Mwanaume ni yupi hapa??

AshaDii · Oct 13, 2011

Shantel said:
Hivi tunapozungumzia mwanamke malaya ni yule anayetembea na wanaume wengi kwa pamoja bila mpangilio yaani kawapanga foleni,, au yule anayekuwa na wapenzi wengi lakini anakuwa na huyu kwa miezi anamchoka anakuwa na mwingine tena na tena na huyu wa pili naye ni malaya? unajua nimemwazia jenipher Lopez, anabadili sana na bado wanaume wako proud kuwa naye, au umalaya wa mtu unategemea na stutus yake?

Nikirudi kwa The boss, mi nadhani ukiamua kumuoa mwanamke oa unayempenda kwa dhati haijalishi kama alikuwa malaya au vipi, maadam kakubali kutulia na wewe kwa nia moja ya kujenga famili, kwangu mimi kidume kati ya wale wawili ni yule aliyeoa mwanamke anaempenda ila alikuwa malaya sababu yaliyopita si ndwele, tushaona watu wanaolewa mabikira badae wanakuja kuwa malaya wa kutupwa, bora huyo aliyefanya kabla ya pingu

Shantel huo mdadala ni mgumu saana Mpenzi... Hua tu unanishinda maana kumuita mwanamke mwenzio malaya..... Dah!

AshaDii · Oct 13, 2011

Kaizer said:
Hapo Fidel80 Barabara kabisa....lol

Sweetie una hakika hapo unamsemea Fidel80?? (maana reading between the lines.... I am short of words..)

Fixed Point · Oct 13, 2011

AshaDii said:
Naelewa saaana Mambo ya a dedicated house wife.... NIMEFURAHI Mpenzi kukuona (thou avatar ilinichanginyi kidogo...hahaha)

ha haaaaaaaaaaaaa, mambo ya kujibadilisha mara kwa mara.
Asante my dear, nimefurahi kuwa hapa pia, ila majukumu bado yanaendelea. hii kazi ni nzuri sana.

TIQO · Oct 13, 2011

The Boss said:
mimi nilisema 'aneonekana malaya' kwa jamii..
kwa hiyo jinsi jamii inavyoona na sio mimi kusema mwanamke wa hivi ni malaya au sio malaya..

kwa hiyo yes,j lo kwa jamii zingine ni 'malaya ' pia....but ..

hapa nazungumzia jamii yetu inavyom define 'malaya'...

Katika jamii mwanamke mwenye wanaume zaidi ya 2 anaonekana malaya
Lakini mwanaume mwenye wanawake zaidi ya 2 anaonekana mjanja na kidume kumiliki wanawake.
Hii inatokana kwamba mwanamke anayekuwa na wanaume zaidi ya 2 anafanya kwa tamaa ya mshiko ndo maana anaonekana malaya lakini mwanaume kwa vile hahitaji mshiko zaidi ya kutumiza haja zake haonekani malaya.

Fixed Point · Oct 13, 2011

Nyunzo said:
Yule mdogo nae anakua fresh?

Bomba kabisa yaaniiiiiiii

AshaDii · Oct 13, 2011

Kaizer said:
See love...see? we are almost thinking the same......lol

Karibu tena FP

Hny we miss the same people at the same time.... and think alike.... hapo hatujaangalia sector nyingine....lol

The Boss · Oct 13, 2011

AshaDii said:
Shantel huo mdadala ni mgumu saana Mpenzi... Hua tu unanishinda maana kumuita mwanamke mwenzio malaya..... Dah!

hili linahitaji thread yake pekee lol

Caroline Danzi · Oct 13, 2011

Kama Mungu angetuhesabia kwa yale yanayotendeka nani angesimama? Mimi siwezi acha kuolewa na kipenda roho changu kisa watu wanasema eti ni malaya, mbaya wa sura, hajasoma etc. Heshimuni sana mawazo yenu, holy spirit ifanye kazi.

Wanaume/wanawake fanyeni maamuzi kwa kumshirikisha Mungu. Mwaka jana vijana wa kanisani tulifanya matembezi ya usiku sehemu ambazo tunajua wale wadada wanaoishi kwenye mazingira magumu wanasimama. Tulipata wadada 4 roho mtakatifu akashuka ndani yao wakaanza utumishi. 2 wameolewa tayari.

Hakuna kinachoshindikana.

Kaizer · Oct 13, 2011

The Boss said:
umeona sasa????ndio maana hii thread ilikuja kwa kuuliza swali...
wewe unaona hivyo,but kwenye jamii nyingine ukicheza faulo kupata mwanamke 'unadharaulika'
jamii zingine all is fair in the name of love....umeona hapo?????

Yaani kwa jamii yetu ya Kiafrika, unadhani tutakuwa position ipi mkuu apo? LOL.....(rational au normative apo?)

kamalaika · Oct 13, 2011

The Boss said:
but wengi wanachagua heshima kuliko kipenda roho....

Hiyo ni kweli. Lakini baada ya mihangaiko yote ya siku, jioni umefunga milango uko ndani na mtu usiyempenda. Maisha gani hayaaaaaaaaaaa?

