Msaaada wenu waungwana katika hili!

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Kuna kaka mmoja alikuwa akimfuatilia rafiki yangu (wote wanafanya kazi) ni kwa muda mrefu atlast dada akaamua kuanzisha mahusiano nae kama wiki tatu zimepita.

Tatizo alilonielezea ni kuwa kaka kila akitoka ofisini lazima apitie bar na kunywa (monday to friday weekend ndo mziki na bar ni time table) kwa binafis yake hapendi hiyo tabia kwani hakuna muda wa yeye kukaaa na BF na kupanga the wayfoward to their life/relation(kama mnavyojua earlystage in relation zinavyokuwa) kwa kuwa akirudi kalewa huku day time ni kaz hawana muda wa kuongea.

Kingine at the first week baada ya kukubali uhusiano aliandaa keki ya kumshukuru huyu mpenzi wake kwa kumpenda ie "just to say thanks for loving me" but huyu kaka hajamlete zawadi yoyote ile so anajisikia vibaya mno

Amesha mueleza kuwa hizo bia za daily sio nzuri hata kwa afya yake ila ameendelea kunywa tu.
Anaomba ushauri je amuache au aendelee maana kama ktk stage hiyo na kaka ndo anabehave hivyo ni bora kumuacha mapema kuepusha maumivu ya moyo wake au mnashauri nini ma great thinker????

ILA anampenda tu na wish yake ajekuwa baba watoto

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Natanguliza shukrani zangu kwa michango yenu yenye busara na hekima.

rosemarie · May 14, 2011

hivi mnakosa cha kufikiria???????????/aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Yakuonea · May 14, 2011

Mwambie aache upofu....

Susy · May 14, 2011

we si useme tu kama ni wewe??

kama kwa mda mrefu anamfuatilia inamaana alikuwa hajua (ulikuwa hujui) kama huyo boyfriend wako ni mnywaji????

wewe ukitoa unategemea kurejezewa???? jifunze kutenda wema uende zako usingoje shukrani!! Aalaaah usiniudhi bure !!

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

rosemarie said:
hivi mnakosa cha kufikiria???????????/aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

mmh its so silly....
ni vyema usichangie kama ni crap kwako
anyway thank too

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Susy said:
we si useme tu kama ni wewe??

kama kwa mda mrefu anamfuatilia inamaana alikuwa hajua (ulikuwa hujui) kama huyo boyfriend wako ni mnywaji????

wewe ukitoa unategemea kurejezewa???? jifunze kutenda wema uende zako usingoje shukrani!! Aalaaah usiniudhi bure !!

asnte kwa thoughts zako
ila si mimi

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Yakuonea said:
Mwambie aache upofu....

i will

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

nawashukuru wote kwa majibu yenu

Ombeni Charles · May 14, 2011

Sasa wewe unataka tuwashauri nini wakati hao jamaa si wanandoa? Huyo mdada tayari ameshagundua tabia ya huyo mme wake mtarajiwa siyo nzuri, kajaribu kumshauri lakini bado hataki kubadirika, sasa hapa anachotaka ni nini tena? Mimi mwenyewe yameshanikuta kama ya huyo mdada. Mimi bado sijaowa, kuna binti nilitokea kumpenda kiasi kwamba huyu binti ndo niliona anafaa kuwa wife wangu, lakini baada ya kumchunguza tabia yake looo! Nilijuta kumfahamu. Nikagundua anatabia ambayo siipendi kabisa! ni mlevi, siyo mwaminifu, hana heshima kwa wazazi wake na majirani n.k kwa vile nilikuwa nampenda nikajaribu kumshauri ili ache hizo tabia lakini wapi! huyo dada ukimwona alivyoumbika huwezi ukaamini kama ana hizo tabia ama kweli uzuri wa m2 siyo sura! Sasa basi, kwa vile lengo langu kwa huyo mrembo ilikuwa kumwoa na tayari nimeshagundua huyo ninayetaka kumwoa hana sifa ninazozitaka, imebidi niachana naye japo nilikuwa ninapenda. Sasa wewe ni nini unachong'ang'ania? Si afadhali umewahi kujua tabia yake kabla hamjaoana? Acha king'ang'anizi!!!!!

