Patience mpaka lini..!??

Patience mpaka lini..!??

Mentor said:
Wadau salaam,
Naandika hii with a clear knowledge of the ancestors' saying that:"Patience pays."
But I sat back and thought...how long should you wait?
I just lost her...and may be I may not have her again...but seriously doesnt patience have its limits??!
It happened three years ago in college,
We met-I as a senior student and her a new student-and became great friends. I used to help her in studies, life and we just hanged around together. As a result I fell in love with her...She never realized it, because anyway i neva told her!
I believed in patience, and so I kept my piece acting like the normal good friend she has always known.
Just before I completed school she got a boyfriend. Some guy she just knew for two weeks and voila..they were in a relationship. She came to me as a friend asking for ideas. That she just liked him but she is trying to see if it might work. I told her to do what she felt was right. In my heart I was hurting a lot..
I still believed in patience. I thought she will come to realize how much I love her. She always used to tell me "I love you"..and I never understood that kind of love she was talking about.
Anyway, it is three years now..I am ready to let her know what I feel about her and I still remember the words of our ancestors; "Love is Patience".
For how long then? Until when I hear they are getting married?
I am a bit confused...Does patience have limits?
What should someone be doing to the person they love during the waiting time..so that they don't end up loosing them?😕
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Daaah ndugu i hate sayin this but it looks like u have sat on your rights and your time barred..even courts do have limitations of instituting proceedings but you have sat on that right till your now in what they call friendz zone which is practically hard to get out with..but your not alone i have sat on my rights plenty of times and still i am sitting on it.there is this hot girl that i know i like so much we click when we talk but i just cant break the jar...so i just hung on en keep on dying inside little by little over...!!!
 
Mentor said:
Wadau salaam,
Naandika hii with a clear knowledge of the ancestors' saying that:"Patience pays."
But I sat back and thought...how long should you wait?
I just lost her...and may be I may not have her again...but seriously doesnt patience have its limits??!
It happened three years ago in college,
We met-I as a senior student and her a new student-and became great friends. I used to help her in studies, life and we just hanged around together. As a result I fell in love with her...She never realized it, because anyway i neva told her!
I believed in patience, and so I kept my piece acting like the normal good friend she has always known.
Just before I completed school she got a boyfriend. Some guy she just knew for two weeks and voila..they were in a relationship. She came to me as a friend asking for ideas. That she just liked him but she is trying to see if it might work. I told her to do what she felt was right. In my heart I was hurting a lot..
I still believed in patience. I thought she will come to realize how much I love her. She always used to tell me "I love you"..and I never understood that kind of love she was talking about.
Anyway, it is three years now..I am ready to let her know what I feel about her and I still remember the words of our ancestors; "Love is Patience".
For how long then? Until when I hear they are getting married?
I am a bit confused...Does patience have limits?
What should someone be doing to the person they love during the waiting time..so that they don't end up loosing them?😕
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Daaah ndugu i hate sayin this but it looks like u have sat on your rights and your time barred..even courts do have limitations of instituting proceedings but you have sat on that right till your now in what they call friendz zone which is practically hard to get out with..but your not alone i have sat on my rights plenty of times and still i am sitting on it.there is this hot girl that i know i like so much we click when we talk but i just cant break the jar...so i just hung on en keep on dying inside little by little over...!!!
 
Mentor yule mutoto ya mwai kibaki kakutosaaa?
 
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C6 said:
Mentor yule mutoto ya mwai kibaki kakutosaaa?
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Bro @c6, hapana bwana..hii post ni ya tangu 2010 imagine mkuu BAK ndo ameifukunyua akaianzisha upya sasa inaonekana ni mpya!!!!

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Mkuu Mentor usingeniwekea likes jana kwenye comments zangu za 2010 mie wala sikujua namna ya kuutafuta huu uzi na wala nilikuwa siukumbuki.

Mentor said:
Bro @c6, hapana bwana..hii post ni ya tangu 2010 imagine mkuu BAK ndo ameifukunyua akaianzisha upya sasa inaonekana ni mpya!!!!

