Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by MWAMOSHI, Mar 31, 2010.
Naomba kujua dalili za MWANAMKE AU MWANAUME asiyekupenda
Ungesema dalili za MWANAMKE AU MWANAUME asiyekupenda ili kuweka sawa mjadala!
1.Hatakushirikisha katika maamuz yake mengi, tena yale yanayogusa familia!
hatakuwa na muda na wewe ukaribu utatoweka na kila utakachosema atakuwa ana ignore
hatojali na maamuzi yako unayochukua japo akijua kuwa yatakuathiri vibaya
A guy once told me, @ love is like politics, what you see is not what you get. Kujua dalili inaweza isisaidie sana. Hujamuona Fidel80 alikuwa mlokole, akaacha na pombe? Follow your guts, listen to your heart mamy.
Kila siku anajadili ngono,hata siku moja jadali future yenu.
Hakutafuti, hakujali na wala hakuthamini.
Na kama ni mke /mume? most of reasons hapo zinaaply kwa GF/BF tu.
Ni kama hizi, bali ni baadhi tu;
1. Hata anapokuaproach, anakuwa na confidence sana kwa sababu haoni hata shida akikukosa, hivyo hatakuwa makini kwa hilo kabisa.
2. Atakapokupata tu, ataanza kukueleza mwanamke ambaye yuko naye na kuanza kukuchenga.
3. Hakupi namba zake za simu, na akikupa ankupatia isiyopatikana muda mwingi.
4. Atakusihi kutombeep, au kumpigia simu, wala kutuma message kwa kuwa atakuwa busy, au mbali.
5. Kamwe hatakuonea wivu ukiwa na mwanaume mwingine.
6. Kamwe hatakuwa tayari ndugu zako na zake kufahamu mahusiano yenu.
7. Hawezi hata siku moja kuihairisha safari yake ili awe nawe, sometimes.
8. Mkikutana na kuspend pamoja kukawia kwa muda mfupi tu, kisha anaondoka; inakuwa ni tabia yake ya mara nyingi, bali si mara zote.
9. Hatakueleza mipango yake halisi katika maisha, na akikueleza ni kwa kiasi kidogo mno.
10. Hasiti hata kukueleza wazi kuwa huko nyuma alikutamani, na si kukupenda.
Just to mention few........
Hizi ni za mwanaume asiyekupenda according to mtandao niliodesa na mimi nauamini maana umeokoa ndoa yangu several times:
Many relationships are the best when they just started dating. Everything seem to be so perfect and romantic in the initial stage. However, many relationships start to die off when they are together for too long. The mind of thinking that he or she is the perfect partner also start to become "not so perfect." Here are some of the common signs that your husband doesn't love you as much as before.
- Lost of interest in you
One of the most obvious signs that your husband doesn't love you is he seems to have lost interest in you. He does not seem to be interested in getting intimate with you and he is not showing as much care and concern on you now.
- Various kinds of excuses not to accompany you
Is he coming out with various kinds of excuses not to come home early? Most of the common excuses will be busy at work, with his guy friends or maybe a sudden interest in certain activities.
- deletion of call history and messages
You see him deleting his call history and text messages more frequently. If he does not have a habit of doing that before, it is quite likely that he does not want you to know about the mysterious caller and it may be his lover.
- Many new gifts not sent by you
Here is another common signs that your husband doesn't love you if he is having an affair outside. He is wearing new shirt, perfume or tie not bought by you or him. This is quite suspicious especially if he is a person that do not like to shop.
Do not go confronting your husband without the real proof. It is critical that you stay calm and cool when you are working towards to save your marriage alone.
Na hizi ni sababu tunazosemwa wanawake kuwa tunacheat. reading them indicates zinaaply both kwa wanwake na wanaume:
The Top 10 Signs Your Wife Is Cheating On You
1. Physical changes in her appearance.
She normally dresses differently but nowadays she takes a little more care and also wears stuff without even asking you anymore, whether you like it or not. In the past she would always ask for your approval but now she no longer does. She is wearing sexy and attractive outfits all of a sudden. Beware. She is not wearing it for you.
2. How she treats you.
This is really important and is always the initial sign. If she has started to treat you differently from the way she used to, then this could be a sign. Any change in behavior is questionable, especially if she was very loving before and now no longer is.
3. The things she has started to say...
She no longer speaks of things that interest you or people you know. But is always talking about new things and new people she has met. Her tone of voice and body language can say a lot.
4. Work habits...
She will always make an excuse that she has to work late and when it becomes a regular thing, is the dangerous part. She may be busy elsewhere.
5. Her complete routine has changed...
You are definite that she is very strict about routine. And now all of sudden, she has broken all the rules and timings set by her only. Daily routine is no longer important to her. And dinner is never ready at times. Watch out.
6. In regard to her finances...
Always keep a watch on her spending or her credit card bills. This is a sure way of finding out as most affairs cost a lot of money. And this cannot be hidden for long.
7. Travel has increased...
When she keeps saying that she has to travel on company business, try to find out with whom or for what through your own sources. It might help you.
8. Complete change in attitudes...
If she is having a relationship, she will definitely start being rude to you and neglect you all the time. Sometimes it may be subtle but still keep a watch for change in behavior.
9. Never at home...
This is a sure indicator as for most women their home is where their heart is. But if you realize that she is never at home when she should be, then something is up buddy. Take care.
10. Too many telephone calls...
Marital affairs mostly on the phone. That is the only way of keeping in contact as they don't reside in the same house. Keep your eyes open for phone bills or sneaky talk behind the closed bedroom door. Unfaithfully Yours, is what she is telling you, in not so many words. Be wise but never rash.
Asandeni! ale sande!