Msaidieni huyu..wanaume tu

jamii01 · Feb 7, 2011

Nilikutana na rafiki yangu jana jioni..katika mazungumzo yangu aliniomba ushauri..nikaona ngoja niwashilishe kwa wadau..

Rafiki yangu huyu ana umri wa miaka 32.siku zilizopita alikuwa na marafiki wa kike(girlfriends)baada ya mda basi hakawa anatengeneza mahusianio yanavunjika baada ya mda..sasa yuko single ila shida anayoipata anasema amepoteza hamu kabisa ya kuwa na mahusiano na mwanamke..na wala ajisikii kuwa tena kwenye mapenzi..

Basi anasema huwa anasijikia furaha zaidi pale anapotoka na marafiki zake kuliko kuwa na girlfriend.

Sasa mtu wa namna hii unaweza kumsaidia namna gani li haweze kukurudia katika mahusiano isitoshe umri unakwenda inampasa hawe na family.

VoiceOfReason · Feb 7, 2011

Yaonekana yale yaliyomkuta kwa kukutana na hao girlfriends yamem-turn off kwenye relationship.., Hapa inabidi ajue kwamba sio wote wako kama hao aliokutana nao,

Kama marafiki zake mnaweza mkawa mnatoka nae na kwa wakati huu anaweza akawa na marafiki wa kike with no strings attached.., huu sio muda wa kuforce commitment kwa sababu ya umri unakwenda, akipata anayefaa ndio afunge ndoa.

Na nyie marafiki zake msimlazimishe kwenye uhusiano mnachoweza kufanya ni ku-create surroundings za kumkutanisha na visura (even just for physical and not emotionally ili kuondoa upweke).

Siku akipata anayefaa yeye mwenyewe atawaambia...

Lutala · Feb 7, 2011

Kaanza kuwa bwabwa nini? Inabidi mumchunguze vizuri

MONTESQUIEU · Feb 7, 2011

jamii01 said:
Nilikutana na rafiki yangu jana jioni..katika mazungumzo yangu aliniomba ushauri..nikaona ngoja niwashilishe kwa wadau..

Rafiki yangu huyu ana umri wa miaka 32.siku zilizopita alikuwa na marafiki wa kike(girlfriends)baada ya mda basi hakawa anatengeneza mahusianio yanavunjika baada ya mda..sasa yuko single ila shida anayoipata anasema amepoteza hamu kabisa ya kuwa na mahusiano na mwanamke..na wala ajisikii kuwa tena kwenye mapenzi..

Basi anasema huwa anasijikia furaha zaidi pale anapotoka na marafiki zake kuliko kuwa na girlfriend.

Sasa mtu wa namna hii unaweza kumsaidia namna gani li haweze kukurudia katika mahusiano isitoshe umri unakwenda inampasa hawe na family.

Y awezekana mkono wake ni mfupi, so anaona bora atoke na wanaume maana wana mzungushia na yeye hapendi gharama

Babu Lao · Feb 7, 2011

MONTESQUIEU said:
Y awezekana mkono wake ni mfupi, so anaona bora atoke na wanaume maana wana mzungushia na yeye hapendi gharama

Yawezekana kukawa na ukweli kiasi flani hapa!!!!

Paul S.S · Feb 7, 2011

Lutala said:
Kaanza kuwa bwabwa nini? Inabidi mumchunguze vizuri

Yaani nimeangua kicheko hadi naonekana chizi, dah hizi comment zingine bana very funny.

Mkuu muache kwanza maana hayo mambo hayalazimishwi yanahitaji utashi wa muhusika mwenyewe, nadhani ni kipindi cha mpito tu.

jamii01 · Feb 7, 2011

swala la kuwa ubwabwa sifikirii kabisa...na kwamaba anaogopa gharama hakuna kwa sababu anaishi maisha mazuri tu ya kisasa kama mtu anweza kufanya bisahara ya kupata si chini 7M faida kila mwezi huwezi kusema anakimbia gharama..Voiceofreason naona umefanya vizuri tu jamaa yangu inaonyesha wanamtenda kwa hiyo ameamua kupunzika..

MONTESQUIEU · Feb 7, 2011

jamii01 said:
swala la kuwa ubwabwa sifikirii kabisa...na kwamaba anaogopa gharama hakuna kwa sababu anaishi maisha mazuri tu ya kisasa kama mtu anweza kufanya bisahara ya kupata si chini 7M faida kila mwezi huwezi kusema anakimbia gharama..Voiceofreason naona umefanya vizuri tu jamaa yangu inaonyesha wanamtenda kwa hiyo ameamua kupunzika..