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BAK said:
Mkuu Mentor usingeniwekea likes jana kwenye comments zangu za 2010 mie wala sikujua namna ya kuutafuta huu uzi na wala nilikuwa siukumbuki.
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Ivi ni mimi nili-like!???? daaaa didn't know itakuwa nilifanya involuntarily aisee....:A S 39:
 
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Mrembo by Nature said:
Vumilia, usirudi nyumaa kaza mwendo usife moyo, vumilia usirudi nyuma pambazuko liko karibu (mie naimba tu)
Imekuwa kisa cha m,uomba jamvi.
Kama ulimpenda why usingemwambia? kwake yeye asingekusisitizia kwani mwanamke kumwambia mwanaume nakupenda na akasisitiza hasa upendo unaoelekea kwenye sexual relationship ni ngum sana. Huwa hata ukimwambia mwanaume kwamba unampenda all they do ni ku end up kukuona wa ajabu na they take it for granted. I will never tell a man kwamba nampenda.

Ehe ULIMPATA AU ALISHAOLEWA??????@Mentor
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Huyu amekula hasara...me I don't believe kwenye hii mambo yakusubiri uwa nasema asipo nielewa naendeleana mipango mingine ya maisha..sasa ona huyu kijana atakamilisha upendo wake kwa kutoa mchango wa harusi na kupangwa kwenye kamati ya ulinzi kwenye harusi. You should have told her bhana ulitaka itokee ajali ya maneno yakuponyoke tu from no where?
 
mbukoi said:
Huyu amekula hasara...me I don't believe kwenye hii mambo yakusubiri uwa nasema asipo nielewa naendeleana mipango mingine ya maisha..sasa ona huyu kijana atakamilisha upendo wake kwa kutoa mchango wa harusi na kupangwa kwenye kamati ya ulinzi kwenye harusi. You should have told her bhana ulitaka itokee ajali ya maneno yakuponyoke tu from no where?
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Eti kupangwa kwenye kamati ya ulinzi hahahahahahaha
 
mbukoi said:
yaah sasa kama anampenda sana na hatampata basi itabidi tu alinde harusi iende vizuri kukamilisha upendo wake.
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Unamuona Mentor ni 3rd class citizen eeehh, mwenyewe matawi kiaje, ukimuona utamjua basi kwamba ndio mwenye hiko kiavatar hapa? yeye anafaa kuwa mwenyekiti wa kamati ya harusi asimamie kamati zote kwa personality yake na si kuwa mlinzi. Kumfanya mlinzi ni ku underutilize both human and other resources.
 
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Hahaaa...hatari!! Kamati ya ulinzi ndi inamfaa hasa..mwenzue ndani anafurahi kwenda kula fungate anabaki kusema ningekua mm pale...wapi chelewa chelewa!!
 
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unaweza kuta na yeye alikuwa na hisia kwako sasa kwa mwanmke inakuwa ngumu kukwambia na wewe ukaamua kufa na tai shingoni, hayo yamepita wewe mwambie tu
Mentor said:
Wadau salaam,
Naandika hii with a clear knowledge of the ancestors' saying that:"Patience pays."
But I sat back and thought...how long should you wait?
I just lost her...and may be I may not have her again...but seriously doesnt patience have its limits??!
It happened three years ago in college,
We met-I as a senior student and her a new student-and became great friends. I used to help her in studies, life and we just hanged around together. As a result I fell in love with her...She never realized it, because anyway i neva told her!
I believed in patience, and so I kept my piece acting like the normal good friend she has always known.
Just before I completed school she got a boyfriend. Some guy she just knew for two weeks and voila..they were in a relationship. She came to me as a friend asking for ideas. That she just liked him but she is trying to see if it might work. I told her to do what she felt was right. In my heart I was hurting a lot..
I still believed in patience. I thought she will come to realize how much I love her. She always used to tell me "I love you"..and I never understood that kind of love she was talking about.
Anyway, it is three years now..I am ready to let her know what I feel about her and I still remember the words of our ancestors; "Love is Patience".
For how long then? Until when I hear they are getting married?
I am a bit confused...Does patience have limits?
What should someone be doing to the person they love during the waiting time..so that they don't end up loosing them?😕
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Mocrana said:
unaweza kuta na yeye alikuwa na hisia kwako sasa kwa mwanmke inakuwa ngumu kukwambia na wewe ukaamua kufa na tai shingoni, hayo yamepita wewe mwambie tu
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Na muda umeshapita Mocrana...hii ilikuwa miaka hiyoooooo 2010!!!!
 
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