My Man is a workaholic

Pamoja na kuwa interested na kazi zake, jaribu kumuiba mara kwa mara. Mfano msapraizi na kidate cha dinner. Mfuate ofcn muambie twende mahali kuna bendi ama dinner, ama hata star gazing. Get a together hobby kama swimming ama gym once a week.

Dinners anapenda huyo,old habits die hard though,will take it slowly
 
Bora huyo kuliko ashinde kwenye group kuangalia picha za uchiii
 

Mkuu nimekusoma mara tatu tatu mana umekua very practical,ahsantee,
will take it slowly mana sitaki kumkosea heshima au akose motivation...
approach ya ur wife nimeipenda
 
mkuu nimekusoma mara tatu tatu mana umekua very practical,ahsantee,
will take it slowly mana sitaki kumkosea heshima au akose motivation...
approach ya ur wife nimeipenda

Karibu sana

Najua you women are very intelligent....na kwa maswali yako na nia yako hapa you are very positive katika kumsaidia

I wish the best na ifanikiwe kwako kama ilivyokuwa kwetu
 
Karibu sana

Najua you women are very intelligent....na kwa maswali yako na nia yako hapa you are very positive katika kumsaidia

I wish the best na ifanikiwe kwako kama ilivyokuwa kwetu

Amen,InshAllah naamini itawezekana
 
Wakati mwingine tunafanya kazi kupita kiasi kwa kuhofia vitu vi-2, maisha in general and you, our wives, in particular. Mmetujengea imani kuwa what matters to you women ni hela, hela and hela...na because we get money out of work then we ain't got no option but to work our heads off!

Kabla ya kuwa deep katika mahusiano I used to enjoy reading novels very much, watching movies, listening to music, seaside walk n.k, kwa bahati 95% ya starehe zangu ni indoor lakini baada ya kuwajua wanawake mlivyo money-minded hivi sasa starehe niliyobaki nayo na ambayo only God cames first ni kuangalia match ya chelsea so stop complaining untill mtakapotupa reasons to believe you shall stick with us hata hela isipotosha katika familia!

You cant eat your cake and have it!
 

Unapenda sana kuchangia kwa kidhungu,we kwenu UK mkuu?
 

Thanks man,but mind you not all women value money most,some we care more about partnership,ila umesomeka mana nakubali pia money is very important,but getting more of it and keeping ur rlship at stake nayo si vizuri pia,
poleni ila ndo mjue ur missed sana when u overwork urselvz
 
namuonea huruma pia anavochoka jmn with work in his mind kila saa,

Can he get "it" up when you need him to?:smile-big:..to some of us work is fun, it can get very addictive but one's always got to be on the look out for this impacting family life....
 

you sound reasonably my lady,

Now lets try this, unajua kitu kinachoitwa "opportunity cost"? its lyk..you forfeit something so as to gain something else...say you are willing to abstain from drinking a beer so that you can buy a movie compact disk with that beer money, so the beer (or lack of it to be exact) is the opportunity cost of that Movie CD

Now my sister, in all honesty can you tell me you are willing to miss some of the essentials you get from spending your husband's money..you are willing to lack them so that you can have more time with your hubby?..if the answer is yes then you husband is one hell of a lucky guy and go ahead and tell him, atakuelewa and you will be happier..both of you.
 
Hivi wanawake wenye huruma kwa waume zao bado mpo?mmmhh kuna wanaume wana bahati lol.
 
nakumbuka wakati fulani nilipo kuwa nimeajiriwa kwa majirani akina MK254 pale jijini nairobi.nilikuwa nina tabia ya kujifanya workaholic,wenzangu wanatoka saa 11/12 jioni ,wananiachia funguo nami nakomaa mpaka saa 5/6 usiku.nilikuwa sina sababu ya kuwahi maskani kwangu buruburu since familia yangu (wife and kids) ipo tanzania.niwahi nini nyumbani wakati naishi peke yangu katika nchi ya watu,ni kupiga kazi kwa kwenda mbele.

sasa basi,siku moja ilipo fika saa 6 usiku,nikafunga ofisi na kuelekea geti kuu la jengo ili nitoke niende stendi kuchukua matatu(dala dala) nielekee zangu nyumbani.nilipo fika getini,mlinzi akanizuia.akaniambia mtized siwezi nikakuruhusu uendee nyumbani mida hii,nikapigwa na butwaa!!.nikamuuluza kwanini hutaki kunifungulia mlango niende?,akaniambia sikiliza mtized this is nairobi na hii ni mida ya wakora(wahalifu),kwa maana hiyo sitataka niwajibike kwa lolote litakalo kutokea.

nikawa mkali,nikaanza kumfokea mlinzi kwa kutotaka kunifungulia geti.basi baada ya majibizano ya kama dakika 15 hivi,mlinzi yule akawa mpole na akakubali kunifungulia geti kwa sharti kwamba chochote kitakacho nitokea nje ya geti,yeye hatawajibika.

nikatoka na nikawa natembea kuelekea kituo cha daladala hatua chache toka ofisini.baada ya dakika kama 5 hivi nikasikia milio ya risasi ikitoa upande niliokuwa naelekea.wakora walikuwa kazini,kuna tukio walikuwa wanapiga katika duka moja jirani na jengo ilipo ofisi yetu.

nilichanganyikiwa maana nilikuwa peke yangu pale njiani,walinzi wote wamejifungia ndani ya mageti yao,ifahamike kwamba walinzi wa majengo jijini nairobi huwa wanajifungia ndani ya majengo wanayolinda na kuacha kijishimo kidogo ktk geti ili kuchungulia kinacho endelea nje,hii ni tofauti na dsm ambapo baadhi ya makampuni au majengo,walinzi hujifungia nje.

milio ya risasi ilikuwa inaendelea kurindima,uamuzi wa haraka ulionijia ni kukimbilia katika geti la lile jengo la ofisi yetu.nilifika pale nikiwa nahema kwa hofu na uoga,nikwamwita yule mlinzi na kumuomba anifungulie geti nirudi ndani,mwanzo alisita lakini baadaye alinifungulia kwa tendo la haraka na kufunga geti mda huo huo.

baada ya hali ile kutulia,sharti alilonipa ni kwamba hatofungua geti tena mda ule,hivyo basi itabidi nilale ofisi.nilikubaliana na uamuzi wake bila ubishi.nililala ofisini mpaka asubuhi.tangu siku ile,niliachana kabisa na tabia ya kujifanya workaholic kwa kazi za kuajiliwa na kuchelewa kutoka ofisini until midnight

ninachotaka kukwambia dada yangu badiebey ni kwamba usikubali shemeji atoke kazini night hours,kwani kwa kufanya hivyo ipo siku atakukumbana na majanga asiyo yatarajia,haijalishi anatumia private transport au public transport.
kwa mfano mvutie picha pale siku moja atakapo zimikiwa na umeme ktk jengo la ghorofa 5/6 mda wa usiku,halafu jengo zima amebaki peke yake ofisini ghorofa ya 4.noma sana.
 
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