hawaelewi...
Single moms haimaanishi hawatakiwi kuwa na mahusano mengine mapya labda na mwanaume ambaye hana mtoto, wengi hudhani ukijitumbukiza hapo basi utalea mtoto.
Jamani kuna watu wanauwezo wa kutake care ya watoto wao bila msaada, jiulize kabla yako nani alikuwa anamsaidia kama sie mwenyewe. Ni faraja na upendo tu anahitaji kutoka sehemu nyingne.
Hawa watu haimaanishi waolewe au wawe na mahusiano na wanaume ambao nao wanawatoto...eti sababu wasaidane kulea... Tena na zile familia zikisikia kijana anasema "nina mwanamke ila ana mtoto" moto unawaka, jamani jamani? Huu si ubaguzi lakini?
Mwenye mawazo hayo wewe ni katili na mbinafsi kabisa. Na ndo maana inafikia hatua wanaume mnafichwa mnakuja kutambua kwamba ana mtoto imepita hata miaka 10, halafu unalaumu oooh hakuniambia. Hakukuambia kwasababu anajua mtazamo wenu kwao...
Mimi naomba tu niwaambie ndugu Kaka zangu, wadogo zangu, Mwanamke aliyezaa ni sawa na wengine tu, tena bora yeye kazaaa anajua ana kizazi, kuliko hao wasiozaa na wanaokesha kila siku kutafuta watoto kwa waganga..
Mimi mwenyewe ni mfano mzuri, nimepata unyanyasaji sana na wanaume, pale nilipokuwa nawaambia nina mtoto, wengine walishia kimya kimya, wakidai eti tuna kawaida ya kupasha kiporo na mzazi mwenza HIYO NI UONGO NA FIKRA MBOVU ZA WATU
Na kamwe sikuweza kuficha kama sina mtoto kwasababu najua nini maana ya mtoto. Mtoto ni zaidi ya thamani ya vitu ulivyonavyo ndani...
Tena wanawake ambao mmekutana na haya wala msifiche ukweli, Mwanaume akikimbia ujue mungu kakuepushia jambo.
WANAUME HEBU TOENI NA MBADILIKE NA HIZO IMANI AMBAZO SIO...
Swali lolote linakaribishwa... Asanteni
Kwanza am soo proud to be a Mom, Am a single mama na sijawahi kujutia being a single mama,kwahiyo mtu mwingine akiniita mimi used kiukweli sijihisi vibaya hata kidogo,kwasababu wewe utaniita hivyo wakati kuna mtu ananiita mama,neno mama kwangu najihisi n kama the greatest mom...
Huyo unamwona wewe hafai ni sawa na mamako aliyekuzaa wewe(samahani kama nimetukana hapo)...
Single dady kuja hapa tulee watoto tuwaache hao wenzetu waende sawa, sisi tunaoonekana tuna vikwazo tutakuwa tunafahamiana vizuri zaid kuliko kutafuta matatizo zaid....
All in all, Sijawahi kujutia wala kuyachukia maisha yangu hata nikiitwa jalala,poa tuuu😛eace:😛eace:,all I kno a somebody's mom.
Swali lolote linakaribishwa... Asanteni
Kwa baba yake napo kuna mama wa kambo. Ombea huyo mama awe ni mwema na ampende huyo mtoto. Hakuna kitu kibaya kama mama wa kambo amuwekee mgomo baridi mwanao, kila anachotaka anampa, hamuonyi, hamkanyi, hafuatilii homework wala nini anamuwashia tv mtoto acheki cartoon 24/7. Subiria a spoilt kid! Haya mambo magumu sana aisee
Mshukuru Mungu ulipata a responsible father akakulea..Am a single mom,na ninatamani mtoto wangu angepata malezi ya baba,ila ndo hivyo tena yaliyotokea yametokea.Wewe tu mshukuru Mungu kwa bahati uliyopata
I have said this before and i will say it again, you don't have to insult someone just to prove a point. Wewe mama yake mleta mada amefikaje huku? Whether she's a product of a broken relationship/marriage or not tujifunze kutokuvuka mipaka ya watu jamani. Sikatai you probably have some scores to settle with her ila naomba yaishie kwake, involving someone's else parents isn't fair.
Sweetness you don't have to justify yourself to anyone let alone anyone as ignorant and obnoxious as him! Dont let someone who has a bad attitude give it to you. Dont let them get to you. They cant pull the trigger if you dont hand them the gun.You go girl and keep doing what you do best! Being a single parent could be the most tasking job but it is the most highly paid job!!!
Sweetheart stop taking it out your frustrations on others, being a single parent isn't a curse, it all depends on how you decide to perceive it. Kuna kauli zako ambazo kwa kweli ni kikwazo kwa watu wengine (refer to the bolded parts). Just because God has granted you the gift of parenthood doesn't give you the rights to insult others, mtoto ni kipaji kutoka kwa Mungu na kila mwanamke ana haki ya kuitwa mama whether married or not.
Ukimpenda kweli mwanamke, hata kama ana mtoto. Utamchukulia alivyo. Kuwa na mtoto ni kitu cha kawaida sana. Hata sisi wanaume sometimes unakuwa na mtoto uliyempata katika mahusiano.
poor you ......Hebu Mungu akupe ufahamu
Nimeshamshukuru..........Mshukuru Mungu ulipata a responsible father akakulea..Am a single mom,na ninatamani mtoto wangu angepata malezi ya baba,ila ndo hivyo tena yaliyotokea yametokea.Wewe tu mshukuru Mungu kwa bahati uliyopata