Sifa za mwanamke makini hasa ndani ya ndoa

[Akhy D]

ukitaka mwenye sifa namba 1,2 na 3 katafute kijijini mjini majanga.
ukitaka mwenye sifa namba 4,5,6 na 7 usioe mke anaefanya kazi utajuta.
hembu saidia sifa nyengine hua wanapatikana wapi.

 

[Selesayi]

ukitaka mwenye sifa namba 1,2 na 3 katafute kijijini mjini majanga.
ukitaka mwenye sifa namba 4,5,6 na 7 usioe mke anaefanya kazi utajuta.
hembu saidia sifa nyengine hua wanapatikana wapi.

Hahahahahahaha,hizi sifa nilimwona alipractise bibi yangu wa Kisukuma kwa babu hasa no.1,23,7,8,18 na 29! Leo hii hata wajukuu wake hayupo anayefata nyayo zake! Kama yupo humu anayeweza hata robo ajitokeze nitamuoa!

 

[housegirl]

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)

NEVER raise your voice to your wife. She is not your child or of a lower class. It's a sign of inferiority complex, low intelligence, narrow mindedness, lack of education and exposure and bad childhood upbringing

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)

Same to the foolish men who do this

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)

NEVER use attitudes and moods to communicate with your wife. Expecting her to lick your feet or be overly submissive to figure out your problem. You never know how your wife will interpret them. Defensive men do not have happy wives.

) 4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

NEVER compare your wife to other women. You've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack her confidence and trust , her love for you will diminish.

) 5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)

NEVER ill treat your wife's friends because you don't like them. The one who's supposed to get rid of them is your wife

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6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
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NEVER forget that your wife married you and not her job. Never leave all the bills on her and If she feels financially insecure and puts more effort in her job you should do something about her insecurity. Your wife is not a machine. Help her with the house chores after work

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)

NEVER be ignorant of your wife's humane nature. She can only do as much. Never be of little importance to your wife. Where her confidence is boosted, heart is warmed and assistance is got, is where her mind will be.

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)

Never blame your wife for doing little at home. Help her out.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

NEVER ignore the value of your wife's sweat at home. If we were to change it to the value money you'll be ashamed how cheaply you live by

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)

NEVER think of your needs alone. The Bible commands to love your wife as yourself. The Bible speaks Ill of people driven by their sexual desires, showing no compassion. Even dare asking "to be given how you want it" and threatening adultery. SHAAAME YOU EVEN DARE TO QUOTE YOUR HOLY BOOK. If you knew how to get her in the mood you wouldn't be threatening her of cheating.
While you are thinking of cheating, she's thinking of the tonne of house chores, her excess weight due to pregnancy, work on weekend, her ever demanding baby and a man who will just help her and make her feel good for once.

To be continued....

 

[Marumeso]

Kwa sasa wachache sn watakidh hizo sifa hizi wengi wao wanakasimu sana majukum kwa dada au shambaboi. Mtu anashindwa hata kusugua mguu wake mwenyew anataka akasuguliwe salon!!

Inasikitisha. Ukimwagiza kitu naye anatoa maagizo kwa shambaboi papohapo tena mbele yako!!

Kama ningewez kurudisha siku nyuma ningeachana na hii kitu kuoa. Unapata mtu unazaa nae ale hamsa zake basi.

 

[Bavaria]

Kwakuwa wanaume wa sasa hawastahili hata 5% ya yaliyoandikwa hapo.

Baki kwa wazazi wako.

 

[Hulda-Tamarri]

wewe acha tu dada bora nimeamua kujikaria zangu maana nilitaka kuoa bora nimeonyeshwa mapema hiyo ndoa sijui kama miezi miwili ingefika kweli

Ulitaka kuoa ukaonyeshwa kwamba mpenzi wako hana hizo sifa au?
Sometimes muwe mnasema na mioyo yenu msiogope sana kwa sababu ya maandiko.
Mie nilichokiona hapo sio quarantee kwamba ukipata mke wa namna hiyo ndoa haitavunjika, au kwamba lazima utafute mwanamke mwenye sifa hizo maana huwezi kumfahamu kirahisi.
Isipokuwa hiyo ni miongozo ambayo mwanamke anapaswa kuifuata katika kuilinda na kuitunza ndoa yake kwa yeye kuwa mke mwema. (Kwa tafsiri yangu)

Sasa wewe jipinde kutafuta mchumba/mke kwa kumthaminisha na hivyo vigezo uone kama hujatoka kapa!

 

[Hulda-Tamarri]

housegirl ebu nifundishe kuquote hizo point moja moja kama ulivyofanya wewe? Unafanyaje!

