Sifa za mwanamke makini hasa ndani ya ndoa

[Sosthenes Maendeleo]

Well said even am not sure if researched.

 

[faithsamba]

Nmejfunza ktu 4sure

 

[Unbelievable]

Je, utadharau mchango wangu kwa kuwa sijaamua kuolewa?

Elimu ya mahusiano inapaswa kutolewa kwa vijana toka wadogo. Wanapaswa kuwa na uwezo wa kuelezea sehemu zao kwenye mahusiano Yao ili kutengeneza mahusiano bora.

Historia na watu waliotuzunguka wametufunza mambo mengi. Bila kusahau mtu aliyekuwa kwenye mahusiano ya muda mrefu ana uelewa mkubwa wa mahusiano.

Huwezi kumtishia msichana ajali mahitaji ya mwanaume ambaye hamjali ili ndoa idumu. Unataka kutengeneza jamii ya namna gani?

Wala siamini kama wewe umeoa. Haiwezekani ukapinga kila nilichosema kwa hoja kuwa sijaolewa.

Kwani mkuu mie nimebisha juu ya ulichoandika!?
Mie nilikuelewa na kulike ulichoandika na wala sijakudharu hata kidogo.
Ila hujanijibu swali langu mkuu.

 

[Hornet]

A woman is a slave

 

[Ushimen]

SS ndo kitabu gan mkuu?

Song of Solomon

 

[Ushimen]

Ukweli mtupu na n wachache sana wenye hzo qualities

Nikweli kabisa aiseee...

 

[mose lukas]

Thanks

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[momo2]

Mungu atusaidie maana hawa wanaume wanapenda vitu vizuri ila wao kutimiza kwa wenza wao ni SHIDA.

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[Soja p]

Mautamu

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[HoneyBee]

NEVER raise your voice to your wife. She is not your child or of a lower class. It's a sign of inferiority complex, low intelligence, narrow mindedness, lack of education and exposure and bad childhood upbringing



Same to the foolish men who do this



NEVER use attitudes and moods to communicate with your wife. Expecting her to lick your feet or be overly submissive to figure out your problem. You never know how your wife will interpret them. Defensive men do not have happy wives.



NEVER compare your wife to other women. You've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack her confidence and trust , her love for you will diminish.



NEVER ill treat your wife's friends because you don't like them. The one who's supposed to get rid of them is your wife



NEVER forget that your wife married you and not her job. Never leave all the bills on her and If she feels financially insecure and puts more effort in her job you should do something about her insecurity. Your wife is not a machine. Help her with the house chores after work


NEVER be ignorant of your wife's humane nature. She can only do as much. Never be of little importance to your wife. Where her confidence is boosted, heart is warmed and assistance is got, is where her mind will be.



Never blame your wife for doing little at home. Help her out.


NEVER ignore the value of your wife's sweat at home. If we were to change it to the value money you'll be ashamed how cheaply you live by


NEVER think of your needs alone. The Bible commands to love your wife as yourself. The Bible speaks Ill of people driven by their sexual desires, showing no compassion. Even dare asking "to be given how you want it" and threatening adultery. SHAAAME YOU EVEN DARE TO QUOTE YOUR HOLY BOOK. If you knew how to get her in the mood you wouldn't be threatening her of cheating.
While you are thinking of cheating, she's thinking of the tonne of house chores, her excess weight due to pregnancy, work on weekend, her ever demanding baby and a man who will just help her and make her feel good for once.

To be continued....

Thank you!! I absolutely hate one-sided threads like these that say women do XYZ and quote the holy book to back up this point of view.
I have seen women in my family that have all of these qualities and more and still be treated like GARBAGE.
Siri ya ndoa ni kuheshimiana kama watu, the golden rule is treat everyone the way you would want to be treated.

Wanaume wengi humu wanalalamika wanasema kuwa wanawake wachache sana siku hizi wanazo hizi qualities zote, and the truth is most of these men do not deserve women like this.