hivi kwann pale mtu anapokuwa yuko prosperous huwa idadi ya watu walioko nyuma yake inakuwa kubwa sana. Yaani utakuta marafiki, ndugu, wafanyakazi wake wapo karibu nae sana sana......................................because he/she have what they need, kwa lugha nyingine he/she is a good part of their solution to their problems, wanamdepent yaani wanamtegemea katika utatauzi wa shida zao!!!!
ila sasa mtu huyu huyu akipatwa na majanga halafu mafanikio yake yakaanza kudrop basi watu wote hundoka nyuma yake.utakuta kama ni ndugu wanaanza kumtenga, marafiki wanamkimbia watumish nao hivyo hivyo je hii husababishwa na nini??.....................................because he/she lost what they need, so s/he can longer deal with their problems kwa hio sasa wanamwona yeye km tatizo na sio solution km ilivyokuwa hapo mwanzo angali akiwa prosperous
tena kuna wakati yule mtu mwenye mafanikio hata kama ni mchoyo, mringi bado watu watajikomba kwake tuuuuuu......................................as long as anazo they believe one day yes, mtaani kwetu tunasema atabana sana ila ipo siku ataaachia tu, so they stay with her/him by hope; ndio maana wataalam wa fedha(km fedha ni kipimo cha mafanikio) wanakwambia lend what you can afford to loose, because if you lend what you can't afford to loose then you will loose yourself, yaani unajipoteza mwenyewe