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Only an idiot would care what a woman wants!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Maundumula, Feb 1, 2012.

  1. Maundumula

    Maundumula JF-Expert Member

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    Why You Should Never Be “Nice” To Women! by Ross Jeffries

    Many years ago, when I was first making my tv talk show rounds, someone asked me, “What do women want?”
    I said something that nearly caused a riot in the studio audience. “Only an idiot would care what a woman WANTS.”
    I paused dramatically to deliver the rest of it over the shouting that erupted, “A smart guy only cares about what a woman RESPONDS TO!”.You know, I wasn’t kidding about that. I meant it then and I mean it to this day.

    There is what women SAY they want.
    There is what women THINK they want.
    Then there is what women ACTUALLY RESPOND TO!
    Only that last one counts.

    Now, in that regard, one of the more frequent questions I get is, “Does Speed Seduction® require me to be “nice” to women? Your patterns sound a lot like old-fashioned romantic “sweet talk” and I don’t want to be pegged as a sweet, “nice” romantic guy.”
    Let me say this right now: I have NEVER said you should be “nice” to women.In fact, most “nice” guys are boring as bat-shit, self-pitying whiners who are too out of touch with reality to see that what they are doing just doesn’t work.And rather than change, they blame the women.So let me draw an important distinction here:

    There is “nice” which women do NOT favorably respond to.
    And then there is “pleasant” which the sane, self-respecting women LOVE.A “nice” man only knows how to be agreeable. He doesn’t know how to challenge women and he can’t or won’t set the lead. And he filters everything he says through the belief that women are fragile little flowers who need to handled with OH so much care lest they be broken. YUUCH.

    One more thing: women don’t trust his communication because he just won’t dare say anything that might offend them.

    Now a pleasant man is something quite different: pleasant is power, held in proper restraint and exercised with precision and elegance. A pleasant man will speak his mind, set the lead, but he also knows how to listen and show the proper degree of interest and respect.

    He may put himself first, but he also genuinely cares for and cares about his woman (or women). They are of great importance to him as long as they treat him right and work within the rules that he has made very clear.Most important: his world is his own. He never, NEVER makes the WOMAN his world, around which he orbits. He does allow her to come into his world and occasionally even be at the center WITH him.When you get these distinctions you will move into a powerful life with women.
    You will never be “nice” again.But you will also never have to bully, beg or buy.

    Peace and piece,
  2. The Finest

    The Finest JF-Expert Member

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    I think Ross Jeffries is an IDIOT.
  3. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    If y'all didn't care you wouldn't be getting any.
  4. UmkhontoweSizwe

    UmkhontoweSizwe JF-Expert Member

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    This guy is damn RIGHT!
  5. BelindaJacob

    BelindaJacob JF-Expert Member

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    You do CARE bigtym!!
  6. Chamoto

    Chamoto JF-Expert Member

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    Ross is teaching men to use Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) to manipulate, (oh I meant picking up) women, but Maundumula don't listen to him he's an ***ole. Back in the nineties he stole one of his student's girlfriend, the guy (let's call him Dave) was pissed off so bad, his revenge was to become his biggest competitor.

    Having said that, women DO respond to masculinity traits such as consistency, power, dominance and calmness because these traits give them assurance.
  7. mpinga shetani

    mpinga shetani JF-Expert Member

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    We never care and still get plenty of you. the caring guys end up being cheated and dumped.
  8. Ambitious

    Ambitious JF-Expert Member

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    This Ross J guy should be marked 'Not suitable for ladies' on his forehead.He's a bad influence on gentlemen.
  9. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Yeahh right!!
  10. A

    Ave Ave Maria JF-Expert Member

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    Love may be termed as a dirty game....yeah, but for how long shall that principle of yours apply as far as the end justifies the means and not vice versa??
  11. Kongosho

    Kongosho JF-Expert Member

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    sure, ndo maana wanaoa waume wenzao
  12. King'asti

    King'asti JF-Expert Member

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    Three can play that game!
    So u think smart guys* like you never get cheated or dumped?