Mtambuzi · Oct 13, 2011

AshaDii said:
Kuhusu kuhama.... Mtambuzi amini usiamini whether you like it or not mara nyingi day to day activities wewe hufanyaga hua influenced na jamii ilokuzunguka... La sivo basi watu tungekua na nguo pair mbili to... mana si ilimradi ujisitili?? Kama kweli umependa huyo mwanamke kweli kuhama muhimu... la sivo ita affect the whole family... maneno husimuliwa na kukua from people to people na generation to generation hasa hizi za kashfa za kifamilia.... Unataka watoto wawe pre-judged kabla hawajapewa a chance to live their own life?? Unataka mkeo kila siku akumbushiwe kua alikua malaya makosa daima kutofutwa?? Ni vigumu... lakini like i said we don't live in isolation.

Ok nakubaliana na wewe, kwa sababu tunaishi kimazoea........... lakini mimi kama Mtambuzi, maisha yangu ni ya ajabu sana, huko kwenye jamii nilishaondoka zamani sana, jamii huwa hainisumbui kabisaaaa.............. najua kuna watu wananioana kama mtu wa ajabu lakini wengi wamejifunza kupitia kwangu kw asababu naishi vile nipendavyo, na simkwazi mtu na sitajki mtu anikwaze.......... huw anawapisha wapite na kero zao, kwangu mimi maisha kila siku ni mpya.......................

The Boss · Oct 13, 2011

Kaizer said:
Yaani kwa jamii yetu ya Kiafrika, unadhani tutakuwa position ipi mkuu apo? LOL.....(rational au normative apo?)

hata sii waafrika tumegawanyika....
jiulize wapemba na wakurya au wachaga na wazaramo
au wamasai na wadigo...wanafanana?

Kaizer · Oct 13, 2011

The Boss said:
hata sii waafrika tumegawanyika....
jiulize wapemba na wakurya au wachaga na wazaramo
au wamasai na wadigo...wanafanana?

Kuna mambo 'ya msingi' wanafanana, kama views zao kuhusu mwanamke malaya na mwanamke malaya, I believe

The Boss · Oct 13, 2011

Kaizer said:
Kuna mambo 'ya msingi' wanafanana, kama views zao kuhusu mwanamke malaya na mwanamke malaya, I believe

trust me wapemba kama mwanamke hajaolewa na sio bikira ni 'malaya'
huwezi sema hivyo kwa wahaya au wamasai..ingawa mabadiliko yapo bado ukiwa pemba sio sawa na ukiwa moshi...
na kuhusu 'uanaume ' mpemba na mkurya nafuikiri wanatofautiana....

manenge · Oct 13, 2011

Inategemea
Mwanamke anaweza kuwa malaya kwa sababu za umaskini tu ila akiolewa na mtu mwenye mshiko akatulia na na kuwa mama mzuri kabisa.
Lakini kama umalaya wake unasababishwa na kuwa na nyege za kupita kiasi (nymphomania), huyo hata akiolewa bado ataendele kuchakachuliwa na wajanja wengine.
Kuhusu kuoa mwanamke mwenye sifa zote lakini humpendi hii ni hatari usijaribu hata siku moja kwani haiwezi kudumu

Kaizer · Oct 13, 2011

AshaDii said:
Sweetie una hakika hapo unamsemea Fidel80?? (maana reading between the lines.... I am short of words..)

hahahah love...you know I am missing no nothing.....you know Fidel80? Thats his GAME...lol

Fidel80 · Oct 13, 2011

Nyunzo said:
We jamaa kama hili linakufaa sio?

Mi hawa hawa ndo huwa wanaliza jamani angalieni wenyewe kha!!
Huyu hata kama jambazi mimi hapo ndo nimefika mwe mwe mwe mwe
Ile nyumba ya urithi niliyo uza yaweza ishia kwa huyu.

Fidel80 · Oct 13, 2011

Kaizer said:
hahahah love...you know I am missing no nothing.....you know Fidel80? Thats his GAME...lol

Kitu kama hizo huwa napata ukichaa flani mkichwa nimewahi ifuata moja Nairobi tukaenda Mombasa dah we acha tu mpwa.

jadia · Oct 13, 2011

mi nadhani wa kwanza kwamba unakuwa na maamuzi yako bila kumtegemea mtu maana huwezi kufurahisha jamii, kumbuka watu huwa hawakosi la kusema hata huyo ambaye watamuona mzuri wa tabia iko siku watapata la kusema, ni vizuri kuoa ambaye unampenda mana ndoa nayo ngumu kama haina msingi wa kupendana!!!!!! mh kazi ipo

Mtambuzi · Oct 13, 2011

The Boss said:
hata sii waafrika tumegawanyika....
jiulize wapemba na wakurya au wachaga na wazaramo
au wamasai na wadigo...wanafanana?

Inawezekana bana, kule uchagani nimekuta Mchaga kaoa mzaramo na yuko mgombani kama kawa........... kabadilika mpaka lafudhi utadhani ni mchaga..............

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