About dreams
"The one whose thoughts dwell too much on sexual matters has dreams of sex, which signify that he must make conscious effort to dislodge these acquired conscious and subconscious sex impulses from the conscious and subconscious minds"
Kama hiyo QUOTE inavyoeleza your dreams reflect what your thoughts are. Na hizo thoughts na hisia haziji hivihivi, zinazaliwa per your desires.
The best way to deal with it, is to be honest and sincere with yourself.