Speaker · May 14, 2011

Kama hata hilo nalo ushauriwe,basi tena!

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Speaker said:
Kama hata hilo nalo ushauriwe,basi tena!

Ni kweli speaker inaonekana halihitaji ushauri ila mim ni rafiki tu na akamua kunishirikisha ila kwa sisi ladies unaweza mwambia mtu achan nae akahisi tofauti ila akipata ushauri kwa watu wasiomjua ni rahisi sana thts why nikamsaidia ku present hmu kwani na yeye ni member atasoma tu

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Either way she was asking kwa kuwa ni maapema mno au ni sawa tu yey kufanya maamuzi ya kumuacha just to get various ideas.......

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Ombeni Charles said:
Sasa wewe unataka tuwashauri nini wakati hao jamaa si wanandoa? Huyo mdada tayari ameshagundua tabia ya huyo mme wake mtarajiwa siyo nzuri, kajaribu kumshauri lakini bado hataki kubadirika, sasa hapa anachotaka ni nini tena? Mimi mwenyewe yameshanikuta kama ya huyo mdada. Mimi bado sijaowa, kuna binti nilitokea kumpenda kiasi kwamba huyu binti ndo niliona anafaa kuwa wife wangu, lakini baada ya kumchunguza tabia yake looo! Nilijuta kumfahamu. Nikagundua anatabia ambayo siipendi kabisa! ni mlevi, siyo mwaminifu, hana heshima kwa wazazi wake na majirani n.k kwa vile nilikuwa nampenda nikajaribu kumshauri ili ache hizo tabia lakini wapi! huyo dada ukimwona alivyoumbika huwezi ukaamini kama ana hizo tabia ama kweli uzuri wa m2 siyo sura! Sasa basi, kwa vile lengo langu kwa huyo mrembo ilikuwa kumwoa na tayari nimeshagundua huyo ninayetaka kumwoa hana sifa ninazozitaka, imebidi niachana naye japo nilikuwa ninapenda. Sasa wewe ni nini unachong'ang'ania? Si afadhali umewahi kujua tabia yake kabla hamjaoana? Acha king'ang'anizi!!!!!

Ni ushauri mzuri na unabusara

Ennie · May 14, 2011

Mwambie wa kufanya maamuzi sahihi ni sasa maana baadae mtatuletea tena Ooh! Mume mlevi sana ila nashindwa kuondoka wanangu watateseka and blah blah. Mwambie Its now or NEVER.

ENZO · May 14, 2011

wewe ni wakuchakachua au wakuchakachuliwa?

Gaga · May 14, 2011

Keki ya kumshukuru???? wanaume wetu w ibongo wengi hawajazoez mambo kama hayo na zawadi ndio kabisaaaa hivo nenda nae taratibu huku ukimwambia hupendi nini na unapenda nini mwisho kama anakupenda atabadilika

Susy · May 14, 2011

Gaga said:
Keki ya kumshukuru???? wanaume wetu w ibongo wengi hawajazoez mambo kama hayo na zawadi ndio kabisaaaa hivo nenda nae taratibu huku ukimwambia hupendi nini na unapenda nini mwisho kama anakupenda atabadilika

Gaga siku nyingine unaongeaga point!!!

Susy · May 14, 2011

Speaker said:
Kama hata hilo nalo ushauriwe,basi tena!

teh teh teh eeeeeeeeeehh hitler!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! leo na ww umenena!!!

Wakuchakachua · May 14, 2011

Gaga said:
Keki ya kumshukuru???? wanaume wetu w ibongo wengi hawajazoez mambo kama hayo na zawadi ndio kabisaaaa hivo nenda nae taratibu huku ukimwambia hupendi nini na unapenda nini mwisho kama anakupenda atabadilika

Gaga u made this day thanks for your advice hope naye anasoma
ubarikiwe

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