Mabahili sio masikini ni maselfish

Rwamuhuru · Feb 7, 2011

time heals
mshaur atulie kwa sasa, wt tme he'l fnd hmself falling in love again. ASILAZIMISHE kwa kigezo cha umri kwenda

newmzalendo · Feb 7, 2011

mshauri amrudie mungu,kama muslim aswali swala 5,kama mkirsto mshauri ashiriki kanisani,siyo kwenda on sundays only,bali ajichanganye ktk social duties za kidini ,ajitolee japo 2hrs per week ,then ataona changes.kwanza atapata marafiki wa ukweli,then ataweza kudevelop social interactions.
kinachomkuta kwa sasa ni kuwa wasichana wanavutiwa na kipato chake,then wakishakizoea,be it gari,nyumba nzuri ,outings etc.wanaseapa na kurudia mabwana zao .na kwa kuwa yeye ni mfanyabiashara hajui kuhonga kama wala rushwa wa Tz,mfanyabiashara makini huwa anatoa pesa zake kwa plani,ila mla rushwa wa serikali ya Ja akaya yeye anatoa tu,kwani zinaingia bila plan na huwa zinatoka bila plan

Dr Lizzy · Feb 7, 2011

Well kama VoR alivyosema kulazimisha mahusiano haitamsaidia!
Nyie marafiki zake kama mna mahusiano yenu ambayo ni mazuri itakua vizuri mkiwa mnayaongelea mara kwa mara...ili aone kwamba wapo wanawake ambao ni tofauti na huyo aliyemkatisha tamaa na kwamba nyie mnafurahia.
Kingine anaweza akawa na marafiki wa kike bila kua wapenzi....hii itamsaidia kuona tabia zao zinavyotofautiana.

VoiceOfReason · Feb 7, 2011

newmzalendo said:
mshauri amrudie mungu,kama muslim aswali swala 5,kama mkirsto mshauri ashiriki kanisani,siyo kwenda on sundays only,bali ajichanganye ktk social duties za kidini ,ajitolee japo 2hrs per week ,then ataona changes.kwanza atapata marafiki wa ukweli,then ataweza kudevelop social interactions.

Just for argument sake....
Kwani pale mwanzo alikuwa hayupo na Mungu?
Je marafiki wa kweli wanapatikana kanisani peke yake, au hata kwenye mabar, soko, na mitaani?

Nauliza tu sababu kuna tabia ya watu kumkimbilia Mungu pale wanapokumbwa na matatizo wengine huwa wanapitiliza kwenye ulokole mpaka kuchanganyikiwa, yaani wanatatua tatizo moja na linazaliwa jingine...

klorokwini · Feb 7, 2011

hapa guarantee panahitajika ushauri wangu. lakini niko bizee kinomi leo. hashy, VoR na ankal ze fainest mnaombwa kuziba pengo. hakikisheni jamaa anapata suluhisho. na Lizzy unaombwa kunigongea senks.brb

makandokando · Feb 7, 2011

haina haja ya kumsaidia, hana tatizo lolote....sasa sana kama anaweza kulea amzalishe girlfriend mmojapo maisha yaendelee...na hata hivyo kuzaa sio lazima sikuhizi...tunao watanzania mambumbumbu wakutosha.

VoiceOfReason · Feb 7, 2011

makandokando said:
haina haja ya kumsaidia, hana tatizo lolote....sasa sana kama anaweza kulea amzalishe girlfriend mmojapo maisha yaendelee...na hata hivyo kuzaa sio lazima sikuhizi...tunao watanzania mambumbumbu wakutosha.

:confused2::confused2::confused2:

Husninyo · Feb 7, 2011

Sa zingine hata mimi huwa sioni kama kuna ulazima wa kuwa kwenye mahusiano.
Nafikiri jamaa alikuwa anawahi kuanzisha uhusiano mpya pindi wa zamani ukivunjika.
Mwambie ajipe muda kwa sasa hata miaka 2 huku akiinteract na wasichana wengi wengi ili awajue hawa viumbe.

klorokwini · Feb 7, 2011

Lizzy said:
Well kama VoR alivyosema kulazimisha mahusiano haitamsaidia!
Nyie marafiki zake kama mna mahusiano yenu ambayo ni mazuri itakua vizuri mkiwa mnayaongelea mara kwa mara...ili aone kwamba wapo wanawake ambao ni tofauti na huyo aliyemkatisha tamaa na kwamba nyie mnafurahia.
Kingine anaweza akawa na marafiki wa kike bila kua wapenzi....hii itamsaidia kuona tabia zao zinavyotofautiana.

Husninyo said:
Sa zingine hata mimi huwa sioni kama kuna ulazima wa kuwa kwenye mahusiano.
Nafikiri jamaa alikuwa anawahi kuanzisha uhusiano mpya pindi wa zamani ukivunjika.
Mwambie ajipe muda kwa sasa hata miaka 2 huku akiinteract na wasichana wengi wengi ili awajue hawa viumbe.

hivi nyinyi mmebadilisha jinsia? , heading ya sredi inasemaje?

Michelle · Feb 7, 2011

Time is a healer....oopppppsssssssss ni kwa wanaume tu.......:horn::sorry::car::car:

Husninyo · Feb 7, 2011

klorokwini said:
hivi nyinyi mmebadilisha jinsia? , heading ya sredi inasemaje?

aaah mwalimu. Hadi kwenye kuomba misaada mnatunyanyapaa.

klorokwini · Feb 7, 2011

Husninyo said:
aaah mwalimu. Hadi kwenye kuomba misaada mnatunyanyapaa.

failure to follow instruction.................... malizia. sasa instruction ya sredi inasemaje? naomba ukuje lab. tuje kumpasua mende kidogo

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