Either these men have never lived in bongo. Or they've never witnessed domestic violence, or they're just a bunch of misogynists who think women will be mistreated by men and there's nothing they can do about it but bow their heads and prayLikewise, if you have a heart and when you consider the anguish undergone by battered women who are sucked into the vortex of horrible relationships/ marriages, particularly domestic violence, you will not advocate anyone staying in such situations.
SORRY IN WHAT WAY WAS I SECURED?? Did you read the part were I sad I advised mum to live dad at 14? I WAS MENTALLY DISTURBED. STILL AM. I remember incidents that happened at 6! I didn't understand then, but now it makes me shiver and just hate dad. I told my mum I'll be going to therapy and she'll get the bills.Have you ever taken a moment and consider the sacrifices your mom gave to secure your life. The best way to repay is not to stoop on her sacrifices on you but atone her by raising grannies in a respectable family. Sacrifice as she did.
This guy claims to be 54 on his profile. It's beyond me how a 54yr old can talk like this. Like a 16yr old dreaming of a happily ever after wedding.Who lied to u that u can't get bored with a spouse of your dreams?
Ur crucifying ladies here as if it's always glorious and happy in matrimony
Not many people decide to not have children. Life will always go on.If all women were as selfish as you are then the world would have been empty. Life has never been about us but our ability to sustain a next generation. That comes with strings attached: we call them sacrifices to maintain our existence.
I'm very sure there are a lot of happy married couples.How can you be bored if you are with a spouse of your dreams?
Kuna a lot of misconception when a woman is single sijui kwa nini,..afu wanaume wenyewe sasaa wanaopenda kulazimisha hzi concept hata ukipewa bure hukubali akuoe aisee ni wa hovyooo mno,I happen to know one guy anajishobokeshaa na vistatement ohh women r not happy alone nk hapo mtu nna amani zangu tele nabaki namshangaa tu mana ukimjibu unaweza mtukana bure,kutojiamini kwao ndo huku kugeneralize that a wanawake hawana furaha wakiwa single,This guy claims to be 54 on his profile. It's beyond me how a 54yr old can talk like this. Like a 16yr old dreaming of a happily ever after wedding.
Even if ur soulmates mloandikiwa na Mungu, kukwaruzana na boredom ni part ya maisha it happensI'm very sure there are a lot of happy married couples.
But also acknowledge that there're a lot of unhappy ones and downright suffering ones.
Periods of loneliness do come event with happy couples. Don't mislead people.
mwengeso should see this. He was so miserable when single he can't cannot think beyond marriage.Let me start by saying, for some of us there is more to "life "than being someone’s lover, gf, wife, and what have you. eg
- Careers and ladders to climb
- Places to explore and the world to see
- Money to make and fabulous lives to live
Say what you want to say but no amount of “D” can replace the exhilaration that I get as a woman in charge of me, my life and my journey.
Perhaps the underlying issue in all of this, is the world now lacking REAL men? The alpha kind, "top dogs", the always in charge type, and those who are never afraid nor shy away from a STRONG woman ??
“Submissive woman” really? I , somehow was under the impression that we are now in the 21st century , or aren’t we ? #smh
Don't worry man it is a Chinese thing. But all in all, I have agreed with your arguments.How can it be exactly!
Inawezekana kuna kaukweli.Tuwe wa kweli raha inatoka wapi leo kwa huyu kesho kwa yule. Hamahama ni dalili ya kukosa amani rohoni mwao.
Mimi huwa sielewi kama mtu una ndoa yako/mahusiano yako mazuri, maisha yako umeridhika, why uongelee vibaya hawa wanawake?Kuna a lot of misconception when a woman is single sijui kwa nini,..afu wanaume wenyewe sasaa wanaopenda kulazimisha hzi concept hata ukipewa bure hukubali akuoe aisee ni wa hovyooo mno,I happen to know one guy anajishobokeshaa na vistatement ohh women r not happy alone nk hapo mtu nna amani zangu tele nabaki namshangaa tu mana ukimjibu unaweza mtukana bure,kutojiamini kwao ndo huku kugeneralize that a wanawake hawana furaha wakiwa single,
Well said Mkuu! We have witnessed married couples going thru hell! Why the world has concluded it's only women who are in need (marriage) than men !?Why do people assume single women at that age are unhappy? As if the married ones are living in paradise. Don't you know that a lot of married couples actually get lonely too?
Stop speaking about their emotions. Do not pressure them into unhealthy relationships just to impress you!
I'm very sure if they were as desperate as society claims, they would have settled with just anybody.
Mtaa huu ndio umeona mtu anafanana na mimi?!Mimi huwa sielewi kama mtu una ndoa yako/mahusiano yako mazuri, maisha yako umeridhika, why uongelee vibaya hawa wanawake?
Mimi nafikiri they're in sad marriages or rejects in life so they're just venting out their frustrations.
Acheni kuingilia maisha ya watu.
Maneno ya mkosaji hayo hakuna mwanamke asiyependa kuwa na mume wake na watoto, ila kwasababu wanawake wengi wakipata elimu wanapungukiwa na hekima mwisho wasiku wanakosa ndoa na wanabakia vyombo vya starehe vya wanaumeLet me start by saying, for some of us there is more to "life "than being someone’s lover, gf, wife, and what have you. eg
- Careers and ladders to climb
- Places to explore and the world to see
- Money to make and fabulous lives to live
Say what you want to say but no amount of “D” can replace the exhilaration that I get as a woman in charge of me, my life and my journey.
Perhaps the underlying issue in all of this, is the world now lacking REAL men? The alpha kind, "top dogs", the always in charge type, and those who are never afraid nor shy away from a STRONG woman ??
“Submissive woman” really? I , somehow was under the impression that we are now in the 21st century , or aren’t we ? #smh
Hahaha nimejikuta nacheka tuPia wanawake wakimachame wanapenda kuwa wajane!!!