 

[Mnyabwilo]

Ulitaka kuoa ukaonyeshwa kwamba mpenzi wako hana hizo sifa au?
Sometimes muwe mnasema na mioyo yenu msiogope sana kwa sababu ya maandiko.
Mie nilichokiona hapo sio quarantee kwamba ukipata mke wa namna hiyo ndoa haitavunjika, au kwamba lazima utafute mwanamke mwenye sifa hizo maana huwezi kumfahamu kirahisi.
Isipokuwa hiyo ni miongozo ambayo mwanamke anapaswa kuifuata katika kuilinda na kuitunza ndoa yake kwa yeye kuwa mke mwema. (Kwa tafsiri yangu)

Sasa wewe jipinde kutafuta mchumba/mke kwa kumthaminisha na hivyo vigezo uone kama hujatoka kapa!

Tatizo majanga unaanza kuona mapema kwamba huyu safari yetu ata kibaha hatutaweza kufika aiseeee

 

[Hulda-Tamarri]

Tatizo majanga unaanza kuona mapema kwamba huyu safari yetu ata kibaha hatutaweza kufika aiseeee

Lakini sio kwa kufuata hivyo vigezo maana hizo ni advice kwetu.

 

[Mnyabwilo]

Lakini sio kwa kufuata hivyo vigezo maana hizo ni advice kwetu.

Yah....mkuuu

 

[Unbelievable]

Housegirl hivi umeolewa?
Nijuze tafadhali.

 

[mr.mirror]

Nadhani wahusika wameziona na watajifunza kitu kutoka hapo

 

[housegirl]

housegirl ebu nifundishe kuquote hizo point moja moja kama ulivyofanya wewe? Unafanyaje!

UkimQuote mtu, Kuna maneno kwenye mabano [ ] kabla na baada ya Aya. Copy hayo maneno na mabano yake.

Yaliyo mwanzo wa Aya yaPaste mwanzoni mwa sehemu unayotaka kuQuote. Pia paste Yaliyo mwishoni mwa Aya mwishoni unapotaka kuQuote.

Then unakuwa umeQuote hako kasehemu. Chini yake unaandika.

 

[housegirl]

Housegirl hivi umeolewa?
Nijuze tafadhali.

Je, utadharau mchango wangu kwa kuwa sijaamua kuolewa?

Elimu ya mahusiano inapaswa kutolewa kwa vijana toka wadogo. Wanapaswa kuwa na uwezo wa kuelezea sehemu zao kwenye mahusiano Yao ili kutengeneza mahusiano bora.

Historia na watu waliotuzunguka wametufunza mambo mengi. Bila kusahau mtu aliyekuwa kwenye mahusiano ya muda mrefu ana uelewa mkubwa wa mahusiano.

Huwezi kumtishia msichana ajali mahitaji ya mwanaume ambaye hamjali ili ndoa idumu. Unataka kutengeneza jamii ya namna gani?

Wala siamini kama wewe umeoa. Haiwezekani ukapinga kila nilichosema kwa hoja kuwa sijaolewa.

 

[lulu za uru]

too much is harmfull..

 

[mamii1]

NEVER raise your voice to your wife. She is not your child or of a lower class. It's a sign of inferiority complex, low intelligence, narrow mindedness, lack of education and exposure and bad childhood upbringing



Same to the foolish men who do this



NEVER use attitudes and moods to communicate with your wife. Expecting her to lick your feet or be overly submissive to figure out your problem. You never know how your wife will interpret them. Defensive men do not have happy wives.



NEVER compare your wife to other women. You've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack her confidence and trust , her love for you will diminish.



NEVER ill treat your wife's friends because you don't like them. The one who's supposed to get rid of them is your wife



NEVER forget that your wife married you and not her job. Never leave all the bills on her and If she feels financially insecure and puts more effort in her job you should do something about her insecurity. Your wife is not a machine. Help her with the house chores after work


NEVER be ignorant of your wife's humane nature. She can only do as much. Never be of little importance to your wife. Where her confidence is boosted, heart is warmed and assistance is got, is where her mind will be.



Never blame your wife for doing little at home. Help her out.


NEVER ignore the value of your wife's sweat at home. If we were to change it to the value money you'll be ashamed how cheaply you live by


NEVER think of your needs alone. The Bible commands to love your wife as yourself. The Bible speaks Ill of people driven by their sexual desires, showing no compassion. Even dare asking "to be given how you want it" and threatening adultery. SHAAAME YOU EVEN DARE TO QUOTE YOUR HOLY BOOK. If you knew how to get her in the mood you wouldn't be threatening her of cheating.
While you are thinking of cheating, she's thinking of the tonne of house chores, her excess weight due to pregnancy, work on weekend, her ever demanding baby and a man who will just help her and make her feel good for once.

To be continued....

Housegirl uko so smart, umeelezea ipasavyo.

 

[omalicha]

Sio kwa wanaume wetu hawa wa siku hz wana gubuuu hata ufanye mema gani bado ni bure😏😏😏😏

 

[housegirl]

Housegirl uko so smart, umeelezea ipasavyo.

Ooh I'm humbled

 

[housegirl]

Sio kwa wanaume wetu hawa wa siku hz wana gubuuu hata ufanye mema gani bado ni bure?-???-???-???-??

Hahaa Nimecheka!!!

 

[ragin]

31. Awe anaomba pesa hata kama ye anazo