My dear... for this one ni vizuri kuweka mitazamo mitatu au minne... ambayo ndio ushauri wenyewe
Ya kwanza aanze na positive, kwamba the guy is addicted to having fun and him coming back is better than many who dont come back forever, whether wanakufa au wanakimbia kabisa.. In this case its her duty to soothe tha many and develop a new habit of encouraging the man to come early. in special circumstances, she may even need to go out with the man and not show attitude to friends even if she gets bored, this one works very well but there is price to pay... late night and sitting with people you may not love
Ya pili ni kwamba the guy is simply not into her... so she either fight for love or let go
Ya tatu ni utoto wa bwana
ya nne ni kero za nyumbani
Ya tano ni mazoea before marriage
Hizo tatu za mwisho ni mama kuchuja na kuamua kama aendelee na utoto, kero zake kama mama au kuachia mazoea ya kabla ya ndoa
All in all she needs to sit down with the man, in a very lively mood na wakiwa kwenye mapenzi motomoto, preferably out (muziki au nice dinner) na ajaribu kumpa undani wake mshkaji bila kugomba wala ugomvi
I pray that she will make it to the joyfull relationship